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[Geekbabe]

Originally posted by: toant103

Originally posted by: MichaelD
Whoa, whoa, whoa!!! I'm confused about something; you say you live together, in the same apartment, right? But she brought another guy over and cooked for him? Where were you while this was happening? :Q

My room. She said if i wanted some, she can bring the food to my room. If you don't feel right, just stay in your room.That night, i left the apt and spent the night at my friend.

damn, that is soo cold

Just remember, you only get the kind of love that you give, her day for the big comeuppance will happen !

 

[Goosemaster]

Seriously, the ABSOLUTE best thing you can do is move on.


Trash smells and the odor is hard to get off.


Don't BANG another girl silly just to piss her off. That is just plain stupid. Obviously, if you were to go the "bangin' " route, that would only be to piss her off...obviously just making you look like a stupid dumbass.

I RECOMMEND that you don't at all, but then again...if you do, DON"T DO IT FOR REVENGE...


Come out of this the bigger person...


After this is all thorugh......bang at your leisure

 

[Shelly21]

One way to annoy her is to start watching porn at home.


or Southpark
[from a recent episode...]
Fingerbang!
Bang-bang!
Fingerbang-bang!
Bangbangbang!
I'm gonna fingerbang-bang you into my life
Girl, you like to fingerbang, and it's alright.
'Cause I'm the king of fingerbang; let's not fight
I'm goin' tuh fingerbang-bang you ever-y night

And girl, you know that you're the only girl for me, girl.
Girl, you're the girl of my fantasies.
You're my girl, you're my girl,

 

[fishingeek]

The best way to get over someone is to get under someone .

 

[Anghang]

i know i'm petty in my approach...but i say become a passive aggressor....do anything and everything to make her life a living hell!!!...

that b!tch needs to be regulated, whether it be straight up or indirectly...cuz what she did is cold!!!...freakin cold knife thru the heart!!!...

who da hell she think she is?..all high and mighty?...not caring for ppl?...sorry man..but when it comes down to it..she never loved you at all...even after a breakup, if you really loved someone, you'd take their well being into consideration...which you've obviously done in a respectable manner by keeping your cool about this...but that b!tch brought him home and cooked for him!!!...wtf is up with that!!!...

give her attitude..she deserves it...snap at everything she says..and everything she does...if she asks you a question...squash it, don't even open it up for conversation...make it known that she's dead to you and you don't care anything for her anymore...

sorry, i'm pretty vengeful when it comes to these situations...and yea, some say it takes more effort to hate and retaliate...but for me, i find it all the more easier than forgiving and forgetting...ESPECIALLY IF DA B!TCH IS LIVING UNDER THE SAME ROOF!!...

go get yours!!!...

uhh...keep it legal...

good luck..

edit: spelling..

 

[InfectedMushroom]

Originally posted by: toant103

Originally posted by: MichaelD
Whoa, whoa, whoa!!! I'm confused about something; you say you live together, in the same apartment, right? But she brought another guy over and cooked for him? Where were you while this was happening? :Q

My room. She said if i wanted some, she can bring the food to my room. If you don't feel right, just stay in your room.That night, i left the apt and spent the night at my friend.

dude, sorry to say this, but you're letting it happen to you.

be a fvcking man and stop whining.
tell the fvcking bitch that she's insensitive for bringing another guy over, and to not even think about doing that again.

one of you has to move. now.

 

[oLLie]

Throw acid on her face.








Seriously though, don't.

 

[Flashram]

I'm just guessing here, but I'd have to say your grammar.

amish

 

[toant103]

Originally posted by: InfectedMushroom

Originally posted by: toant103

Originally posted by: MichaelD
Whoa, whoa, whoa!!! I'm confused about something; you say you live together, in the same apartment, right? But she brought another guy over and cooked for him? Where were you while this was happening? :Q

My room. She said if i wanted some, she can bring the food to my room. If you don't feel right, just stay in your room.That night, i left the apt and spent the night at my friend.

dude, sorry to say this, but you're letting it happen to you.

be a fvcking man and stop whining.
tell the fvcking bitch that she's insensitive for bringing another guy over, and to not even think about doing that again.

one of you has to move. now.

