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[Vegitto]

Well, all of you have very valid arguments, so I'll just talk it through with her..

Thanks again, all!

 

[bob4432]

Originally posted by: Bryophyte

Originally posted by: Vegitto

Originally posted by: Chrono
Holy ****** man. Learn to spell already.

Woohoo! The spelling Nazi has arrived.

I think she's cute, but she's not over 18, and neither am I, so no pics for you.
Well, the way I see her, she likes to do stuff, but really hasn't got anyone to do it with... Is there a female member here that could give me some advice?

Ok, you want advice from a female? Don't date girls from your school. Date girls from other high schools (middle schools? What grade are you in?) because then when you break up with them you don't have to deal with all the drama bullsh!t. That's my advice. You probably don't like it, but it's really true. Life is simpler when you aren't running into your exes at school every damn day.

You do need to address this girl's problems though. She has confided in you. Remember, it's not betraying someone's trust to tell an adult who is in charge (your parent, counselor, etc) when someone is a danger to herself or others. How would you feel if she cut her wrists and you were the only one who knew she might be suicidal? Wouldn't you rather have her mad at you and alive than have her dead?

since you 2 are so young, disregard the :camera: thread.... since you 2 are so youg, i don't think she is nuts or suicidal, just maybe want a little attention from a male, maybe she is just feeling a little lonely.

what is her home life like?

personally, i think that if you like her, she is pretty cool and you are attracted to her why not go out on a date, whatever that may be for you at this age. maybe go see a good movie or something.

as others have stated she has really let you off the hook a lot by letting you know that she liked you. at least you haven't ended up in the "friends" category that alone puts her 51% of the way and remember, all relationships are about compromise. she has done hers and it probably was hard for her, as you seem anxious about it too. this is normal.

go out and have a good time and if anything happens, where a condom.

 

[Vegitto]

Originally posted by: bob4432

Originally posted by: Bryophyte

Originally posted by: Vegitto

Originally posted by: Chrono
Holy ****** man. Learn to spell already.

Woohoo! The spelling Nazi has arrived.

I think she's cute, but she's not over 18, and neither am I, so no pics for you.
Well, the way I see her, she likes to do stuff, but really hasn't got anyone to do it with... Is there a female member here that could give me some advice?

Ok, you want advice from a female? Don't date girls from your school. Date girls from other high schools (middle schools? What grade are you in?) because then when you break up with them you don't have to deal with all the drama bullsh!t. That's my advice. You probably don't like it, but it's really true. Life is simpler when you aren't running into your exes at school every damn day.

You do need to address this girl's problems though. She has confided in you. Remember, it's not betraying someone's trust to tell an adult who is in charge (your parent, counselor, etc) when someone is a danger to herself or others. How would you feel if she cut her wrists and you were the only one who knew she might be suicidal? Wouldn't you rather have her mad at you and alive than have her dead?

since you 2 are so young, disregard the :camera: thread.... since you 2 are so youg, i don't think she is nuts or suicidal, just maybe want a little attention from a male, maybe she is just feeling a little lonely.

what is her home life like?

personally, i think that if you like her, she is pretty cool and you are attracted to her why not go out on a date, whatever that may be for you at this age. maybe go see a good movie or something.

as others have stated she has really let you off the hook a lot by letting you know that she liked you. at least you haven't ended up in the "friends" category that alone puts her 51% of the way and remember, all relationships are about compromise. she has done hers and it probably was hard for her, as you seem anxious about it too. this is normal.

go out and have a good time and if anything happens, where a condom.

I'll do my best, you guys . Now, just to wait until I see her again..

 

[Saint Nick]

she likes you but she is psychotic.

go for it... see if you like it, if not, then get out.

it isn't THAT hard...

 

[SilverTorch]

run!

This girl is way too clingy, you really don't need that kinda crap.

 

[Vegitto]

Originally posted by: SilverTorch
run!

This girl is way too clingy, you really don't need that kinda crap.

Well, I have heard (from my friends) that I needed someone to hold me down... I don't know if a clingy person would do that, but...

 

[RandomFool]

make some babies with her.

*edit* nevermind wait 10 years then make babies with her. and post pics.

 

[SMOGZINN]

Originally posted by: Vegitto

Originally posted by: SilverTorch
run!

This girl is way too clingy, you really don't need that kinda crap.

Well, I have heard (from my friends) that I needed someone to hold me down... I don't know if a clingy person would do that, but...

Don't listen to them. Definitions like clingy don't really work at age 15. You don't have a standard yet by which to judge such things, so neither you nor she can know what the appropriate level of attachment to have is. You are not use to having personal lives yet, and individuality is still something that you are attempting to find. It is almost cliche that at 15 you will spend every waking second with your friends/girlfriend/peers. This is normal, and nothing to worry about.

 

[yhelothar]

I find that most girls have trouble looking guys in the eyes, but maybe it's just me.
My ex's resisted looking me in the eyes
My current gf looks at me sometimes, after I confronted her about it.
She said that my stare is too intimidating for her to look at me.

 

[Vegitto]

Originally posted by: virtualgames0
I find that most girls have trouble looking guys in the eyes, but maybe it's just me.
My ex's resisted looking me in the eyes
My current gf looks at me sometimes, after I confronted her about it.
She said that my stare is too intimidating for her to look at me.

...
I was told I have 'soft' eyes...

 

[illusion88]

QUICK!
Put everything you own in the back of your car and drive west until you run out of gas. When your car dies start running until you fall down form exhaustion. Don't stop! Put as many miles in between this girl and you.