YAGT: Should I feel dis-respected ?

[polm]

(before you flame....yagt.org is down, OK ?)

I broke up with a 2-month long GF 2 days ago. She kept getting mad at me for having Girl - Friends , especially one girl who happens to be my best friend.

So I told her I didnt want anything serious and we broke up.

Last night I was awoken at 4:00 AM to the sound of my roomates and friends coming home from the bar. No big deal. But when I look out my window I see my recent Ex locking lips with some dude right there on my front porch. Right on the other side of my bedroom window !!!

Seriously...I don't care who or what she does. But come on...not at my house !

Right ???

 

[bleeb]

Edited: For sensitivity issues.

 

[Mill]

There is only one proper and mature way to handle this. Fvck her best friend.

 

[polm]

Originally posted by: Millennium
There is only one proper and mature way to handle this. Fvck her best friend.

i would...except her best friend is my roomates GF.

 

[Digobick]

Originally posted by: Millennium
There is only one proper and mature way to handle this. Fvck her best friend.

Or her mom. :Q

 

[Encryptic]

I'd just ignore it. She's trying to get to you by pulling stupid crap like that. If you don't let it bother you, she'll give up eventually. You were better off without her anyway if she's sunk to that level, not to mention the fact she's obviously
so insecure that she can't let you be friends with other girls.

 

[Mill]

Originally posted by: Digobick

Originally posted by: Millennium
There is only one proper and mature way to handle this. Fvck her best friend.

Or her mom. :Q

Well, I'm gonna have to go with this man's solution then.

 

[DannyBoy]

Originally posted by: Digobick

Originally posted by: Millennium
There is only one proper and mature way to handle this. Fvck her best friend.

Or her mom. :Q

Another vote for her fvcking her mum :beer:

By the way I like your methods Mil :beer:

 

[TheAudit]

That's pretty low.

I wouldn't worry about it, you guys broke up, she can do what she wants.
If she wants to be an a$$ that's her problem.

Move on.

 

[polm]

Originally posted by: TheAudit
That's pretty low.

I wouldn't worry about it, you guys broke up, she can do what she wants.
If she wants to be an a$$ that's her problem.

Move on.

but at my house ??? the only place in the world where I can reign supreme ?? it's my territory man...jeez.

 

[conjur]

You dumped her, of course she's going to want some revenge of her own

Just ignore her and let her do whatever she wants. She's none of your concern anymore, eh?

 

[Leejai]

i wouldn't worry about it...because they're your ex doesn't mean you can't continue to hit it....who cares if she's locking lips...i'm sure you still have control...

or, hit up her mom.....that was hilarious....., but the roommate/best friend situation is more achievable....but damn that's evil.....lol...

 

[dpm]

Originally posted by: Millennium

Originally posted by: Digobick

Originally posted by: Millennium There is only one proper and mature way to handle this. Fvck her best friend.

Or her mom. :Q

Well, I'm gonna have to go with this man's solution then.

No no nono. The sister! Always the sister!

 

[Krassus]

First off, you did the right thing for telling the jealous b1tch off. Second, the WHOLE POINT of what she's doing now is to piss you off. If you let it get to you, she wins. So get it outa your head. Really, who gives a damn what that loser does?

 

[polm]

so noone thinks I should be upset simply due to the fact that it occured at MY HOME ?

 

[crystal]

What is the bid deal? You guys broke up. BTW, how do you know she did it to get back at you? Remember it was 4:00 AM and you just woke up. Likely she thought you were asleep. When she planted that kiss, you are the furthest things in her mind. IMO.

 

[bleeb]

SOLUTION: NEXT time this happens, just open up the window and tell her YOU GOT A CASE OF ORAL HERPES FROM HER while she is making out with another guy!!! vwhahahaah

 

[polm]

Originally posted by: Krassus
First off, you did the right thing for telling the jealous b1tch off. Second, the WHOLE POINT of what she's doing now is to piss you off. If you let it get to you, she wins. So get it outa your head. Really, who gives a damn what that loser does?

fair enough. That is how I have played it so far.

I guess I will keep the annoyance to myself...

 

[polm]

Originally posted by: crystal
What is the bid deal? You guys broke up. BTW, how do you know she did it to get back at you? Remember it was 4:00 AM and you just woke up. Likely she thought you were asleep. When she planted that kiss, you are the furthest things in her mind. IMO.

no doubt. I didnt say it was about me at all.

I am just upset that it was occuring at my house. I don't want ex-girlfirends fooling around with other boys at my house.

I guess thats just some stupid guy thing. But thats how I feel : dis-respected.

 

[PanzerIV]

Originally posted by: polm
so noone thinks I should be upset simply due to the fact that it occured at MY HOME ?

Nope. You should in fact be extra nice to them which will really bother her if she's seeking some sort of immature revenge notions towards you. Act like it doesn't bother you one bit even if it does. I assure you that alone will piss her off more than anything.

 

[Encryptic]

Originally posted by: polm
so noone thinks I should be upset simply due to the fact that it occured at MY HOME ?

Well....I would be pissed off, but that was obviously Psycho Bitch's intent. Like I said already, just ignore her and she'll give up eventually. She's obviously too immature to handle the fact that you kicked her to the curb.

 

[CChaos]

In all likelihood, she wants to piss you off. So, don't let it and you are teh winnar!

 

[polm]

Just to add:

After I was rudely awakened, I got up to piss and get some water. When I came back to my bedroom I saw my ex sitting alone on the couch. (I guess her new man left).

I said "Hey were did everybody go ?... didn't I hear some people ?"

She said "That was Ray"

I said "Oh...i was wondering who I saw you with on my porch"

She said "How do you like having it thrown in your face ? "

I just went to bed after she said that.

 

[geno]

She said "How do you like having it thrown in your face ? "

Woah, sounds like a psycho alert.

Steer very clear, talk to your buddy and tell him to not take her back to your place, ever.

 

[polm]

Originally posted by: geno

She said "How do you like having it thrown in your face ? "

Woah, sounds like a psycho alert.

Steer very clear, talk to your buddy and tell him to not take her back to your place, ever.

unfortunately she is Best Friends with his GF...who happens to practically live with us. He is totally whipped by her too. I will have to talk to her for any real results.