YAGT - She's stalking me, an obsession in progress

[AreaCode707]

TheHeartless - whatever else you guys do together or whatever you've gotten out of this friendship, he's doing his darndest to try to lose you right now, whether that's because of something you've done / are doing or because of something up with him. It really doesn't matter which - your best move would be to simply go ahead and leave him alone, because he's not giving you any room to patch this up.

Lithium, sounds like you may have or have had some justification for thinking she's "stalking" you, but this was the most absurd way possible to get her to stop. Want to make it easier for her? Tell her exactly what you want her to do - "don't call me, talk to me, think about me, etc.", or "let's only hang out when we're in a group of friends" or something. It doesn't sound from her posts like you've made it very clear to her what level of relationship you'd like to have. Since there isn't much she can do to maintain a relationship if you don't want to, that's the best way for you to get out of this.

 

[ragazzo]

Originally posted by: Underground727


5. Do not be caring, sensitive, and kind. Be unforgiving, apathetic, and cruel. Make her think you could protect her, not sympathize with her. Notice how assholes always have hot girlfriends? It is because girls like assholes.

hmm...then shouldn't he be super caring, sensitive and kind to her since it's the assholes who get hot gf's? 😀

 

[imported_Papi]

She is really cute!

enough of Lithium and his bitchin, lets hear more about you 😉

 

[Underground727]

Originally posted by: ragazzo

Originally posted by: Underground727


5. Do not be caring, sensitive, and kind. Be unforgiving, apathetic, and cruel. Make her think you could protect her, not sympathize with her. Notice how assholes always have hot girlfriends? It is because girls like assholes.

hmm...then shouldn't he be super caring, sensitive and kind to her since it's the assholes who get hot gf's? 😀

It seems him being a dick to her has worked so far...

 

[SCSIfreek]

Originally posted by: Underground727

Originally posted by: ragazzo

Originally posted by: Underground727


5. Do not be caring, sensitive, and kind. Be unforgiving, apathetic, and cruel. Make her think you could protect her, not sympathize with her. Notice how assholes always have hot girlfriends? It is because girls like assholes.

hmm...then shouldn't he be super caring, sensitive and kind to her since it's the assholes who get hot gf's? 😀

It seems him being a dick to her has worked so far...

Seems like we have got a resident Dr. Love here in ATOT=Groundunder616

 

[TheHeartless]

Originally posted by: OulOat
Whoa, after checking that site out, I can tell you it looks like a total time waster, much like ATOT. And that pic on your home page is so wrong, isn't that goddess like 12 or something? :Q

its goddess 4...and yes i am a time waster..
😀

 

[TheHeartless]

Originally posted by: nan0bug
I still think they're both attention whores. Him for posting it here and her for actually responding to it in here. I know damn well if someone did that to me I wouldn't give them the satisfaction of responding to it publicly.

he told me too.. i wasnt going to respond here, i'd rather settle things outside of public forums..but lithium is a weird guy...

 

[TheHeartless]

Originally posted by: luvly
If you really want to see a pic of The Heartless, go here: Her Friends. She has two pics there.

Weird . . . The Heartless has a pic of her bf and her. Uhmm . . . would that be Lithium? 😕 Or does boyfriend refer to just a male friend? 😕

everyone wants a picture they have to be in the right section of my journal...these pictures are of my community followers... if your on my journal [from that page]...click recent entries....(to the right) and scroll down to june2........thats me....yes i do like to dress up as anime chicks...but that is not me....

 

[pillage2001]

Originally posted by: TheHeartless

Originally posted by: nan0bug
I still think they're both attention whores. Him for posting it here and her for actually responding to it in here. I know damn well if someone did that to me I wouldn't give them the satisfaction of responding to it publicly.

he told me too.. i wasnt going to respond here, i'd rather settle things outside of public forums..but lithium is a weird guy...

"Pot, Kettle, black"

 

"everyone wants a picture they have to be in the right section of my journal...these pictures are of my community followers... if your on my journal [from that page]...click recent entries....(to the right) and scroll down to june2........thats me....yes i do like to dress up as anime chicks...but that is not me...."

Ooops! So this is you 😱 : Lithium's Friend.

 

IGNORE HER.
ATTENTION is what "stalkers" want.
Do not give it to them.

 

[Underground727]

so thats not pic of you on the friends page?

so this is you: TheHeartless


i retract all my previos statement....

<--- vomits

 

[dfi]

This seemed like a good time to count++.

dfi

 

[imported_Papi]

Originally posted by: Underground727
so thats not pic of you on the friends page?

so this is you: TheHeartless


i retract all my previos statement....

<--- vomits

ass

 

[jjones]

Alright, the next person who asks for pics is gonna get shot.

 

[SP33Demon]

Originally posted by: Gr1mL0cK
DHITB!

 

[nativesunshine]

Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Hey, Girl Who's Stalking Lithium ...

