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Originally posted by: minendo
You really want to stick it him? Call the cops and tell them minors are getting trashed.
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You sir, are f*cked up. I hope you have never done that...




Anyways... don't let this girl use "I was drunk." as an excuse for f*cking this dude. I see girls claim that they don't know what they are doing when they are drunk all the time. That is BS, and everyone knows it.

Lots of girls just don't feel that they can do what they want to do unless they have an excuse, like being drunk. If she wants to hook up with this guy she will...

And the worse part is she will probably try and hide it from you until you have absolute undeniable evidence against her. And then she will try and pull the old "I was drunk." line...

Just stay away from her man... she dosn't care about you as much as you care about her. (Unless of course you're banging sluts on the side)
 
Originally posted by: geckojohn
First of all, any :camera:?

Is this girl asian?

It sucks, but i think she just needs to learn. She probably wants to try something risky... If she was really interested in you, then she probably wouldn't go to this party. I would break up with her.
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It's his girlfriend. Asking for pics here of his girlfriend, if he does it, will only return with disrespectful remarks. Very few people respect other people enough here to leave this subject alone.

WTF does her race have to do with anything? Hmm? :|
 
Originally posted by: Skiguy411
Well it ends up that her parents arent letting her go and she says she doesnt feel like going anymore. So after talking to her its straight now.
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So she's not going because her parents aren't letting her go, not because she doesn't want to screw this guy.
 
Originally posted by: WinkOsmosis
Originally posted by: Skiguy411
Well it ends up that her parents arent letting her go and she says she doesnt feel like going anymore. So after talking to her its straight now.
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So she's not going because her parents aren't letting her go, not because she doesn't want to screw this guy.
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Still... call the cops and have them raid the under-age drinking party. 😀 Bust the jerk, just for good measure.
 
Originally posted by: FFMCobalt
Originally posted by: WinkOsmosis
Originally posted by: Skiguy411
Well it ends up that her parents arent letting her go and she says she doesnt feel like going anymore. So after talking to her its straight now.
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So she's not going because her parents aren't letting her go, not because she doesn't want to screw this guy.
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Still... call the cops and have them raid the under-age drinking party. 😀 Bust the jerk, just for good measure.
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Tattle-tail 😀
 
I know that you're gonna hate me for saying this, but you're gonna lose her. Get yourself acquainted with the idea that she'll cheat on you, if she hasn't already. Why? Because judging by the fact that you're 16 and never get drunk, you're boring, and according to her reply, she thinks so too.

You gotta keep a girl's excitement level up at all times - you gotta party with her, do things you BOTH enjoy. So if she enjoys partying, and you'd rather sit home and read, you're with the wrong girl, and she WILL cheat on you with a guy who's more suitable for her. Trust me, this has happened to a million other men, including myself and everyone i know.

If you want to keep her, be a man, and go to the party with her. If you see that guy coming on to her, come up to him, and tell him that if he tries something again, there will be SERIOUS consequences. And he'll back off because even if you're smaller than him, to HIM, she's not worth fighting for, and yet she is to you. Do what i just told you and she'll love you and hold on to you. Stay home and you might as well start looking for a new girl.

I know i'll get flamed for this, but you gotta keep in mind that about in the general male population, 10% TOPS know how to deal with women, and that since this is an online techie forum, the ratio here is about 1:100. So if i were you, i'd take whatever is said here with a grain of salt - i don't even need to read any of these posts to know what they say. Good luck.
 
Originally posted by: yobarman
I cannot believe what I just read. Really. But I cannot be mad...because I too was once 16. Listen kid, there's other fish in the sea, and this one obviously is the slutty type who wants some dick from an older type. You're too much of a pansy for her. Either go to the party with her and get smashed or suck it up and find someone else, because she's growing up a lot faster than your wimpy ass.
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Not a nice way of saying it, but i agree 100%.
 
She gets in her moods like this. For like 10 min. she will be really defensive until she sees that it really does hurt me. When she sees that, its like she is a totally different person and she says that the truely does love me.


Oh and another twist to the story. I just found out last night that she does like a guy on the cross country team(they both do cross country). She says that her feelings for him are only a "tiny tiny bit," and that I am the one she loves. She liked this guy for 2 years and that nothing has/will become of it. She said that she will try her hardest to get rid of those feelings because he isnt worth it and is embarrassed to even have any feelings for him. Its one of those "when I see him I kinda like him, but I never really think about him when not around him" things she says. Do I have a right to know who this guy is? or is it best to just believe her and move on with our relationship? I really couldnt see my life with her.
 
Originally posted by: Gnote
Originally posted by: FFMCobalt
Originally posted by: WinkOsmosis
Originally posted by: Skiguy411
Well it ends up that her parents arent letting her go and she says she doesnt feel like going anymore. So after talking to her its straight now.
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So she's not going because her parents aren't letting her go, not because she doesn't want to screw this guy.
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Still... call the cops and have them raid the under-age drinking party. 😀 Bust the jerk, just for good measure.
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Tattle-tail 😀
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It's not so much that as it is the revenge of it all. :evil: I make guys who hit on my girlfriend repeatedly extremely sorry that they have. The latest case almost got me in serious legal trouble because I had trouble controling my temper - short of touching her, he was all over her, backed her into a corner, and everything when I wasn't there. Viper GTS talked me down, but I shaved my balls with his razor. Seeing him the next day with a clean shaven face ... PRICELESS. 😀
 
Originally posted by: Skiguy411
She gets in her moods like this. For like 10 min. she will be really defensive until she sees that it really does hurt me. When she sees that, its like she is a totally different person and she says that the truely does love me.


