Sucks to be you. You gambled with the unprotected sex, you lost.
Best thing, really, would be to give the kid up for adoption as soon as she has it. That way parents who really do want a kid and are better equiped to care for it than you are can get their shot at things. There is also the potential for less emotional tramua as your GF will not have to live with the fact that her first baby is dead at her own behest. The 9 months of pregnancy will do wonders for teaching the both of you to use protection the next time as well.
People always talk about responsiblity for actions and taking it, here. What they always forget is sometimes our actions have unpleasent consequences and the "quick fix" isn't always the best solution.
-- Jack
Dad: "Son, masturbating will make you go blind."
Son: "Dad, I'm over here
-- Anandtech.com
Best thing, really, would be to give the kid up for adoption as soon as she has it. That way parents who really do want a kid and are better equiped to care for it than you are can get their shot at things. There is also the potential for less emotional tramua as your GF will not have to live with the fact that her first baby is dead at her own behest. The 9 months of pregnancy will do wonders for teaching the both of you to use protection the next time as well.
People always talk about responsiblity for actions and taking it, here. What they always forget is sometimes our actions have unpleasent consequences and the "quick fix" isn't always the best solution.
-- Jack
Dad: "Son, masturbating will make you go blind."
Son: "Dad, I'm over here
-- Anandtech.com