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Darkstar757

Darkstar757

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Well after four months of semi happiness I have ha d another bad experience. My girl broke up with me yesterday and left me for her EX. Well after this im done with women and I am taking a serious vacation from them. Do any of you divorced ATOT folks has any idea s of things i can do to keep her off my mind and for me to stay off women period.

I could rant about how much she hurt me but im so numb and hurt blehhh its not even worth it.


Please folks no bashing I need some honest friendly help here.


Darkstar🙁
 
Originally posted by: Darkstar757
Well after four months of semi happiness I have ha d another bad experience. My girl broke up with me yesterday and left me for her EX. Well after this im done with women and I am taking a serious vacation from them. Do any of you divorced ATOT folks has any idea s of things i can do to keep her off my mind and for me to stay off women period.

I could rant about how much she hurt me but im so numb and hurt blehhh its not even worth it.


Please folks no bashing I need some honest friendly help here.


Darkstar🙁
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WTF would the divorced AT crowd know this?
 
Man you know Life is really hard folks. I mean im very grateful I live in the US and have food, clothes etc. I have fought depression twice in my life and believe me when I tell you that it is one of the hardest things in your life to deal with. With this blow I have lost allot of confidence in myself and how I treat people. I was nothing but a gentlemen with this young lady. She just ups and calls me and says im leaving and thats it. Blehh if i wasnt at work a think I would curl up in a ball and cry my eyes out.(Not that it would help any). After being hurt like this is just furthers my feelings on how you treat people. One day when I do have kids im not going to allow my son or daughter to be a player etc, but to respect other peoples feelings. I did nothing to deserve this treatment and I hope that KARMA's justice is swift and hard.

 
I went through something similar (luckily wasn't married). Definitely spend more time with your friends, but the plain truth is that you're just going to have to deal with that pain for a while. Time is the best friend you got. Good luck with everything.......I suggest having a :beer:
 
hang out with friends alot. Don't be alone for a little while, because that'll make you miserable. get out of the house and do stuff. buy some new toys. find a new hobby.

target shooting can be fun ... it's entertaining and lets you vent anger. 🙂
 
You know have more money that before. Build a friggen awesome gaming machine and get involved in an MMORPG - those suck your life away, before you know it, you will look up and a year has passed.

I hear working out at the gym, lifting weights, helps a bit.
 
Love can be tough sometimes... I suggest working out at the Gym and building yourself up. That will help your physical health, which leads to better emotional health about youself, which in turn will get you back into the game. All at the same time distracting your mind from the small roadblock in your life.
 
I know this is hard dude, but just get out there. Everything happens for a reason, she wasn't the one for you obviously. Do something for yourself now. 🙂
 
Originally posted by: Tiamat
You know have more money that before. Build a friggen awesome gaming machine and get involved in an MMORPG - those suck your life away, before you know it, you will look up and a year has passed.
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While that may not be the best solution for Darkstar, I agree completely with the MMORPG comments. I had no life during my addiction. 🙂
 
It just going to take time. It will be hard but you just have to push yourself to move on and don't fall behind on your daily life activities.
 
Originally posted by: Darkstar757
Well after four months of semi happiness I have ha d another bad experience. My girl broke up with me yesterday and left me for her EX. Well after this im done with women and I am taking a serious vacation from them. Do any of you divorced ATOT folks has any idea s of things i can do to keep her off my mind and for me to stay off women period.

I could rant about how much she hurt me but im so numb and hurt blehhh its not even worth it.


Please folks no bashing I need some honest friendly help here.


Darkstar🙁
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i'm not divorced or whatever but you should focus on you, reall get into yourself. Start doing things that you want to do. Pick up new hobbies and fill up your time with them. If you always wanted to race cars, start taking a class at a track , if you liked to learn chop wood go buy an axe and get started...

When you do things you want to do, you become happier and more satisfied and usually more confident. This rolls over to your personal life, women will pick up on this sort of thing and will recognize you as a man that knows/gets what he wants, this is highly attractive to them. Before you know it you'll be shooting THEM down left and right.

oh and :beer: usually helps some.
 
if I had a girlfriend this would be the perfect time for a breakup...

Fable, Tiger Woods 2005, X-Men Legends, The Sims 2, Burnout 3, Star Wars Battlegrounds... oh man oh man. September was definitely a great month.
 
you were together for 4 months or is that just how long you have been in a state of "semi happiness"? If you were only together for 4 months and you are taking it this hard you may need to reevaluate your priorities
 
Co-dependence sucks man. You seriously need to learn how to make YOURSELF happy first. That's what life is all about right?
 
azazel and cablegod you are truly right. My problem is I am very co-dependent I dont know why I guess its because i come from such a protective and caring family etc. I really want to take the steps to beat this thing. My friends tell me I shouldnt feel this bad about a girl I dated for only 4 months etc. I know they are right but somewhere in the corner of my heart i really had feelings for this girl.

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