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YAGT: Kinda worried... dating for a month and a half...

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Shyatic

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I am not sure what most guys like in girls, but I like girls that we are well... girly. You know, sensitive, emotional (to a point), caring, like cute movies, etc...

The girl I'm dating isn't very sensitive or affectionate. I watched Notting Hill with her (and I think it's a pretty good chick flick) and she didn't like it much. She isn't very affectionate, almost distant.

I'm not sure if it's just me, or maybe I should stop seeing her. I guess I'm just used to girls being affectionate, and now I like girls like that.

Anyhoo, let me know what you think. She is just hawt so I keep going out with her, but I don't know about long term... and that's what I'm looking for.
 
Personally, I'd put not liking Noting Hill in the plus column. But the affection thing is troubling...perhaps she's waiting for you to be more assertive?
 
Is she sporty/tomboy-ish? If so, unlock the girly-ness in her. If she's a freakin satanist or "anarchist I hate you all die", then drop her ass. Can you make this girl laugh?
 
Originally posted by: PingSpike
Personally, I'd put not liking Noting Hill in the plus column. But the affection thing is troubling...perhaps she's waiting for you to be more assertive?
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Or she knows she's hot and is one of those self-important type of girls.
 
Originally posted by: PingSpike
Personally, I'd put not liking Noting Hill in the plus column. But the affection thing is troubling...perhaps she's waiting for you to be more assertive?
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No, I kissed her on the second date, and she told me later that she loves that I 'take charge' like that... I'm not overly aggressive but when I want to suck face, I just pull her forward and do it 😛

And I'd post pics... but I'm not like freedomsbeat and just post random pics of girls on the internet. Sorry 🙁
 
As an aside... she is very spoiled by her dad. Gets everything she wants, new car, jewelry, etc... I had an arguement with her last night telling her if she wants to go the distance with me, that she has to cut that sh!t out cuz I am not going to do it. I'm thoughtful but I'm not going to buy jewelry every time I'm thinking about her.
 
Originally posted by: Scribe
As an aside... she is very spoiled by her dad. Gets everything she wants, new car, jewelry, etc... I had an arguement with her last night telling her if she wants to go the distance with me, that she has to cut that sh!t out cuz I am not going to do it. I'm thoughtful but I'm not going to buy jewelry every time I'm thinking about her.
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awww, come on... not even a pretty pearl necklace?
 
Originally posted by: Scribe
As an aside... she is very spoiled by her dad. Gets everything she wants, new car, jewelry, etc... I had an arguement with her last night telling her if she wants to go the distance with me, that she has to cut that sh!t out cuz I am not going to do it. I'm thoughtful but I'm not going to buy jewelry every time I'm thinking about her.
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Cut what sh!t out? Taking gifts from her dad?
 
Originally posted by: nonameo
Originally posted by: Scribe
As an aside... she is very spoiled by her dad. Gets everything she wants, new car, jewelry, etc... I had an arguement with her last night telling her if she wants to go the distance with me, that she has to cut that sh!t out cuz I am not going to do it. I'm thoughtful but I'm not going to buy jewelry every time I'm thinking about her.
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awww, come on... not even a pretty pearl necklace?
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If you're thinking about the type of pearl necklace i am..........................

Okay I'm calling shens on myself now! 😀
 
Originally posted by: sixone
Originally posted by: Scribe
As an aside... she is very spoiled by her dad. Gets everything she wants, new car, jewelry, etc... I had an arguement with her last night telling her if she wants to go the distance with me, that she has to cut that sh!t out cuz I am not going to do it. I'm thoughtful but I'm not going to buy jewelry every time I'm thinking about her.
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Cut what sh!t out? Taking gifts from her dad?
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She buys herself the stuff and makes her dad pay for it. If her dad bought her stuff it's one thing, but she buys a lot of stuff for herself and doesn't think too much about any consequences of spending the money. I want somebody I can have a long term (ie, get married to) relationship, and if she's that high maintenance I worry about it, because I don't give in to crap like that.
 
"I realize now how much she's just like the others, cold and distant. And many people are like that, women for sure. They're like a union."
 
Originally posted by: Scribe
Originally posted by: nonameo
Originally posted by: Scribe
As an aside... she is very spoiled by her dad. Gets everything she wants, new car, jewelry, etc... I had an arguement with her last night telling her if she wants to go the distance with me, that she has to cut that sh!t out cuz I am not going to do it. I'm thoughtful but I'm not going to buy jewelry every time I'm thinking about her.
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awww, come on... not even a pretty pearl necklace?
Click to expand...

If you're thinking about the type of pearl necklace i am..........................

Okay I'm calling shens on myself now! 😀
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😕 what are you talking about???

 
Originally posted by: nonameo
Originally posted by: Scribe
Originally posted by: nonameo
Originally posted by: Scribe
As an aside... she is very spoiled by her dad. Gets everything she wants, new car, jewelry, etc... I had an arguement with her last night telling her if she wants to go the distance with me, that she has to cut that sh!t out cuz I am not going to do it. I'm thoughtful but I'm not going to buy jewelry every time I'm thinking about her.
Click to expand...


awww, come on... not even a pretty pearl necklace?
Click to expand...

If you're thinking about the type of pearl necklace i am..........................

Okay I'm calling shens on myself now! 😀
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😕 what are you talking about???
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Urban Dictionary is your friend...
 
Originally posted by: Scribe
Originally posted by: PingSpike
Personally, I'd put not liking Noting Hill in the plus column. But the affection thing is troubling...perhaps she's waiting for you to be more assertive?
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No, I kissed her on the second date, and she told me later that she loves that I 'take charge' like that... I'm not overly aggressive but when I want to suck face, I just pull her forward and do it 😛

And I'd post pics... but I'm not like freedomsbeat and just post random pics of girls on the internet. Sorry 🙁
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+1: has morals.
 
Originally posted by: Scribe
She buys herself the stuff and makes her dad pay for it. If her dad bought her stuff it's one thing, but she buys a lot of stuff for herself and doesn't think too much about any consequences of spending the money. I want somebody I can have a long term (ie, get married to) relationship, and if she's that high maintenance I worry about it, because I don't give in to crap like that.
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She sounds like a bad bet. Move on.
 
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