YAGT: I did something i am embarassed of... MAJOR UPDATE!

[ryan256]

Dude... it doesn't matter how cute/hot she is or how good the sex is. Mental women with issues like this are bad news. Move on man... move on.

 

[neovan]

there are many more drama-less fish in the sea

 

[ViviTheMage]

screw that man, too much drama with that women.

 

[ballmode]

like ATOT cares

 

[KK]

why are people so stupid for letting themselves get into such a situation. maybe it's easier for an outsider to see. i don't know. all I know is if you spend another minute thinking about this bitch, then you are the stupidest mother fvcker out there.

 

[OutHouse]

yea just dump her, she got busted and doesnt know how to deal with it so she pushes it back on by almost calling you a stalker.

hell she proably still had his baby gravy oozing out of her.

 

[zixxer]

Originally posted by: KK
why are people so stupid for letting themselves get into such a situation. maybe it's easier for an outsider to see. i don't know. all I know is if you spend another minute thinking about this bitch, then you are the stupidest mother fvcker out there.

I agree with you on every count - although it honestly is a LOT easier for outsiders to see. I'm so bad about 'not seeing what's going on' that I actually ask for relationship advice from a good gf..

 

[zixxer]

Oh also, don't call or contact you.

She WILL call you, wanting to get back. DON'T DO IT. I'm going through this right now (well, girl isn't dating other dudes, but there are other issues..)

 

[Aharami]

man...you're an emotional trainwreck

 

[ShockwaveVT]

Originally posted by: ryan256
Dude... it doesn't matter how cute/hot she is or how good the sex is. Mental women with issues like this are bad news. Move on man... move on.

 

[yowolabi]

Originally posted by: AMDUALY
Leave them be or else you'll go crazy too.

I think it's already begun. High speed chases through the streets?

I don't know why OP thinks she is worth his sanity or even his time, but he's wrong.

 

[markgm]

Originally posted by: jbourne77

Originally posted by: BillyBatson
"That is how we are different, I would not drive by your house.

To which you reply, "... because I never would have given you reason to."

She's caught red-handed and is trying to push it back on you.

****** this psycho. Get a real woman minus the baggage.

You hit the nail on the head. Once this was spun as something the OP did wrong, the relationship was over. I think the only reason you checked is because deep down you knew something was going on. She's right, in a healthy relationship you shouldn't have had to check, so obviously she wasn't creating a healthy relationship.

I doubt he'll hear back about wanting to get back together, at least not right away. At least that's been my experience when I was cheated on. People don't change, and if they claim to, it would be a loooong conversation about what happened.

It amazes me that people cheat on technical guys and don't think they'll get caught, not that it mattered in your case.

 

[zinfamous]

I don't want to be mean about this...just being direct: This is asinine. Have some more self-respect and get rid of the loony b1tch. Her email response to your "snooping" is a beautiful little double standard to make herself feel comfortable. You had every reason to be suspicious about her; and you were right to check up on that. From your post, you'v enever given her any reason to check up on you. And think about it from her position: she's got 2 dudes after her right now...WTF does she care? She isn't gonna change her attitude until one of you gets out. Make sure that person is YOU.

In response to discovering her ex's car, you should have called and said "It's over; deal with your own fvcked-up life alone." Shouldn't even give her a, "We aren't talking until you straighten that stuff out."

End it. NOW.

 

[evident]

run far away...

 

[BillyBatson]

Originally posted by: JulesMaximus
Pic Of Us

Bababooey?

huh?

 

[sixone]

Originally posted by: zinfamous
I don't want to be mean about this...just being direct: This is asinine. Have some more self-respect and get rid of the loony b1tch. Her email response to your "snooping" is a beautiful little double standard to make herself feel comfortable. You had every reason to be suspicious about her; and you were right to check up on that. From your post, you'v enever given her any reason to check up on you. And think about it from her position: she's got 2 dudes after her right now...WTF does she care? She isn't gonna change her attitude until one of you gets out. Make sure that person is YOU.

In response to discovering her ex's car, you should have called and said "It's over; deal with your own fvcked-up life alone." Shouldn't even give her a, "We aren't talking until you straighten that stuff out."

End it. NOW.

Take this advice. It's the best you'll ever get.

 

[Parasitic]

You should get out of this mess.
Although please don't take this as offence but she's hot - oh my look at the rack.
Sex it up a couple more times before you leave.

 

[BillyBatson]

update here aswell

 

[AStar617]

Originally posted by: BillyBatson

-update - 1-9-07
I got a txt message this morning from her saying "friends fvck up and friends forgive crazy acts.... so friends?"
=\ and after i txt back "yeah" she txts "so what are you getting me for my birthday "
WTF man.

You should have quit this long ago... and now I'm sure you see why.

 

[pray4mojo]

Sounds like shes expecting something nice and big for her birthday. Buy her one yellow rose and nothing else. She asked for it.

EDIT: actually on second thought that probably costs too much money. scribble her one and color it yellow.

 

[randay]

Originally posted by: BillyBatson

-update - 1-9-07
I got a txt message this morning from her saying "friends fvck up and friends forgive crazy acts.... so friends?"
=\ and after i txt back "yeah" she txts "so what are you getting me for my birthday "
WTF man.

OH SNAP! you fvcked up there. call her and bring up some old ****** then verbally pwn her and never talk to her again. and i mean never. and that includes txt email myspace etc...

 

[SampSon]

You deserve every bit of pain coming to you if you continue anything with her.
When playing with fire, you will eventually get burnt.

 

[yowolabi]

Originally posted by: randay

Originally posted by: BillyBatson

-update - 1-9-07
I got a txt message this morning from her saying "friends fvck up and friends forgive crazy acts.... so friends?"
=\ and after i txt back "yeah" she txts "so what are you getting me for my birthday "
WTF man.

OH SNAP! you fvcked up there. call her and bring up some old ****** then verbally pwn her and never talk to her again. and i mean never. and that includes txt email myspace etc...

This "oh snap" thing might have some legs.

I can't imagine why the OP would even say "yes" to being friends. How exactly is she a friend or the type of person you would want as a friend? Is the OP's other friends lying, selfish, bastards that you can't trust as far as you can throw, or does he only tolerate that if they have breasts?

 

[Oceandevi]

Never think of her again , avoid her like the plague.

You should not involve yourself with people like her. Learn from this and move on.
Some people are not worthy of your trust.

good luck

 

[Compton]

IMO, its over when a girl even mentions her ex.