I already told her that. That's why she's not cooking for him anymore. she brought her friend over today to cook for him.
it's not like she's going to listen to me. The sad part is I still want to be her.

 

[gopunk]

i dunno, she did offer you food. i guess you have to get over her, but once you did.... free food ain't bad.

 

[Kevin]

Screw with her birth control pills, that'll teach her... :disgust:

 

[Schadenfreude]

Originally posted by: toant103
gf break up with you after 4 years. We live in the same apt. Next thing you know it, she brought him home to the apt and cooked for him.
She never even cooked for me in the 4 years we're together.

it's been 2 weeks since the break up. But it seems like an eternity to me.

Can some1 just shoot me please?

Stab . . . er, I mean, instead of banging some slut, go find another meaningful realationship that she never could have with you. Then make your [future] GF the happiest person alive - that'll be a good, cold dish of revenge

 

[freakflag]

Kick her lying, cheating,cold-hearted, skank, whore ass out the door and down the steps.

Then burn all her sh!t on the front lawn.

That's what I'd do, but then, I'm more sensitive than most.

 

[oLLie]

Originally posted by: Jehovah

Originally posted by: toant103
gf break up with you after 4 years. We live in the same apt. Next thing you know it, she brought him home to the apt and cooked for him.
She never even cooked for me in the 4 years we're together.

it's been 2 weeks since the break up. But it seems like an eternity to me.

Can some1 just shoot me please?

Stab . . . er, I mean, instead of banging some slut, go find another meaningful realationship that she never could have with you. Then make your [future] GF the happiest person alive - that'll be a good, cold dish of revenge

I gotta say I like his idea!

 

[RbSX]

Originally posted by: jjones
stab her.

I second that, if you can't stab her atleast well.... stab her!

 

[RbSX]

Originally posted by: toant103

Originally posted by: MichaelD
Whoa, whoa, whoa!!! I'm confused about something; you say you live together, in the same apartment, right? But she brought another guy over and cooked for him? Where were you while this was happening? :Q

My room. She said if i wanted some, she can bring the food to my room. If you don't feel right, just stay in your room.That night, i left the apt and spent the night at my friend.

Its cases like this that makes me want to bring a gun into places and shoot people I hate, cleanse the world of the people that have no respect for others. Its just plain old sad.

Originally posted by: oLLie

Originally posted by: kherman

Originally posted by: Shelly21
Looks like she's trying to get back at you for something... perhaps not paying enough attention to her (in her mind)?
Regardless... She's doing this out of spite and it is wrong.

Like someone else suggested, a good way to go 'one up' on her is to bring home a
loose woman. I mean, you can even ask a good female friend to go home with you and.....hmmm that might be too much to ask....

YA! Ask a friend of yours that she isn't aware of to come hang out over night. You tell her she cheated on you and you want to get even. Bring her home, watch a movie, then have her sleep over. Have her sleep on the bed, you on the floor. Your ex won't know what's going on(since your room is full of silence), which is better than actually doing anything. She'll be going nuts. Tell your friend everything up front. Maybe even convince her to make out with yuo during hte movie.

Plus, you guys should jump up and down on the bed and make lotsa other noise.

Originally posted by MichaelD
Whoa, whoa, whoa!!! I'm confused about something; you say you live together, in the same apartment, right? But she brought another guy over and cooked for him? Where were you while this was happening?

That's what I wanted to know too!

Short of stabbing here (read second to above post), I think that this is the best idea!

 

[Oakie]

Ignoring what has been said already, this is just too incredulous.
She didn't cook for you for four years and did this? She is absolutely rubbing it in your face.
If that happened to me, she'd find all her belongings on the sidewalk and the locks get changed.

 

[Aceshigh]

Dude, I know exactly what you are feeling. This has got to be one of the worst feelings in the world. I know this is going to sound like everyone else but one of the best ways to help with the immediate hurt really is to find someone to be intimate with right NOW. You will still want your ex, but you won't feel so hopeless. Trust me.

As someone who has had my heart torn out by women before, you have my utmost sympathy and best wishes.

