Originally posted by: EvilYoda
I don't know you, and I know the women even less, so I won't give you any "advice".
But I will clap my hands for you and say "bravo"...for once, an ATOT YAGT with attractive women. Whichever one you decide to be with...it's not really that bad, is it.![]()
Originally posted by: jacob0401
You keep saying they're both young for you...so exactly how old are you? Just wondering.
Originally posted by: Mandrill
How old are they? they look real young for you at 34. Bastard
but seriously, I am concerned about the kid thing. It sounds like you've met the kids already. You didn't give a time frame of how long you knew the women before you met the kids. How long was it? IMO a person should always hold off on meeting the kids/being introduced as a boyfriend type thing until you are sure you are wanting to stick around/get serious.
It can really mess with the kids minds if they see daddy or mommy with different partners.
Originally posted by: GroundZero
Originally posted by: Mandrill
How old are they? they look real young for you at 34. Bastard
but seriously, I am concerned about the kid thing. It sounds like you've met the kids already. You didn't give a time frame of how long you knew the women before you met the kids. How long was it? IMO a person should always hold off on meeting the kids/being introduced as a boyfriend type thing until you are sure you are wanting to stick around/get serious.
It can really mess with the kids minds if they see daddy or mommy with different partners.
28, and 26 respectively.
mel i had lived with for about 2 years. herr boys are 5 and 9
jill has a 1 1/2 year old boy and a 13 yr old girl. i know she started rreally young.
the boys are my buds! always will be. and they have no illusions as to who i am.
met a sleeping baby basically on the other one. her daughter was out for a sleepover with a frriend for the weekend with herr dad
Originally posted by: AnyMal
So you just met that girl last night and she readily jumped in bed with you...hmmmm.. I think the real question here is what's her agenda? If her previous "record" is of any indication, I would run from her as fast as possible no matter how good she's in the sack. Oh, and you are not ready for a serious relationship if you're asking us who you should be with. Just my $0.02
