YAGT.

[Gooose]

I been with my SO since Junior year in Highschool

and i never have any big tiffs with her, if anything we "fight" over the smallest things - and then just laugh about it.

I dont plan on leaving her. She says the same to me.



So first [major] relationships do last


And sorry for your loss

 

[davew0670]

you're in college! You will have long forgotten about that girl in a month.

 

[dabuddha]

Sorry to hear. It's always tough.

 

[Kibbo]

Ahh, the Turkey Dump.

The main reason Thanksgiving still has meaning in our culture. Too bad you don't live in Canada, you would've gotten it over with a month sooner, and had time to "get over it" with the chickies on your dorm floor before finals killed everything.

 

[rezinn]

The real world changes people. Just pull some rotten pranks on her and you'll feel much better.

Sounds like she was too much of the jealous/controlling type anyhow. And she's been f'in around with that guy for months anyway.

 

[Hammer]

there's more to this story. it doesn't make sense. i'd like to hear her side...

 

[deejayshakur]

what a ho. you learned your lesson, now move on.

 

[clamum]

Jeez what a bitch. Even though you had good times, she doesn't sound like someone you'd want to stay with. Cheers :beer:

 

[JulesMaximus]

Wow, nothing says it's over quite like "I only have one thing to say to your despicable face before I never see it again...fvck you." :Q

What do you want from us?

Sympathy? Okay, you've got my sympathy.

Advice? Get over her and move on. I had a GF for 3 years who dumped me for another guy. We got back together after 6 months when she tired of his BS. I moved across the state a few months later and then out to CA. Dumbest thing I did was get back together with her.

I think it's safe to say that you probably won't get back together with this one though.

 

[AntaresVI]

Originally posted by: Hammer
there's more to this story. it doesn't make sense. i'd like to hear her side...

She would say that I had a period of time right after getting to college when i did not know if I wanted to stay with her or not. I made up my mind about a month and a half in, however.

Also, she would cite the time I drunk-dialed her at midnight on a weekend (to tell her how sorry I was that her grandfather was sick). She was convinced then that I was hooking up with another girl.

She would also tell you about a time when I had a female friend sleep in my room when she was falling-over drunk. My ex was, and still is, convinced that this girl wanted me and that I was cheating with her, and she would not believe me when I told her that to drag this girl to her dorm room was not at all feasible.

edit: actually, i dont want your sympathy, Jules. I feel better now than I have in a while, i just needed ot tell somebody.

 

[ABitTooSpicy]

Long distance relationships during college don't work *In My Opinion*.... I had two long distance relationships go sour on me during college... and best times of my college life were when I was single

I'm a aBitTooSpicy and I approve this message :beer:

 

[iamme]

the bright side: she can be a paranoid, controlling wench to someone else now

like i said before, there are tons of new experiences in college. have a blast and meet tons of new people. it sucks now, but you'll forget about her soon enough.

 

[kranky]

Long distance relationships do not work. People would be better off agreeing to break up, and if they later decide to get back together, fine. But instead they try to make a relationship work when there is no actual relationship left (they never see each other) and someone gets hurt.

You did nothing wrong, it just wasn't going to work. She was hurtful to you because she wanted it to be over. Do yourself a favor and don't contact her. Be glad for the relationship you had, but it's time to move on.

 

[SP33Demon]

You should have stuck it in her choo choo train one last time and made her cry. That's what I did w/ my ex.

 

[iamme]

Originally posted by: SP33Demon
You should have stuck it in her choo choo train one last time and made her cry. That's what I did w/ my ex.

i'm sure he's forgiven you by now.

 

[ArmchairAthlete]

Originally posted by: bunker
She probably met the new guy the first couple weeks into college and she was trying to piss you off so you'd break it off with her.

Yea heh.

If I had a girlfriend I wouldn't like her having other guys in her room alone with booze involved (no way!), but that's probably what happened. Doubt I'll have worries like these any time soon though =/

 

[SP33Demon]

Originally posted by: iamme

Originally posted by: SP33Demon
You should have stuck it in her choo choo train one last time and made her cry. That's what I did w/ my ex.

i'm sure he's forgiven you by now.

Would have been funnier if the "HER" wasn't in there. Are you from 8 mile projects like Eminem?

 

[Kroze]

you're not the first one to feel betrayed bud. sorry to hear it. girls are whore. i went through something similar like what you're going through now.

Girls are sl*t. No matter what you think of them, how nice, how sweet, how loyal, etc... They WILL end up being a whore. treat them like so.

I don't trust b!tches anymore. After being hurt like you....remember one thing. Bros before hoes.

never let a b!tch go before your friends. You friends are forever, girls will turn sl*t on you before you turn your back.

 

[Kroze]

American woman... get away from meeee.

American woman...momma let me beee..

 

[Danman]

Man, dude. I have the same exact story for you.

Was together with this girl for two and a half years. Lived together, even got her an engagement ring. We were high school sweethearts with the same good friends, yada yada yada. So....after about a year living together I find out she's been cheating on me with her co-worker for the past two months. Things were definitely getting strange and I suspected it, I was right.

Plus, that wasn't the first time she cheated on me. She cheated on me back in high school and I forgave her because she was truly sorry. The 2nd time I found out she cheated on me, she didn't even care, didn't even apologize.

Dude, girls change so much through college. I've learned a lot from that relationship and I loved her with all of my heart but it was a huge learning experience for me. She moved out about a half a year ago and life has been much better for me even though it's had it's ups and downs. I've been lonely, sad, and I do want someone to be with. But that right person hasn't came along yet.

And don't think you can find anyone....in the past six months since I've been single I've met so many new women it's not even funny. Even though I'm not just only looking for ass, I'm really looking for a relationship. Just watch out, there's a lot of crazies out there.

And for the record, I'm going on a date tonight with girl number one, tomorrow is girl number two, and Friday is girl number three who I like the most. I'm really hoping girl three works out since I've connected so well with her. So there is plenty of fish in the sea, contrary of what I thought before.

Take care if you need someone to talk to, just PM me.

Dan

 

[Tremulant]

It sounds like she was cheating on you for awhile and just wanted to make you feel bad. I mean, a new bf in 4 days, wtf? Don't worry about it though, like Danman said, there's plenty of fish in the sea.

 

[Deeko]

Originally posted by: moshquerade
i think it's great she said, "fvck you". that is called closure.

I never understood why the girls of AT think its so empowering for girls to go psycho. I think its terrible, I think this girl is handling this very poorly. VERY poorly.

That said, what exactly did you say in this email to spark this?

Here is my assumption: She met other guy, wanted to break up, couldn't bring herself to do it and be the 'bad guy', so she looked for things she could find YOU doing wrong, even if there were none(hence the girl alone and drinking and whatnot). When that didn't work, she got frustrated that the relationship wouldn't magically end(heaven forbid you try to save your 3 year relationship right), so she lost it.

She sounds like she turned bitch.

 

[KarenMarie]

You pride is hurt.

Don't worry, it will heal before you get married!

 

[GoingUp]

you were together and then you went to seperate colleges? a first year breakup is very typical. she wanted to meet new people. sucks, but thats how it goes. go find someone wonderful for yourself

 

[Darkstar757]

MAN FSCK These hoes

You dont need them