you know what suck?UPDATE

[optoman]

You haven't lived until you have had your heart broken. I mean broken to the point were it physically hurts in your chest. Its going to take a while to get over her, but it will come one day.

Now with that said, go find anyother one but just use her for the sex. Yes, I know its wrong, but it needs to be done.

 

[amnesiac]

Originally posted by: optoman
Now with that said, go find anyother one but just use her for the sex. Yes, I know its wrong, but it needs to be done.

lmao @ that but it's SO true. You have no hope of establishing another decent working relationship unless you work out your frustration like that.

toant103, how long had you known she was cheating? Weren't there ANY clues as to the fact that the relationship was falling apart? After a few months, I could see how you would be blind to such a fact but after FOUR YEARS you should have known each other in and out, and something should definitely have clued you in.

 

[toant103]

Originally posted by: amnesiac 2.0

Originally posted by: optoman
Now with that said, go find anyother one but just use her for the sex. Yes, I know its wrong, but it needs to be done.

lmao @ that but it's SO true. You have no hope of establishing another decent working relationship unless you work out your frustration like that.

toant103, how long had you known she was cheating? Weren't there ANY clues as to the fact that the relationship was falling apart? After a few months, I could see how you would be blind to such a fact but after FOUR YEARS you should have known each other in and out, and something should definitely have clued you in.

There was no sign. Well, she said she wanted to study with this guy becuause he can help her. So she study with him. I knew something was going on. I can't stop her, i'm very open. If she loves you, then she won't do anything wrong. She didn't have any time in between. She just went with him. Beside that, no sign, no fighting before that. Everything was perfect. I guess it's not as good as I though. I'm so down.

 

[TCPpacket]

man, thats pretty fscked up. "just a friend" my ass. i feel for you.

 

[gopunk]

uh can you like kick her out or something? i wouldn't want to live with someone like that.... i mean ex is bad enough, but ex that cheated on you? jesus, i might stab her in my sleep or something.

 

[Cyberian]

Whose apartment is this?
Do you share the rent/expenses with her?

I don't think I could stand to live in the same place with someone who did that to me.

 

[toant103]

Originally posted by: Cyberian
Whose apartment is this?
Do you share the rent/expenses with her?

I don't think I could stand to live in the same place with someone who did that to me.

it's a 3bedroom apt, sharing it with another roomate.

 

[oLLie]

Originally posted by: toant103

Originally posted by: Cyberian
Whose apartment is this?
Do you share the rent/expenses with her?

I don't think I could stand to live in the same place with someone who did that to me.

it's a 3bedroom apt, sharing it with another roomate.

Is the 3rd roommate person taking sides or staying out of it? If he/she is on your side, maybe you can force your ex to leave? Dang, your situation really sucks. Keep your chin up though, it'll (slowly ) get better...

 

[toant103]

he's not taking side.

can some1 just shoot me?

 

[smp]

Don't spend time at home.
She is the biggest bitch in the world for doing that. She could at least have the decency to fvcking keep it away from you.
What a fvcking bitch!!!!
Man, get angry, go fvcking scream your face off at her, kick her out regardless of what your wussy roomate thinks/doesn't think ... you are in the right here, not her.
Just pick up all her sh!t and dump it on the lawn, don't let her back in. Change the locks do what you need to.
Anything short of actually hitting her.

edit:
If you're not pissed off enough to do that, then that means that you're down and out and maybe you're missing her, wanting her back or whatever.
First thing is first.
Recognize that it's OVER .. whether you like it or not. Now, once you've got yourself together go take care of business and kick that bitch out of your place and out of your life. She ain't worth it man. Don't play mind games with yourself, don't keep telling yourself that you love her .. don't be upset .. you have nothing to lose at this point but your dignity, and you want to keep that by all means.
I've been there man, just get tough and tell her where to go.

 

[777php]

She is showing a total lack of class.

First of all she cheated on you, and then she has the audacity to bring her new boyfriend to your apartment to cook for him! To top it off, it's only been two weeks since you two have broken up.

Tell your roomate to grow some and stand up for you, this is not the type of issue for a roomate to not take sides, especially when one is completely in the wrong. Why should you feel so uncomfortable in your own apartment? When she was cooking for him, did you feel comfortable walking around your own apartment.

Out of respect and common courtesy she should respect your wishes and not bring the new guy to your apartment.

 

[smp]

Originally posted by: 777php
She is showing a total lack of class. First of all she cheated on you, and then she has the audacity to bring her new boyfriend to your apartment to cook for him! To top it off, it's only been two weeks since you two have broken up. Tell your roomate to grow some and stand up for you, this is not the type of issue for a roomate to not take sides, especially when one is completely in the wrong. Why should you feel so uncomfortable in your own apartment? When she was cooking for him, did you feel comfortable walking around your own apartment. Out of respect and common courtesy she should respect your wishes and not bring the new guy to your apartment.

