YAGT: Some questions/looking for input - UPDATED

[Kirby]

Originally posted by: headRush
Thanks for the advice guys. Next girl, ill definitely express interest earlier.

Way to learn from your mistakes. That way we'll have less YAGTs in the future.

 

[headRush]

Everyone is telling me that i'm not cut out for this, apparently im too nice. My friends think i should go for that sh1t, since she is clearly interested. They think that not flirting now would just be stupid, "put the flirting on the afterburners and grow some balls", thats a resounding motif in my friends opinions. Seems like a good idea to me, moving on just because she started dating a guy doesn't mean i'm totally out of it, does it? The problem is if I ask her out right now its a definite no, but she might be more inclined to end it with her current BF.

Asking her out now is out of the question, because there is absolutely no outcome that is going to be in my favor.

1 - We are great friends and I don't to risk the friendship(friendship turns weird out of awkwardness/i never get another shot).
2 - Sorry im already going out with someone...(everything changes, i pretty much have to stop flirting now).
3 - Reserved generic illogical female response.

So, opinions? Advice? Should I act like her BF doesn't exist and keep doing what i'm doing? Whats the worst that can happen, she could tell me to stop, but thats not so bad, because I could play it off like I was just messing around...

 

[Garet Jax]

Dude, the worst she can say is no and then you are no different than you are right now...

 

[headRush]

OP Updated.

ATOT THE ADVICE IS WORKING, MOAR PLEASE.

 

[FoBoT]

Originally posted by: headRush

ATOT THE ADVICE IS WORKING...

:Q


<sends temperature probe down to hell>

 

[IceBergSLiM]

at this point stop with the games, tell her straight out ......."hey I like the vibe we have when we're together, lets hang out this weekend. "

if she says no.....who cares move on.

 

[sixone]

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
at this point stop with the games, tell her straight out ......."hey I like the vibe we have when we're together, lets hang out this weekend. "

if she says no.....who cares move on.

:thumbsup:

At some point, you gotta quit with the games and be yourself. If you can't do it now, you never will.

 

[clamum]

Shennies?

 

[SViper]

Dude, you are thinking about this way too much. Just ask her if she wants to do something with you this weekend. Preferably in the evening/night. She would equate that with an official date. If she says yes, you're in like flinn. If she says no, she can still be friends with you.