advice:
1. drop the chuck norris grin and the beard
2. forget her, but maybe bang her a couple of times in the mean time.
1. drop the chuck norris grin and the beard
2. forget her, but maybe bang her a couple of times in the mean time.
lol i do not look 30 though most people do guess over 24, some guess younger. It is the beard. If i remove it (like i did for halloween) it makes me look muchhhh younger but also like crap. Girls LOVE the beard anyway so i am keeping it lol. but yes 3 months into 24
DrPizza
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I'm just amused by the poll results... 89 yes, but under the "If YES..." there are more than 89 votes.
my mom ended up dating a married man who promised he was going to break off the marriage but never did. it ended badly.
I think you owe it to yourself to tell her how you feel. But I wouldn't sleep w. her while she's married. If she really hates her husband and cares for you she'll leave him. If not, you can move on.
Given the circumstances of the wedding (a Vegas wedding, pushy parents etc) the relationship isn't going to last. She is pretty young (and for that matter so are you) so it probably will peter out. The only x factor is if she get pregnant - then that relationship might drag on for years. You should find out how she actually feels about you and here husband.
Someone noted she was Catholic and so she can't get divorced.That's not true. The Church only recognizes marriages in the Church as valid. A civil ceremony in Las Vegas doesn't cut it. Typically you also get pre-marriage counseling that lasts 6 months. The counseling is designed to make sure the marriage has a solid foundation of mutual understanding etc. If she is behaving like this in her marriage now, it doesn't have a solid foundation at all. Not at all. I mean what does her husband think of her 3 AM calls. She is already cheating on her husband with you - the fact you are not having sex is pretty much meaningless given the level of emotional commitment. I would be frank with her and yourself - talk with her about it.
Someone noted she was Catholic and so she can't get divorced.That's not true. The Church only recognizes marriages in the Church as valid. A civil ceremony in Las Vegas doesn't cut it. Typically you also get pre-marriage counseling that lasts 6 months. The counseling is designed to make sure the marriage has a solid foundation of mutual understanding etc. If she is behaving like this in her marriage now, it doesn't have a solid foundation at all. Not at all. I mean what does her husband think of her 3 AM calls. She is already cheating on her husband with you - the fact you are not having sex is pretty much meaningless given the level of emotional commitment. I would be frank with her and yourself - talk with her about it.
Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
So did you tap it yet, or are you waiting to ring in the new year?
- M4H
LOL oh man M4H... you and your endless amounts of wisdom... lol
actually i have no spoken to her much since i posted this thread. I have been using the time to think things over and with the holidays and all we have both been busy. we hada brief phone convo a few nights ago and a txt message convo 2 days ago that hinted to things on both our ends but what was interesting was that she was the one bringing it up and not me.
I am going to have to wait for the new year till we both have more time to talk. But there won't be any tapping of anything lol
I just bought a full page ad in your local paper featuring a picture of this lovely woman and excerpts from your post. Good luck.
if you really have "true" feelings for her, i would say wait for her to break it off with her husband. it really says something about her character to not be able to do it for herself and you if she is that unhappy and you guys share "something".
anyways, i hope her much bigger husband beats you up if something happens.
anyways, i hope her much bigger husband beats you up if something happens.
Yeah, we had our obstacles to be sure. In fact, it was how we dealt with those obstacles that defined our relationship.
He was stationed overseas, when he returned is when she told him things were over. She didn't tell him about "us" for a long time, but he had his suspicions and acted accordingly (he started seeing another woman without her knowledge).
They married at age 18, way too young. But they had their reasons, too (no they had no children...)
Regardless, I stand by my statement. Each relationship has it's own dynamic and you need to do what's best for you. I sought the advice of friends and family (they all loved her but told me to proceed with caution), but in the end I did what was best for me. And I couldn't imagine making any other decision, she means the world to me.
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Originally posted by: cherrytwist
Yeah, we had our obstacles to be sure. In fact, it was how we dealt with those obstacles that defined our relationship.
He was stationed overseas, when he returned is when she told him things were over. She didn't tell him about "us" for a long time, but he had his suspicions and acted accordingly (he started seeing another woman without her knowledge).
They married at age 18, way too young. But they had their reasons, too (no they had no children...)
Regardless, I stand by my statement. Each relationship has it's own dynamic and you need to do what's best for you. I sought the advice of friends and family (they all loved her but told me to proceed with caution), but in the end I did what was best for me. And I couldn't imagine making any other decision, she means the world to me.
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oh you ARSE!!!!!!!!!!! =\ i was in the Air Force! You know how many buddies i had who got screwed over by their wives while they were over seas!? many didn't even leave their husbands they just had their fun while he was away but when they found out sh1t hit the fan!
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i like how at least 50% of you out there think this, when there is no proof or basis for it
i wonder how many of you have passed up good women because of this silly notion
Originally posted by: BillyBatson
Originally posted by: cherrytwist
Yeah, we had our obstacles to be sure. In fact, it was how we dealt with those obstacles that defined our relationship.
He was stationed overseas, when he returned is when she told him things were over. She didn't tell him about "us" for a long time, but he had his suspicions and acted accordingly (he started seeing another woman without her knowledge).
They married at age 18, way too young. But they had their reasons, too (no they had no children...)
Regardless, I stand by my statement. Each relationship has it's own dynamic and you need to do what's best for you. I sought the advice of friends and family (they all loved her but told me to proceed with caution), but in the end I did what was best for me. And I couldn't imagine making any other decision, she means the world to me.
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oh you ARSE!!!!!!!!!!! =\ i was in the Air Force! You know how many buddies i had who got screwed over by their wives while they were over seas!? many didn't even leave their husbands they just had their fun while he was away but when they found out sh1t hit the fan!
nice pic
Haha...and that isn't to be expected? How many of your buddies had married the girl right before being shipped-out?!?!
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