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Baked

Baked

Lifer
Dec 28, 2004
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Originally posted by: DainBramaged
Originally posted by: Baked
Pick FWB or I'll come and hunt you down Dain. I swear to GOD!
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And if I choose Lucky Girl No. 2, what are you going to do when I STILL refuse to tell you where FWB lives? :D
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OMG, I hate you even more now. *eyes are flamming*
 
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Rogodin2

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Is it a 'promise ring' ? *S*

Is the FWB leaner than the LTR?

It's difficult to give you advice without the other pic. Which one makes you feel secure in your manhood?

Rogo
 
DainBramaged

DainBramaged

Lifer
Jun 19, 2003
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Originally posted by: Rogodin2
Is it a 'promise ring' ? *S*

Is the FWB leaner than the LTR?

It's difficult to give you advice without the other pic. Which one makes you feel secure in your manhood?

Rogo
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Heh, I would post the other pic, but I do not have one. No, it's not a promise ring. It's a "hopefully men will be less likely to hit on me if I wear this" ring. Manhood? I have no idea.
 
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JMWarren

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Nov 6, 2003
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Originally posted by: BlancoNino
Originally posted by: DainBramaged
WHAT SHOULD I DO???
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Pray this thread doesn't get locked like mine did for some unkown reason.



I am to tired to stick around and monitor your mindless, trolling.
AnandTech Moderator
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Thank You for monitoring his mindless, trolling!
 
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Rogodin2

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Godspeed then.

If you don't know what you need as a man then your fvcked either way.

You need to know.

Rogo
 
DainBramaged

DainBramaged

Lifer
Jun 19, 2003
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Originally posted by: johnjbruin
Originally posted by: Baked
Pick FWB or I'll come and hunt you down Dain. I swear to GOD!
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QFT

If he misses - I'll find you and hunt you down.
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Well, I *would* pick her if she would let me! How long can I remain single waiting for her though?
 
sixone

sixone

Lifer
May 3, 2004
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Originally posted by: DainBramaged
Originally posted by: sixone
Awww, Dain - you're breaking my heart!! :p
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I'm sorry sixone, the FWB thing is just getting old. :( I need long-term commitment. :brokenheart:
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I'll be waiting...
 
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Chrono

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good god. you gotta ask which girl you should choose? you are the fail at finding the girl you want.
 
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doze

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Enjoy the FWB but don't openly fall for her or you could completely blow it if she does not feel the same way about you. If she likes you she will come around and it could take you spending a little time with another girl to make her realize she wants you.

So my answer to you is have fun with both for as long as you can and enjoy it as long as you can get away with it.
 
DainBramaged

DainBramaged

Lifer
Jun 19, 2003
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Originally posted by: Chrono
good god. you gotta ask which girl you should choose? you are the fail at finding the girl you want.
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Read the goddamn thread. I know which girl I want.
 
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SophalotJack

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late to thread but after reading your OP, op.... I have to say that she wants to be single because she knows she is too good for you.

she knows she is a total catch and uses it to her advantage cuz she's a woman.

so unless you are a doctor or have a schlong the length of her tibia.... she ain't interested to commit her time to you.
 
DainBramaged

DainBramaged

Lifer
Jun 19, 2003
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Originally posted by: SophalotJack
late to thread but after reading your OP, op.... I have to say that she wants to be single because she knows she is too good for you.

she knows she is a total catch and uses it to her advantage cuz she's a woman.

so unless you are a doctor or have a schlong the length of her tibia.... she ain't interested to commit her time to you.
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This *could* be a possibility, but I believe that she isn't like that. She is having a hard time with the breakup, doesn't want to rely on anyone for now but is lonely as hell. <shrug>
 
Skunkwourk

Skunkwourk

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Dec 9, 2004
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Originally posted by: Accipiter22
hmmm..I need pics of FWB in action before I can hand you an answer
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did you not read the first post?

EDIT: ok Im an idiot, you said in action.
 
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T9D

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Dec 1, 2001
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Keep Freinds with Benefits. Tell the girl you like that this other girl is your friends with benefits. Flaunt her a little bit. Talk to her on the phone when you are with the one you really want.

I know you are thinking "WTH??". But let me tell you. Since you are taken in a way it only makes you more of a game for her and it opens her eyes to wonder what she is missing. Dont ask me, women are just crazy and nuts like that.
 
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thomsbrain

Lifer
Dec 4, 2001
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FWB will have a new BF soon, trust me. it will NOT be you. you are the re-bound. she will consider your relationship evidence of her cheapness and a reminder of a painful time in her life. she will start over with someone else. enjoy it while it lasts, and focus on a real relationship with girl #2.
 
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krunchykrome

Lifer
Dec 28, 2003
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Originally posted by: DainBramaged
So currently, I have a FWB who is hot, intelligent, and totally straighforward. One of the least bitchy women I have ever met. I would really like to turn into a g/f, but ATM she is wanting to be single. This is one of those things that could last for a very long time, as she broke up with a b/f of four years about two months ago.

Then there is this other girl. She is cute and most importantly, the most honest, upfront woman that I know. She is also not a bitch at all. "Sweet" would describe her. She is the type that I'd be attracted to for a LTR, but in the pit of my stomach, I'd always feel like I would leave her if the current FWB decided that she wanted to get together.

WHAT SHOULD I DO???

Here is a pic of the FWB. I don't have one of the other girl.
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Is that girl in the pic the same one in your sig pic?

The FWB girl sounds like she isnt ready to jump into another relationship. I would just give her time. The thing is, she might not be ready for a long time, and when she is ready, she might not want to be with you. Waiting wouldnt be a good idea IMO. Sounds like you should pursue the other girl, the one with whom you could picture a LTR with. Thats usually the smartest move. But in the mean time, I would continue to do what you're "doing."
 
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Zaitsevs

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Oct 31, 2005
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Originally posted by: altonb1
See what happens with girl #2 and continue to maintain FWB until the situation warrants changing. In other words, don't do anything except continue on your present course.
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I agree

you aren't commited to anyone, and just leave it like that for a while, see how things play out.


patience is a virtue bro

 
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