- Jun 14, 2004
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Alright I know its kind of lame asking atot for dating advice, but I am stuck here at work for a while and I need some suggestions.
First of all, yes I have been on dates many times before and I know the basics. Unfortunantly I am 23 have never had a real relationship, in fact never had one for over 2 weeks. Most of the time when I go on a date I am not really worried about the outcome, thus not really nervous on most dates. Usually I dont know much about her and vice versa when it comes to a first date and it is only physical attractions. They end up usually not working due to incompatibilities.
However, this chick is different. I met her out of the blue in a bar when I was not even trying to get any women that night (I was dressed in an AC/DC 1995 tour shirt, fairly unkempt and unshaven), I was pretty much there just to get drunk and play pool with my friends. However, I walk by her and she mentions she likes AC/DC. We talk a little bit, I ask for her #, and she puts her # in my phone. This never really happens to me, I usually have to try really hard to get women and get rejected all the time (lesbians, boyfriend bomb, moving, I heard it all).
Anyways, fast forward to last weekend. I tell her to come out and watch my band play friday. She came out, but unfortunantly we could not talk too much cause I knew way too many people in the bar and had to help haul crap in and out for the bands. I felt really sorry for leaving her alone, and she ended up leaving during my set cause there were way too many people in the bar and she knew nobody. She got a ride to a bar with a couple of her other friends (female) , however she called me up and asked me to come out there with her. Unfortunantly I had to decline cause I had to help the bands pick crap up. She came back to pick up her car, called me when she came to get her car, we talked some more, I asked her to grab some drinks with me at a bar Saturday night, she sad yes, hugged for a while, and she left. However, looking into her eyes when she left I knew she liked me and I actually really liked her (yeah its sappy).
So Saturday night we meet up at the bar and talk for a while over some drinks. After about an hour or so of great conversation I ask her out for a date Thursday and she said yes rather happily. Her friends ended up coming over later, we all joked around and a group of us went over to her friends house. While over there we kept talking and ended up all over each other. I got her to drop me off at my van, we kissed, and I was on my way.
So here I am, really nervous about Thurday night. Normally I dont care much about dates because I am only physically attracted to the chicks I ask out, but she is different. I like actually "really" like her alot and dont want to screw this up. Anyone have some suggestions?
Update
We ended up hanging out at her place for a very long time last night after we went out. I accidently spilt beer all over one chick though last night
Lets just say everything is fantastic :thumbsup: We are still goin out tonight.
First of all, yes I have been on dates many times before and I know the basics. Unfortunantly I am 23 have never had a real relationship, in fact never had one for over 2 weeks. Most of the time when I go on a date I am not really worried about the outcome, thus not really nervous on most dates. Usually I dont know much about her and vice versa when it comes to a first date and it is only physical attractions. They end up usually not working due to incompatibilities.
However, this chick is different. I met her out of the blue in a bar when I was not even trying to get any women that night (I was dressed in an AC/DC 1995 tour shirt, fairly unkempt and unshaven), I was pretty much there just to get drunk and play pool with my friends. However, I walk by her and she mentions she likes AC/DC. We talk a little bit, I ask for her #, and she puts her # in my phone. This never really happens to me, I usually have to try really hard to get women and get rejected all the time (lesbians, boyfriend bomb, moving, I heard it all).
Anyways, fast forward to last weekend. I tell her to come out and watch my band play friday. She came out, but unfortunantly we could not talk too much cause I knew way too many people in the bar and had to help haul crap in and out for the bands. I felt really sorry for leaving her alone, and she ended up leaving during my set cause there were way too many people in the bar and she knew nobody. She got a ride to a bar with a couple of her other friends (female) , however she called me up and asked me to come out there with her. Unfortunantly I had to decline cause I had to help the bands pick crap up. She came back to pick up her car, called me when she came to get her car, we talked some more, I asked her to grab some drinks with me at a bar Saturday night, she sad yes, hugged for a while, and she left. However, looking into her eyes when she left I knew she liked me and I actually really liked her (yeah its sappy).
So Saturday night we meet up at the bar and talk for a while over some drinks. After about an hour or so of great conversation I ask her out for a date Thursday and she said yes rather happily. Her friends ended up coming over later, we all joked around and a group of us went over to her friends house. While over there we kept talking and ended up all over each other. I got her to drop me off at my van, we kissed, and I was on my way.
So here I am, really nervous about Thurday night. Normally I dont care much about dates because I am only physically attracted to the chicks I ask out, but she is different. I like actually "really" like her alot and dont want to screw this up. Anyone have some suggestions?
Update
We ended up hanging out at her place for a very long time last night after we went out. I accidently spilt beer all over one chick though last night
Lets just say everything is fantastic :thumbsup: We are still goin out tonight.
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