 

[CJZ]

Your ex is either trying to manipulate you or is the most heartless b!*ch ever. I know your tempted to try to work something out with her, but you've got to forget about her. Just leave her alone and let karma deal with her.

 

[toant103]

We got back together today. All my relatives told me not too, same goes with my friends. But I really need her for my last year in college. But at least I know how she is now.
I know a lot of you will be disappointed. I'm not going to spent all my time with her anymore. GOing to go out with friends and do what college kids do.

As for her, she can still see the guy. I ask her only to see him for school related work and in a public place.
I hope everything will go well.
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10-9-02
we're not together anymore. She keep on changing her mind. She want to be with me and with him. I can't do that. So i'm single again.

 

[pootnaay]

the only time in my life I did such self torturous stuff was in my early 20's by the time i was 25 i was so damn battle scarred nothing phased me anyomre....

you'll live
the pain fades pot works wonders... or go sober thats cool too dont f with anything else...

really though can you fight? I would call dude out and beat his a$$ sensless.... dont kill him... but bust his grill wide open... then tell homegirl its her fault... get a restraining order against dude so he cant step in your house....

straight up go study kung fu for a few months... not only will you forget about her... but by the time you could beat his a$$ sensless you'll be a different person and will banging someone new....

 

[Shelly21]

Originally posted by: toant103
We got back together today. All my relatives told me not too, same goes with my friends. But I really need her for my last year in college. But at least I know how she is now.
I know a lot of you will be disappointed. I'm not going to spent all my time with her anymore. GOing to go out with friends and do what college kids do.

As for her, she can still see the guy. I ask her only to see him for school related work and in a public place.
I hope everything will go well.
-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------

10-9-02
we're not together anymore. She keep on changing her mind. She want to be with me and with him. I can't do that. So i'm single again.

Ok, for a minute there I was going to flame you for losing your two little friends down there...... You need to cut her out of your life instead of trying to cut youself down there just to get back together with her.

 

[Anghang]

Originally posted by: toant103

10-9-02
we're not together anymore. She keep on changing her mind. She want to be with me and with him. I can't do that. So i'm single again.

getting back together with her in the first place was a mistake, the fact that you were ok with her seeing that guy for "study related" purposes allows her to have her cake and eat it too....you know they're not just doing school work..

and why is it her that's changing her mind?...what about you?...why are you even putting up with her BS?....and why would you need her?...give her the boot...don't even acknowledge her...

how long you gotta be shacked up in the same apt. with her?

 

[toant103]

Originally posted by: Anghang

Originally posted by: toant103

10-9-02
we're not together anymore. She keep on changing her mind. She want to be with me and with him. I can't do that. So i'm single again.

getting back together with her in the first place was a mistake, the fact that you were ok with her seeing that guy for "study related" purposes allows her to have her cake and eat it too....you know they're not just doing school work..

and why is it her that's changing her mind?...what about you?...why are you even putting up with her BS?....and why would you need her?...give her the boot...don't even acknowledge her...

how long you gotta be shacked up in the same apt. with her?

My lease exp this May, 2003. I want her back since we're together for such a long time. Beside that, i don't know why. I don't want to be lonely.

 

[smp]

Originally posted by: toant103

Originally posted by: Anghang

Originally posted by: toant103 10-9-02 we're not together anymore. She keep on changing her mind. She want to be with me and with him. I can't do that. So i'm single again.

getting back together with her in the first place was a mistake, the fact that you were ok with her seeing that guy for "study related" purposes allows her to have her cake and eat it too....you know they're not just doing school work.. and why is it her that's changing her mind?...what about you?...why are you even putting up with her BS?....and why would you need her?...give her the boot...don't even acknowledge her... how long you gotta be shacked up in the same apt. with her?

My lease exp this May, 2003. I want her back since we're together for such a long time. Beside that, i don't know why. I don't want to be lonely.

Dude don't be pathetic.
Drop her.
It's your dignity I guess, so you can do what you want with it.
You're either gonna end up with no self respect, or your gonna end up with no one respecting you.
Don't be weak.