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YAGT - She's stalking me, an obsession in progress

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You all are being way to harsh.

All of you that put up a <vomit> or derogatory comment: put up your pic so we can make comments about you.
If you won't put up... then shut up. I'd be willing to bet that the majority of you that said something aren't exactly looking like male models yourselves.

Asses.

Someone new comes to the forums and just because they don't have a supermodels looks you berate her for it.
 
Originally posted by: ThaGrandCow
You all are being way to harsh.

All of you that put up a <vomit> or derogatory comment: put up your pic so we can make comments about you.
If you won't put up... then shut up. I'd be willing to bet that the majority of you that said something aren't exactly looking like male models yourselves.

Asses.

Someone new comes to the forums and just because they don't have a supermodels looks you berate her for it.
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YAY TheGrandCow!....i was going to say something...but i am soooo mad at lithium for doing this...i knew this was going to happen...esp with these guys...i mean they are funny...but some of the comments they make towards people that are not the "sterotypical" female image are just plain rude....

thats what i was going to say...post a pic lets see what you all look like......

i was actually debating if i should still post on these forums....how do you think this thread makes me feel?...iam deamed as a "stalker chick now"..THANK YOU LITHIUM!!!!!....

either way i DONT CARE what anyone thinks about me....and this is WHY i have my social issue....because of jerks that judge me before they know me!.....so...whatever....

 
I have to second that motion. You were set up from the beginning here, and the guys can be quite harsh, much worse than they're acting in this thread. Time can be much better spent in other ways. Run before you're as addicted as the rest of us poor fools. 🙂
 
Originally posted by: TheHeartless
Originally posted by: ThaGrandCow
You all are being way to harsh.

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either way i DONT CARE what anyone thinks about me....and this is WHY i have my social issue....because of jerks that judge me before they know me!.....so...whatever....
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That's good, because most of them are being rat-bastards. The nice thing is, the Internet is more or less anonymous. Just register a new username and they'll be none the wiser.
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First of all, I don't see what Lithium did as ALL that bad. I HATE Attention Wh0re's as well, but I don't see this as one of those threads. He was posting about some chick that he thought was stalking him. Same thing as someone posting that they are in love with some girl, but can't talk to her.

And I don't think he really humiliated her at all. Do we know any personal information about her? Her Name? Phone Number? Here, we're pretty much just UserNames to each other. (Granted, you can find out MORE from email addy's, Locations, etc.) And ANY information that we know about her specifically, SHE gave us on her website. It was HER fault for posting her site, and pictures of her. I haven't even clicked to go to her site, and so I know NOTHING about her at all just based on this thread.

NOW, that being said, YES, very many members here are VERY rude concerning looks. Half of these people are little dweebs that wouldn't DARE post their own pictures.

(I feel like some sort of ATOT Dad or something.)




KeyserSoze
 
Originally posted by: TheHeartless

either way i DONT CARE what anyone thinks about me....and this is WHY i have my social issue....because of jerks that judge me before they know me!.....so...whatever....
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That's the one biggest thing I took away from my military training. In the end, the only person that I give a fvck about what they think of me is myself. Anyone else can suck on my balls if they don't like me and wants to tell me. Good for you for realizing that too.
 
Originally posted by: Underground727
1. You will know right away if she likes you. She will flirt with you, tell you she finds you attractive, and touch you when it is not necessary. I have yet to meet one of the really pretty ones that was shy. But if she is shy(ugly to mildly attractive), one of her friends will let you know shortly after you have met her.

2. If you can't tell if she likes you, she doesn't.

3. If you can't tell if she likes you, do not make friends with her. It will only push you farther away from her p*ssy. She will want to discuss her boyfriends with you. Making friends with a girl that does not feel the same way about you as you feel about her will only end up hurting you very badly.

4. Do not put yourself in a situation where she is in control. I mean, if she dosn't like you, don't let her know you like her. She will begin to manipulate you and lie to you, and in general f*ck up your head. She will always make it seem like there is a slight chance you could be together, but not right now. This is the worst position you can be in, and will only end in you not feeling good enough.

5. Do not be caring, sensitive, and kind. Be unforgiving, apathetic, and cruel. Make her think you could protect her, not sympathize with her. Notice how assholes always have hot girlfriends? It is because girls like assholes.

6. As soon as you know she likes you, make your move. She will not wait until next week for you. Try holding her hand, or putting your arm around her and see how she reacts.

7. Be very straight forward, don't dick around. You have to spell things out for girls because a lot tends to go right over their head. Tell her exactly how you feel about her.

8. Maybe means "Only if the guy I like dosn't call me.", or "I don't like you but I want to keep you as a friend so I can continue to recieve your special treatment."

9. Girls will never down right turn you down. They want you to stick around until you have lost your usefullness. And then, they will break off contact with you.

10. Girls will lie up and down until they are absolutely caught red handed. And then they will still lie as much as possible to get themselves out of it. Learn to detect when a girl is lieing by her body movements and tone of voice. They can look you straight in the eye and lie to you.

11. If you have to choose between two girls, i.e., the hot one that is untrustworthy, a compulsive liar, has serious emotional disorders, and makes you feel bad, or the one that is just average or cute but you get along with, there is only one solution. Get the hot one wasted(Xanax + Smirnoff Ice = Guaranteed), hit it, and then quit it. She will want to start a relationship with you in the morning. You must resist, because that is the path to misery. Let her suffer for all the guys she has made suffer. And then, start a great relationship with the other one.

12. If she will leave her current boyfriend to hook up with you, she will do the same thing to you. Stay away from these girls. Unless, of course, you just want a piece of ass. Then get out of there.

13. If you are already friends with her, and she dosn't like you, stop showing her special treatment immediatly. She will not stick around for very long at all.

