So I have a girl that I am dating that I really like alot. We have known each other for about 3 years and have been dating on and off for about year. She just recently met this guy that is into drinking and what not. I know he wants her and has already tried to pull some moves on her. He is having a party at his tonight that she was invited to. He is going to have beer and liquor and she mentioned that fact that she might get drunk. When she gets drunk she has no idea whats going on around her, so I am scared that she will be taking advantage of. I already hate this guy because he tried to put a move on her. I really do like this girl alot and I think this guy is no good for her. She says she cares about me alot, but when I asked if she thought it was stupid getting drunk at our age (16) she got angry and said whatever im going. It hurts so fvcking much. Should I not be hurt? Am I just being a total control freak?
Background
In the first relationship with her (3 months) we were great, until I found some other girl that I thought I was interested in and so I dumped her and went out with this other girl for awhile until we broke up (2.5 months).
We remained friends for about half a until we discovered that our feelings for each other were still there. So we started being exclusive. That lasted 5 months until she went to england and i went to the beach. I met a girl at the beach and found out that she lived near me. We hung out once as nothing more than friends, except it really did hurt the girl I was being exclusive with. So we decided it would be best if we just dated and were allowed to see other people. I hung out with the girl I met at the beach one more time as friends. We didnt really talk much more after that. She on the other hand found out that 5 guys like her and hangs out with some of them. So one of them invites her to a party and you know how that went.
My feelings for her never died and she says hers hasnt either. So we both like each other alot except for that one minor detail (she likes this other guy a tiny bit)
The new twist in the story
She gets in her moods like this. For like 10 min. she will be really defensive until she sees that it really does hurt me. When she sees that, its like she is a totally different person and she says that the truely does love me.
Oh and another twist to the story. I just found out last night that she does like a guy on the cross country team(they both do cross country). She says that her feelings for him are only a "tiny tiny bit," and that I am the one she loves. She liked this guy for 2 years and that nothing has/will become of it. She said that she will try her hardest to get rid of those feelings because he isnt worth it and is embarrassed to even have any feelings for him. Do I have a right to know who this guy is? or is it best to just believe her and move on with our relationship? I really couldnt see my life without her.
Background
In the first relationship with her (3 months) we were great, until I found some other girl that I thought I was interested in and so I dumped her and went out with this other girl for awhile until we broke up (2.5 months).
We remained friends for about half a until we discovered that our feelings for each other were still there. So we started being exclusive. That lasted 5 months until she went to england and i went to the beach. I met a girl at the beach and found out that she lived near me. We hung out once as nothing more than friends, except it really did hurt the girl I was being exclusive with. So we decided it would be best if we just dated and were allowed to see other people. I hung out with the girl I met at the beach one more time as friends. We didnt really talk much more after that. She on the other hand found out that 5 guys like her and hangs out with some of them. So one of them invites her to a party and you know how that went.
My feelings for her never died and she says hers hasnt either. So we both like each other alot except for that one minor detail (she likes this other guy a tiny bit)
The new twist in the story
She gets in her moods like this. For like 10 min. she will be really defensive until she sees that it really does hurt me. When she sees that, its like she is a totally different person and she says that the truely does love me.
Oh and another twist to the story. I just found out last night that she does like a guy on the cross country team(they both do cross country). She says that her feelings for him are only a "tiny tiny bit," and that I am the one she loves. She liked this guy for 2 years and that nothing has/will become of it. She said that she will try her hardest to get rid of those feelings because he isnt worth it and is embarrassed to even have any feelings for him. Do I have a right to know who this guy is? or is it best to just believe her and move on with our relationship? I really couldnt see my life without her.
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