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YAGT: When to make that move?

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slackerinabox

Lifer
So I've met this girl and I really enjoy spending time with her... Two days in a row we've watched movies and drank coffee until 4 am and she's a blissfully wonderful girl. I just don't know when to make that move... I feel like it's too soon, even though we've spent very long days together, but worry that if I wait too long we'll slip into total friends mode... i know she loves hanging out with me but I can't figure out if it's cool or creepy to take it to the next level.
 
Which move are you trying to make? A Kiss?
Well don't push her down a flight of stairs if she doesn't feel the same way. Trust me, ladies don't like being pushed down the stairs.
 
Go ahead and give it a shot, you'll never know until you try. Might as well lay your intentions out for her to see, you'll avoid confusion later on that way. You can make a lot of moves before 'THE move'. Start small and take it easy! She sounds cool. g/l
 
You make this "move" thing sound like it is something big. Dude, settle down and just relax. A pushy guy is a guy that won't be getting any anytime soon. You have to be persistent...but pushy?...no.

Tell her you want to go out for some food with her and then possibly do something fun afterwards (I'm not sure where you live, but some activity like putt-putt, bowling, etc would suffice). If she bites, she's probably interested and then you can "make your move" after the end of your first date. If she does not bite or seems reluctant to go out, try to ask her why and figure from there. If she's resistent to the idea, it's probably not looking much further than friends...

BUT DO THIS STUFF SOON before you do become friends.
 
Do it now. Wait any longer and you'll fear it more. This combined with her thinking you are not interested will result in her putting you on the friend ladder. Again, in turn, this will lead to you getting fvcked, but only in a bad way. 😛
 
take her out on a date, and be sure to give us a break down of the costs...

then, ask her to stick out her hand...
 
Originally posted by: Gothgar
take her out on a date, and be sure to give us a break down of the costs...

then, ask her to stick out her hand...
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and place your testes on them.
 
Just ask her permission to kiss her when you take her home. You might get some P00n out of it! 😉

Truthfully, you just have to make sure she knows your intentions. Make that known with body language and flirting.
 
Originally posted by: J0hnny

The movie ended. Time was near....I was driving her home. I was debating where I could possibly find a place to "DO IT" if you get my drift. So I ended up stopping the car in a shady area that was kinda isolated. She asked what I was doing and that's when I said, "Babe, I really like you ALOT." I emphasized "ALOT". She said "Oh, OK". Those were her exact words. Then I asked if I could kiss her. She smiled and puckered up! I DID IT GUYS! I GOT A KISS!!!

Well, I failed on the poon though. I never had the balls to "whip it out." That's why I need YAGT you bums!
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Something like this?
 
watch a movie at home
sit close together, some sort of body contact, even if its just shoulders touching
if she digs you, it will happen. if she doesnt think of you like that, she will keep her distance

its really simple and happens naturally. if its not obvious its probably not there
 
Whatever you do dont ask things like this

Can I kiss you or Can I hold your hand?

If she doesnt want you to kiss her, you will know, and by the 3rd date she doesnt want to be kissed you might as well forget it and move on.
 
Yeah, sorry for seeming so clueless.. I sound like a 20 year old virgin.. I actually was in a relationship for nearly 7 years so that last time I made a "move" was .. well.. 7 years ago.. so I feel rusty, know what i mean? The girl made the move the last time I hooked up with someone and that was a few months ago..

asking for a kiss seems lame.. we're touchy and feely but she's european so maybe that's just how she is.. i dunno, we did have one of those double hugs last night.. argh, i'm an idiot..
 
Originally posted by: DivideBYZero
Leave some porn on the dash of your car. See if that warms her up a bit.
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preferably lesbo cheerleader porn, that way she might invite the cheerleader team over fo some private auditions 😉
 
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Yeah, sorry for seeming so clueless.. I sound like a 20 year old virgin.. I actually was in a relationship for nearly 7 years so that last time I made a "move" was .. well.. 7 years ago.. so I feel rusty, know what i mean? The girl made the move the last time I hooked up with someone and that was a few months ago..

asking for a kiss seems lame.. we're touchy and feely but she's european so maybe that's just how she is.. i dunno, we did have one of those double hugs last night.. argh, i'm an idiot..
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BULLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLSSSSSSSSSSHHHHHHHHHHHHHHIIIIIIIIIIIITTTTTTTTTTT

You've posted like 10 threads over the course of the last year or two talking about all those slutty suicide girls and "actresses" you're been wanting to get with (failing, might I add)
 
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
So I've met this girl and I really enjoy spending time with her... Two days in a row we've watched movies and drank coffee until 4 am and she's a blissfully wonderful girl. I just don't know when to make that move... I feel like it's too soon, even though we've spent very long days together, but worry that if I wait too long we'll slip into total friends mode... i know she loves hanging out with me but I can't figure out if it's cool or creepy to take it to the next level.
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Of course it's okay to take it to the next level now. However, if you don't feel comfortable at this time, then don't!

The only issue I already see cropping out is the fact that your lazy behind is going to be sitting in the house for the most part. You're going to get too lazy to go out. The early signs are already showing. If you remember, this was an issue for you in your previous relationship. You can't get too comfortable to move your behind. Well, I guess if this chick is like that too and doesn't have a problem with it, then there's no issue. I just think that you should diversify rather than remain stale. 😉 😛
 
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