Oh and another twist to the story. I just found out last night that she does like a guy on the cross country team(they both do cross country). She says that her feelings for him are only a "tiny tiny bit," and that I am the one she loves. She liked this guy for 2 years and that nothing has/will become of it. She said that she will try her hardest to get rid of those feelings because he isnt worth it and is embarrassed to even have any feelings for him. Do I have a right to know who this guy is? or is it best to just believe her and move on with our relationship? I really couldnt see my life with her.
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Get used to this. It doesn't stop, even after years of being officially together.
 
Wait, hold up... have you ever been involved in any sexual activity with this girl? I am willing to bet what you consider "dating", she considers "friends hanging out".

If she was your girl she would never do something like this.

She just wants to be friends...

Personally, I would cut off all contact with her. I wouldn't be mean or even rude to her, because then you will look the bad guy. Just stop spending time with her and stop talking to her. If you see her around say "What's up?" and be nice, but don't put yourself in a position where she can continue to manipulate you.

Cut it off...
 
Originally posted by: FFMCobalt
Originally posted by: Gnote
Originally posted by: FFMCobalt
Originally posted by: WinkOsmosis
Originally posted by: Skiguy411
Well it ends up that her parents arent letting her go and she says she doesnt feel like going anymore. So after talking to her its straight now.
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So she's not going because her parents aren't letting her go, not because she doesn't want to screw this guy.
Click to expand...

Still... call the cops and have them raid the under-age drinking party. 😀 Bust the jerk, just for good measure.
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Tattle-tail 😀
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It's not so much that as it is the revenge of it all. :evil: I make guys who hit on my girlfriend repeatedly extremely sorry that they have. The latest case almost got me in serious legal trouble because I had trouble controling my temper - short of touching her, he was all over her, backed her into a corner, and everything when I wasn't there. Viper GTS talked me down, but I shaved my balls with his razor. Seeing him the next day with a clean shaven face ... PRICELESS. 😀
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Did you literally shave your balls with his razor....?

and how exactly do you make these guys "pay for it"
 
Originally posted by: Skiguy411
She gets in her moods like this. For like 10 min. she will be really defensive until she sees that it really does hurt me. When she sees that, its like she is a totally different person and she says that the truely does love me.


Oh and another twist to the story. I just found out last night that she does like a guy on the cross country team(they both do cross country). She says that her feelings for him are only a "tiny tiny bit," and that I am the one she loves. She liked this guy for 2 years and that nothing has/will become of it. She said that she will try her hardest to get rid of those feelings because he isnt worth it and is embarrassed to even have any feelings for him. Do I have a right to know who this guy is? or is it best to just believe her and move on with our relationship? I really couldnt see my life with her.
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Dude WTF?

Does anyone else have a girl friend that tells you about how she likes other guys and she wants to go to parties without you?

I thought not...
 
Originally posted by: Underground727
Wait, hold up... have you ever been involved in any sexual activity with this girl? I am willing to bet what you consider "dating", she considers "friends hanging out".

If she was your girl she would never do something like this.

She just wants to be friends...

Personally, I would cut off all contact with her. I wouldn't be mean or even rude to her, because then you will look the bad guy. Just stop spending time with her and stop talking to her. If you see her around say "What's up?" and be nice, but don't put yourself in a position where she can continue to manipulate you.

Cut it off...
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There is some sexual activity involved now, but not nearly as much as when we were exculsive.
 
^^^ Relationship = fuxx0red. Skiguy411, bang her as often as you can then dump her as soon as something else comes along. I will 100% guarantee you that your relationship will not survive past your senior year, and if it does, something is seriously wrong with both of you. Judging by your reactions and her actions, you will be cheated on or heartbroken sooner or later, as much as you don't want to hear it.
 
Originally posted by: Skiguy411
Originally posted by: Underground727
Wait, hold up... have you ever been involved in any sexual activity with this girl? I am willing to bet what you consider "dating", she considers "friends hanging out".

If she was your girl she would never do something like this.

She just wants to be friends...

Personally, I would cut off all contact with her. I wouldn't be mean or even rude to her, because then you will look the bad guy. Just stop spending time with her and stop talking to her. If you see her around say "What's up?" and be nice, but don't put yourself in a position where she can continue to manipulate you.

Cut it off...
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There is some sexual activity involved now, but not nearly as much as when we were exculsive.
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You are 16... go "taste the rainbow."

Just remember your umbrella
 
Hmm let me give you guys some background here:

In the first relationship with her (3 months) we were great, until I found some other girl that I thought I was interested in and so I dumped her and went out with this other girl for awhile until we broke up (2.5 months).

We remained friends for about half a until we discovered that our feelings for each other were still there. So we started being exclusive. That lasted 5 months until she went to england and i went to the beach. I met a girl at the beach and found out that she lived near me. We hung out once as nothing more than friends, except it really did hurt the girl I was being exclusive with. So we decided it would be best if we just dated and were allowed to see other people. I hung out with the girl I met at the beach one more time as friends. We didnt really talk much more after that. She on the other hand found out that 5 guys like her and hangs out with some of them. So one of them invites her to a party and you know how that went.

My feelings for her never died and she says hers hasnt either. So we both like each other alot except for that one minor detail (she likes this other guy a tiny bit)
 
If you can't see yourself spending your life with her, and there are this many problems, don't bother continuing with the relationship.
 
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