14. If she's younger than 23, then she's most likely confused as hell. Girls who are older than that with a career oriented/related job usually know what they want.

She's ugly, huh?

#7

Just tell her straight up: I am not interested in you.
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Underground is a very wise man. Listen to him!

The only issue I take with your post is that when you generalize about girls, you should be referring to immature girls who don't know what they want and/or have little self-esteem, which sadly is the case the vast majority of the time and so much so that when a mature, level-headed girl comes along, a guy won't know what to do with her because he is so used to the creulty and bitchiness that characterizes so many younger girls today.

I bolded #7 because I can't agree with you anymore there. Perhaps I am just speaking for myself, but girls highly value communication.

 
Originally posted by: yellowperil
A girl stalking an ATOT member? Inconceivable!
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I've stalked certain ATOT'ers before... I have an abnormally curious mind though so I'm really harmless. I do it to sate my curiosity. Really. At least that's what I tell myself. Heh.

I didn't join the forums because I was interested in one person though. That's kinda weird if you ask me. I joined because I have an ex who is an AT'er and he used to be active on here when we were dating. We broke up around Feb '01 and it was a couple months afterwards that I really started lurking around here out of curiosity (and boredom at my old job). Then the addiction set in and I've been a junkie ever since.



 
She sounds like an ok girl, a little too interested in anime for someone outside of elementary school, but to each their on.

My diagnosis is she liked you a little initially, maybe even had a little crush on you since you were one of the few people that could see inside of her and got to know the real "TheHeartless".

However, since you are so non-confrontational and afraid of girls, you ran away and posted this here, possibly ruining any chance you had with her as well as the other 3 girls who post here and might be reading this.
 
Originally posted by: TheCorm
This thred is a bit nuts for my liking....but I read it anyway.....😕😉

Look what Google found
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wohoo my personal site not updated since i think three years ago or something 😀

However, since you are so non-confrontational and afraid of girls, you ran away and posted this here, possibly ruining any chance you had with her as well as the other 3 girls who post here and might be reading this.
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the first part of your diagnosis is fairly correct. however:
i'm not afraid of girls, just ones that follow me and stalk me and stuff, which i must admit does not happen quite often, i think this is the first.....normally i'm a very social person and don't have a problem with people at all
 
Originally posted by: Nitemare
She sounds like an ok girl, a little too interested in anime for someone outside of elementary school, but to each their on.

My diagnosis is she liked you a little initially, maybe even had a little crush on you since you were one of the few people that could see inside of her and got to know the real "TheHeartless".

However, since you are so non-confrontational and afraid of girls, you ran away and posted this here, possibly ruining any chance you had with her as well as the other 3 girls who post here and might be reading this.
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haha ... there is a difference between anime and cartoons ... there is a huge population of people outside of elementary school that are interested in anime ...
 
Originally posted by: LordSnailz
Originally posted by: Nitemare
She sounds like an ok girl, a little too interested in anime for someone outside of elementary school, but to each their on.

My diagnosis is she liked you a little initially, maybe even had a little crush on you since you were one of the few people that could see inside of her and got to know the real "TheHeartless".

However, since you are so non-confrontational and afraid of girls, you ran away and posted this here, possibly ruining any chance you had with her as well as the other 3 girls who post here and might be reading this.
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haha ... there is a difference between anime and cartoons ... there is a huge population of people outside of elementary school that are interested in anime ...
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Why? 😀
 
Originally posted by: Nitemare
Originally posted by: LordSnailz
Originally posted by: Nitemare
She sounds like an ok girl, a little too interested in anime for someone outside of elementary school, but to each their on.

My diagnosis is she liked you a little initially, maybe even had a little crush on you since you were one of the few people that could see inside of her and got to know the real "TheHeartless".

However, since you are so non-confrontational and afraid of girls, you ran away and posted this here, possibly ruining any chance you had with her as well as the other 3 girls who post here and might be reading this.
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haha ... there is a difference between anime and cartoons ... there is a huge population of people outside of elementary school that are interested in anime ...
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Why? 😀
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i'd like to know too.
 
Originally posted by: Lithium381
Originally posted by: TheCorm
This thred is a bit nuts for my liking....but I read it anyway.....😕😉

Look what Google found
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wohoo my personal site not updated since i think three years ago or something 😀

However, since you are so non-confrontational and afraid of girls, you ran away and posted this here, possibly ruining any chance you had with her as well as the other 3 girls who post here and might be reading this.
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the first part of your diagnosis is fairly correct. however:
i'm not afraid of girls, just ones that follow me and stalk me and stuff, which i must admit does not happen quite often, i think this is the first.....normally i'm a very social person and don't have a problem with people at all
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I AM NOT STALKING YOU!!!....dang it lithium....BAH...anyways!!!!

 
Originally posted by: TheHeartless
Originally posted by: Lithium381
Originally posted by: TheCorm
This thred is a bit nuts for my liking....but I read it anyway.....😕😉

Look what Google found
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wohoo my personal site not updated since i think three years ago or something 😀

However, since you are so non-confrontational and afraid of girls, you ran away and posted this here, possibly ruining any chance you had with her as well as the other 3 girls who post here and might be reading this.
Click to expand...

the first part of your diagnosis is fairly correct. however:
i'm not afraid of girls, just ones that follow me and stalk me and stuff, which i must admit does not happen quite often, i think this is the first.....normally i'm a very social person and don't have a problem with people at all
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I AM NOT STALKING YOU!!!....dang it lithium....BAH...anyways!!!!
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litium and heartless sitting in a tree.......
 
Look, why don't you 2 get it over with and go bump bellies for a while. When you are done, decide if it was good enough to post about and the post it anyway.

 
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