YAGT: When to make that move?

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jjones

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As soon as possible. The very first night of watching movies and drinking coffee until 4 am would have been the right time.
 

pulse8

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Originally posted by: SnipeMasterJ13
Just whip it out....and be like "Well?????"...Then you will find out what she thinks for sure.

When in doubt, whip it out!
 

KillyKillall

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How did this not come up already? I'm disappointed in all of you. :camera:???

Also, the longer you wait now, the hard it is going to get.
 

anxi80

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Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
i know she loves hanging out with me but I can't figure out if it's cool or creepy to take it to the next level.
take the safe bet. "excuse me miss, does this rag smell like chloroform to you?" when she stirs conscious and if she forgives you, it was meant to be.
 

anxi80

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Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
Trust me, ladies don't like being pushed down the stairs.
damn, how come you couldnt have told me this last week!?!? :| pm your address... you sir are paying my lawyer's fee's!!
 

NakaNaka

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Dude - you stayed up w. a girl 2 nights in a row drinking coffee till 4am and watching movies? She wants it. Go for it. Nothing to lose.
 

bobbybe01

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Originally posted by: NakaNaka
Dude - you stayed up w. a girl 2 nights in a row drinking coffee till 4am and watching movies? She wants it. Go for it. Nothing to lose.

Except his virginity, maybe...
 

Yax

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Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
So I've met this girl and I really enjoy spending time with her... Two days in a row we've watched movies and drank coffee until 4 am and she's a blissfully wonderful girl. I just don't know when to make that move... I feel like it's too soon, even though we've spent very long days together, but worry that if I wait too long we'll slip into total friends mode... i know she loves hanging out with me but I can't figure out if it's cool or creepy to take it to the next level.

Maybe you're already in the friend zone. Maybe its too late now. Sorry dude.
 

edro

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Dude... I completely understand.

I HATE the stage between the first date, and making out. I never know when to kiss her. I am severely over-analytical, so I notice everything. I can't tell if she is giving signals, or just acting normal. Once you get the first kiss out of the way, it's all smooth sailing for me. Argh... just thinking about it makes me nervous.