YAGT: Kinda worried... dating for a month and a half...

[alm4rr]

Originally posted by: Scribe
I am not sure what most guys like in girls, but I like girls that we are well... girly. You know, sensitive, emotional (to a point), caring, like cute movies, etc...

The girl I'm dating isn't very sensitive or affectionate. I watched Notting Hill with her (and I think it's a pretty good chick flick) and she didn't like it much. She isn't very affectionate, almost distant.

I'm not sure if it's just me, or maybe I should stop seeing her. I guess I'm just used to girls being affectionate, and now I like girls like that.

Anyhoo, let me know what you think. She is just hawt so I keep going out with her, but I don't know about long term... and that's what I'm looking for.

maybe b/c she thinks you're the chick in this relationship ...

 

[dartworth]

To quote the poet J.Lo

"Love don't cost a thing..."

 

[OsoVerde]

Some people are more lovey-dovey than others? Nothing wrong with that, people can still care and love without being into sappy romanticism. Find someone more lovey-dovey if you prefer that in a relationship?

That said, she sounds like total fail... I'd dump her just for being greedy and thinking she has a right to anything she wants, including use of other people's money. She doesn't sound very into you, either. I'm not very lovey-dovey or girly, but if I like someone I don't just sit there acting disinterested until he does something. I guess there are a few women mired in the belief that the man always has to make the first move. Whichever it is, unless you don't mind always being the one to initiate making out or whatever display of affection, you should probably dump her or ask what's up.

Edit: You don't sound very into her, either. If you're looking for anything longterm, hawtness alone will get you nowhere. 😛

 

[Viperoni]

Doesn't sound like the girl for you.
IMO, cut your losses.