- M4H

Thread's too long for me to read through...so I'll nef a bit..hehe. That picture is great...made me laugh..all I can think about is the whale parts...oh gosh..i almost fell out of my seat at the theater b/c I was laughing so hard. That movie was great...woohoo!

Oh yea...my inital reaction to the first post though: if you knew she frequents ATOT...then why would you purposely humiliate her and make a thread that you KNOW she'd see? So bad...what a jerk.

 

[BooGiMaN]

good god is this thread still going on?

anyway from what i gather she hasnt really been stalking him and has stopped most of the stuff she was doing which means he only posted to get attention and be 'da man'

is it just me, cuz reading this thread im getting the_good_guy thread flashbacks....

"hey look at me im a nerd and got a girl stalking me...i must be all that'

 

[LeStEr]

Originally posted by: Ciber
If you're single, use her as a sex slave. 😀

 

[OulOat]

Originally posted by: TheHeartless

Originally posted by: OulOat
Whoa, after checking that site out, I can tell you it looks like a total time waster, much like ATOT. And that pic on your home page is so wrong, isn't that goddess like 12 or something? :Q

its goddess 4...and yes i am a time waster..
😀

Who is this and please introduce me, since we know each other from like 1 post or something 😀

 

[MercenaryForHire]

Originally posted by: nativesunshine

Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Hey, Girl Who's Stalking Lithium ...

- M4H

Thread's too long for me to read through...so I'll nef a bit..hehe. That picture is great...made me laugh..all I can think about is the whale parts...oh gosh..i almost fell out of my seat at the theater b/c I was laughing so hard. That movie was great...woohoo!

Oh yea...my inital reaction to the first post though: if you knew she frequents ATOT...then why would you purposely humiliate her and make a thread that you KNOW she'd see? So bad...what a jerk.

Thank you. And for my next trick ...

This thread has been ...

- M4H

 

[Lithium381]

What community college do you go to? There are so many community colleges in the Santa Clara county. I know of San Jose City, Evergreen, West Valley, Mission, and De Anza. Not all of the colleges are of the same calibre, so I do know what you mean. But Lithium is so turned on by this notion that you would give up your education and quality of life for him by leaving a good college and go to a less valuable college solely to be around him. I doubt it, but whatever he says to make himself feel good.

if you'd pay attention, i simply said that we happend to attend the same community college, not that she had followed me there. i would have suggested going there to her, as it's slightly higher education than those around us(from what i've heard)

Honestly, I would say you should stop wasting your time with someone who humiliates you. And in spite of how meanly he speaks of you, there would be some truth and validity to what he's saying. If you surround him a lot, you should cut down on it. Even if you were trying to be great friends with him, he doesn't seem to want to let go of the fact that you like him a lot but can still be close friends with him. Let him go. Trust me, you may think that he's just being silly, but this guy is really being disrespectful. Don't let your dignity be injured by any guy. He sure doesn't seem to be joking here when he subjects you to humiliation by posting in a forum where he knows that's what happens, and hardly any d**k head dork here would understand such joke.

as for all of you speaking of humiliation......how? i didn't give out a user name, use any specific info, very vauge. and i don't see where i'm *TOO* mean.....once again, it's not like i lied or anything, and did not go into ANY detail at all.

If she told you, then I have to ask The Heartless why in God's name she would reveal to a guy that she had feelings for that she was posting where he posted? It would be worse if you actually even told him what identity you used. You know he would want to pump up his ego by announcing to the forum that some girl that likes him, likes him, but he doesn't feel the same way toward was following him. Even if you were sincerely interested in just reading the forum contents, he would still think that your world revolved around him. I'm sorry, but there are some silly things you do in life that puts you in a certain position. You could play it smart with this guy and by the end of the day he wouldn't know he just got robbed (speaking figuratively).

i found out from my brother, whom she told. i know she's been lurking a while. basicly she never would have come here if i weren't here, i stand by that, since how would she know this place existed? it IS easily searched if you are looking for computer things, but she doesn't do that.....so she hangs around which is cool, but it was just odd to me that of everywhere else on the internet and the countless number of forums, out of the 1/10000000000 chance....it would be here she chose to post......get what i'm saying. and why would she post here secretly and all that? it's just plain odd......it was all annonymous
but i admit it, this may not have been the best way to go about things......however, being my first YAGT thread(i think), and sorta /rant/ mode you guys can make an exception !!

 

[imported_Papi]

So, why aren't you attracted to her, again?

I dont want to flip back 2 pages.

 

[Lithium381]

Originally posted by: yayo
So, why aren't you attracted to her, again?

I dont want to flip back 2 pages.

er?!?!? that's a hard question to answer - i'm just not........same reason you're not attracted to the kid down the street or your neighbors cousin........

 

[MercenaryForHire]

Originally posted by: yayo
So, why aren't you attracted to her, again?

I dont want to flip back 2 pages.

<Heartless bastard>

You didn't see her pic, did you. 😛

</Heartless bastard>

- M4H