You catch your wife in bed making love to a beautiful woman, what will you do?

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You catch your wife/girlfriend in bed making love to a beautiful woman, what will you do?

  • 3

    Votes: 5 13.5%
  • Divorce my wife\end the relationship

    Votes: 4 10.8%
  • Go for marriage counselling\patch the relationship

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Get in the bed!

    Votes: 28 75.7%

  • Total voters
    37

whm1974

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Jul 24, 2016
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You enjoy fine cinema?
Personally I find Men going at it to be extremely gross. I nothing against Men doing such things I just don't wan to see it. And what does gay porn have to with fine cinema?

What I am saying is just because YOU want to doesn't mean THEY want you too.
If they didn't want me to jump right in, then why are they making out in my bed?
 

local

Golden Member
Jun 28, 2011
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The only option that is viable for the marriage to continue is to be welcomed into the bed. If I were not wanted there or even informed that it was going on then I view that no differently than infidelity and that means game over for the marriage.
 

Luna1968

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Mar 9, 2019
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my best friend from way back to elementary school came home early from work and caught his wife going at it with her female coworker on the back patio. tore him up, cheating is cheating and he divorced her. they all worked at the same place so shit got bad. this is about 12 years ago. Messed him up bad and got really distant after the divorce.
 

whm1974

Diamond Member
Jul 24, 2016
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my best friend from way back to elementary school came home early from work and caught his wife going at it with her female coworker on the back patio. tore him up, cheating is cheating and he divorced her. they all worked at the same place so shit got bad. this is about 12 years ago. Messed him up bad and got really distant after the divorce.
Well I suppose some guys would consider his girlfriend/wife with another women to be cheating, but I still rather my girlfriend/wife "cheat" one me with a woman instead of a dude. However I can agree with @local point about its only cheating if he is not being allowed to join them.
 

BudAshes

Lifer
Jul 20, 2003
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More interesting question is what if she's kind of butchy and looks like a female version of you.
 

whm1974

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Jul 24, 2016
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More interesting question is what if she's kind of butchy and looks like a female version of you.
Blah no thanks. Fortunately butchy women are rather rare, and the vast majority of lesbians are of the femme- femme type. This Myth of the Butch needs to die badly.
 

rh71

No Lifer
Aug 28, 2001
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Actually I have been informed by a person who worked at an Adult Store that a lot of women do buy films of Gay Men going at it. So it is a more then you think.

This is actually true if r/AskWomen is to be trusted. They like hearing men moan as part of their sexual turn-on.

Guys, if you want her to be really into it, you need to be not so quiet. But you guys first...
 

BudAshes

Lifer
Jul 20, 2003
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The wife? :eek:

latest
 

Luna1968

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Mar 9, 2019
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Well I suppose some guys would consider his girlfriend/wife with another women to be cheating, but I still rather my girlfriend/wife "cheat" one me with a woman instead of a dude. However I can agree with @local point about its only cheating if he is not being allowed to join them.

yea i hear ya but he is a catholic from a very conservative Irish mom, the shit his mom was saying about it in her pissed off irish accent was kinda humerus. I couldn't understand a word she was saying and ihad known her since i was 10. anyway she cheated and that was that he was gone.
 

whm1974

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Jul 24, 2016
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yea i hear ya but he is a catholic from a very conservative Irish mom, the shit his mom was saying about it in her pissed off irish accent was kinda humerus. I couldn't understand a word she was saying and ihad known her since i was 10. anyway she cheated and that was that he was gone.
Did they ask him to join them when he walked in on them? I'm really surprised he didn't jump right in when he saw those two making out.:rolleyes:
 

DigDog

Lifer
Jun 3, 2011
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i would crash on the couch and let her have some me-time.

poor woman, she works so hard.
 

ch33zw1z

Lifer
Nov 4, 2004
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I've ways told my wife that I would never cheat on her, and it's true, and then I tell her.if I was ever with another woman, it's because she helped pick her out and we're in it together. So if I caught my wife with another woman, I'd assume its because she took me up on the scenario :p
 

Fritzo

Lifer
Jan 3, 2001
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Start recording, put on Pornhub, make money, encourage repeats to keep the channel active.