Exactly.
She is breaking codes here, which puts her in the wrong. Your roomy better grow some nuts soon or I'm gonna come over there and kick him in his.

 

[Maverick]

man call up one of your old friends and go do something fun. Just get out of that apartment. Come in to sleep and maybe eat until you can move out. Don't stay in there for more than like 10 minutes a day. Occupy yourself with something to keep you out. You'll get through this...just pull yourself together and try to move on. Definitely move out ASAP.

 

[Electric Amish]

you know what suck?

I'm just guessing here, but I'd have to say your grammar.

amish

 

[KEV1N]

Duuuuuuuude, that is cold. How the hell. What the. Who the. What happened to common courtesy? You know the quickest solution would be to move out, but I know how hard that could be. Maybe you can just start with asking her "why are you such a beeeehotch"?

 

[Kev]

She must have thought you were "neglecting her needs" or some bullsh*t like that. That's why she's bringing the guy over and cooking for him, because in her demented little world, that's her way of getting back at you for "not paying enough attention."

What a ho.

 

[MichaelD]

Whoa, whoa, whoa!!! I'm confused about something; you say you live together, in the same apartment, right? But she brought another guy over and cooked for him? Where were you while this was happening? :Q

 

[Shelly21]

Looks like she's trying to get back at you for something... perhaps not paying enough attention to her (in her mind)?
Regardless... She's doing this out of spite and it is wrong.

Like someone else suggested, a good way to go 'one up' on her is to bring home a
loose woman. I mean, you can even ask a good female friend to go home with you and.....hmmm that might be too much to ask....

 

[kherman]

You could always get even by posting naked pictures of her on the internet! PM me if you need someone to check them out first

Sorry, had to say it. That sucks. Better now than when kids are involved. She's a bitch. Screw her. You can do better than some biatch that cheats on you. Go out, get drunk and get your mind off of it.

 

[prodigy]

Originally posted by: Electric Amish

you know what suck?

I'm just guessing here, but I'd have to say your grammar.

amish

 

[kherman]

Originally posted by: Shelly21
Looks like she's trying to get back at you for something... perhaps not paying enough attention to her (in her mind)?
Regardless... She's doing this out of spite and it is wrong.

Like someone else suggested, a good way to go 'one up' on her is to bring home a
loose woman. I mean, you can even ask a good female friend to go home with you and.....hmmm that might be too much to ask....

YA! Ask a friend of yours that she isn't aware of to come hang out over night. You tell her she cheated on you and you want to get even. Bring her home, watch a movie, then have her sleep over. Have her sleep on the bed, you on the floor. Your ex won't know what's going on(since your room is full of silence), which is better than actually doing anything. She'll be going nuts. Tell your friend everything up front. Maybe even convince her to make out with yuo during hte movie.

 

[bizmark]

Originally posted by: thomsbrain

Originally posted by: DougK62
Move out - NOW!

 

[oLLie]

Originally posted by: kherman

Originally posted by: Shelly21
Looks like she's trying to get back at you for something... perhaps not paying enough attention to her (in her mind)?
Regardless... She's doing this out of spite and it is wrong.

Like someone else suggested, a good way to go 'one up' on her is to bring home a
loose woman. I mean, you can even ask a good female friend to go home with you and.....hmmm that might be too much to ask....

YA! Ask a friend of yours that she isn't aware of to come hang out over night. You tell her she cheated on you and you want to get even. Bring her home, watch a movie, then have her sleep over. Have her sleep on the bed, you on the floor. Your ex won't know what's going on(since your room is full of silence), which is better than actually doing anything. She'll be going nuts. Tell your friend everything up front. Maybe even convince her to make out with yuo during hte movie.

Plus, you guys should jump up and down on the bed and make lotsa other noise.

Originally posted by MichaelD
Whoa, whoa, whoa!!! I'm confused about something; you say you live together, in the same apartment, right? But she brought another guy over and cooked for him? Where were you while this was happening?

That's what I wanted to know too!

 

[toant103]

Originally posted by: MichaelD
Whoa, whoa, whoa!!! I'm confused about something; you say you live together, in the same apartment, right? But she brought another guy over and cooked for him? Where were you while this was happening? :Q

My room. She said if i wanted some, she can bring the food to my room. If you don't feel right, just stay in your room.That night, i left the apt and spent the night at my friend.

 

[TranceNation]

holy f*cking cow! dude that is seriously messed up. Dont know what to say cept it sounds like your ex-gf is one big *ss b*tch with no decency.