YAGT: I like a married woman. Anyone have experience with this?

[PorscheMaD911]

Leave it alone.

 

[Lumathix]

I'm glad you decided to stay away while she's married.
The ball's in her court man, she needs to decide whether she needs to leave her current husband. And you need to control your emotions and back the f**k off, while giving her time to figure it all out. I'm sorry, I've never cheated, nor even came close to cheating, and I've never been cheated on as far as i know, but I really have no tolerance for people that do.

 

[Gulzakar]

You're 24, lots of single girls out there. Stay away from married ones until they get their $hit together. Honestly, are you brain dead?

 

[BillyBatson]

final update with the news.

 

[EagleKeeper]

Proper decision on your part

 

[sixone]

Originally posted by: BillyBatson
Also came to a realization due to my other thread YAGT: I did something i am embarassed of... that I tend to go for unavailable women. Some emotionally unavailable, and others who are literaly with someone else or who have an ex they keep going back to or want to go back to. I need to change things. This girl was diff yes, though married i truely liked her and would have done anything to make it work. others i dunno. time for a change.

Admitting the problem is the first step to solving it. :thumbsup:

Good luck!!

 

[BillyBatson]

Originally posted by: sixone

Originally posted by: BillyBatson
Also came to a realization due to my other thread YAGT: I did something i am embarassed of... that I tend to go for unavailable women. Some emotionally unavailable, and others who are literaly with someone else or who have an ex they keep going back to or want to go back to. I need to change things. This girl was diff yes, though married i truely liked her and would have done anything to make it work. others i dunno. time for a change.

Admitting the problem is the first step to solving it. :thumbsup:

Good luck!!

yups i think so.
thank you.

 

[Chunkee]

It is okay...I like challenges also...there will be plenty more...the hindsight in a few months will allow you to see it is the best thing...see seems to be a lovely lady...we meet people for a reason...perhaps hers and yours was temptation and you both passed with flying colors...enjoy her friendship...always good to have friends...keep it real and step back a bit...i recommend a little cooling period first...and for God's sakes do not let the avenue present itself again...it will only turn out a mess...

i have had several affairs with married women..mostly during college...i am much older now...and can reflect back...learn from it and relish the fact that she holds you in your her heart, and that it is a secret you guys share....

jC

 

[slycat]

do not get near her till she leaves her husband...if she doesn't, well, move on.

 

[BillyBatson]

Originally posted by: Chunkee
It is okay...I like challenges also...there will be plenty more...the hindsight in a few months will allow you to see it is the best thing...see seems to be a lovely lady...we meet people for a reason...perhaps hers and yours was temptation and you both passed with flying colors...enjoy her friendship...always good to have friends...keep it real and step back a bit...i recommend a little cooling period first...and for God's sakes do not let the avenue present itself again...it will only turn out a mess...

i have had several affairs with married women..mostly during college...i am much older now...and can reflect back...learn from it and relish the fact that she holds you in your her heart, and that it is a secret you guys share....

jC

exactly. we are friends and going through this and coming out ok just further proves that we really are good friends. Like i said before i know i liek this girl but i never waited or hoped for anything. It's the reason why i liked her more because i saw her as more. My other thread about the current girl that is a diff story all together.
I appreciate your advice chunkee

 

[Orsorum]

I agree wholeheartedly with Chunkee. Savor the friendship for what it is and, if she does become available in the future, and the moment is right, see where it leads. For now, respect her marriage and respect the other man.

 

[fbrdphreak]

Originally posted by: BillyBatson
So I spoke with her last night. I don't want to get too into it because I am totally bummed at the moment. Basically She said she thinks she does like me and she would like to be with me and see where it goes.... if she was single.... Said that I am a great friend and she has thought about it for a long time but she is married now and she cna't just turn her back on it this soon and this easily. Said she has wanted to be physical with me aswell for a long time now especially because of some of the things we have talked about but didn't know how to go about it or if it was ok with me to just have that. I said no I don't want just that especially while she is married and it would put our friendship at risk.
bottom line-
-would like to date me if she was single
-not willing to turn her back on her marriage this fast
-has thought about a physical relationship with me, to which i said no to
-we remain friends, no more, no less.

Also came to a realization due to my other thread YAGT: I did something i am embarassed of... that I tend to go for unavailable women. Some emotionally unavailable, and others who are literaly with someone else or who have an ex they keep going back to or want to go back to. I need to change things. This girl was diff yes, though married i truely liked her and would have done anything to make it work. others i dunno. time for a change.

This sounds like the right conclusion. Good work man, glad to see this end well

 

[edro]

You need to stop posting all this sh|t about women on an internet message board. I am sure if these women were tipped off, you would be labelled a psycho stalker.

Just look for a single woman and stop doing weird sh|t!

 

[MadPeriot]

Originally posted by: archcommus
Don't be a home wrecker, leave her the fvck alone.

Yea...don't be a home wrecker...if you two were meant to be then just let fate take its course. Nothing good will come out of it if shes married. Its actually illegal every way you look at it. You wouldn't want that happen to you would you?

 

[Queasy]

So I spoke with her last night. I don't want to get too into it because I am totally bummed at the moment. Basically She said she thinks she does like me and she would like to be with me and see where it goes.... if she was single.... Said that I am a great friend and she has thought about it for a long time but she is married now and she cna't just turn her back on it this soon and this easily. Said she has wanted to be physical with me aswell for a long time now especially because of some of the things we have talked about but didn't know how to go about it or if it was ok with me to just have that. I said no I don't want just that especially while she is married and it would put our friendship at risk.

Anyone else see something wrong with this? She doesn't want to turn her back on her marriage so soon but she's willing to bump uglies on the side. WTF?

 

[MercenaryForHire]

Originally posted by: Queasy
Anyone else see something wrong with this? She doesn't want to turn her back on her marriage so soon but she's willing to bump uglies on the side. WTF?

She just wants a dick in a jar.

Or a dick in a box.

:music: Cut a hole in the box :music:

- M4H

 

[dabuddha]

I hope her husband doesn't see this thread.

 

[RelaxTheMind]

I would cheat. may be a temporary feeling thing that would suck when it went away. just keep the jimmy hat handy

 

[newParadigm]

dude, your resemblance to myself is fvcking uncanny.