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BillyBatson

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Originally posted by: AStar617
Important question: have you scored w/her yet? Because at this rate, if you haven't, you won't anytime soon... if she's still with the guy that allegedly attacked you both, she probably doesn't find the type to run away attractive. Sorry to say. :beer:

EDIT: nice pic, but the one on the right from your last thread (car show pic) still has my attention :thumbsup:
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lol "scored" ? lol

i was intimate with her yeah, it wasn't a relationship where she was still seeing her ex and perhaps slepeing with him and i was the chump being used and taking her out and paying for everything and going home at 8am. I was practically living at her place for hte last 2 weeks other than i didn't have the clicker to the garage so she would have to click me in


 
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NakaNaka

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You were wrong to go by her place.

She was wrong to hook up again w. her messed up ex.

Move on.
 
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Buck Armstrong

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Originally posted by: AnyMal
Originally posted by: BillyBatson
Originally posted by: dug777
I thought you were dead cert to root that married chick's brains out anyway, so why do you care?
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lol no! did you not read my update, i am not touching that girl while she is sitll with her husband. her and i are actually going to take on monday

this is the girl i am currently seeing, the one that the married girl is jealous of
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I see a pattern of attration to unavailable women. The problem is with you, my friend. You need to break the cycle, maybe even get some counceling.
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BINGO! Maybe OP should think about that...
 
Kadarin

Kadarin

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Originally posted by: BillyBatson
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I ended up writing her last night before I went to bed and told her i came by etc. this is the response i just received

"That is how we are different, I would not drive by your house. I never drove by Dirk's even while we were together. This behavior scares me. I don't know what to say. "

she is referring to the the fact that i said she claims we are almost exactly alike and how she continues to check her ex-bf's email accounts and myspace messages to read messages form other girls. she totally went ont he defensive, didn't explain anything, and didn't apologize for anything
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Yup, she's spinning this like it's entirely your fault, and attacking your behavior. I see no reason why you should continue to see this girl, as she will rip your heart apart and eat it for lunch.
 
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RbSX

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Originally posted by: Astaroth33
Originally posted by: BillyBatson
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I ended up writing her last night before I went to bed and told her i came by etc. this is the response i just received

"That is how we are different, I would not drive by your house. I never drove by Dirk's even while we were together. This behavior scares me. I don't know what to say. "

she is referring to the the fact that i said she claims we are almost exactly alike and how she continues to check her ex-bf's email accounts and myspace messages to read messages form other girls. she totally went ont he defensive, didn't explain anything, and didn't apologize for anything
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Yup, she's spinning this like it's entirely your fault, and attacking your behavior. I see no reason why you should continue to see this girl, as she will rip your heart apart and eat it for lunch.
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Indeed, I've been in this situation before where i'd 'drive' by my girlfriends house. She's playing it against you like it's your fault you're paranoid. The fact is your paranoia is warranted as you discovered that night.

It's not your fault, she's not trustworthy, and she proved it. Now she wants you to feel like what you did was wrong even though it wasn't.
 
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OneOfTheseDays

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My goodness man, you will one day look back on all of this and wonder why you ever got involved in a situation like this. I cringe everytime i read horror stories like this.
 
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BillyBatson

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Originally posted by: RyanSengara
Originally posted by: Astaroth33
Originally posted by: BillyBatson
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I ended up writing her last night before I went to bed and told her i came by etc. this is the response i just received

"That is how we are different, I would not drive by your house. I never drove by Dirk's even while we were together. This behavior scares me. I don't know what to say. "

she is referring to the the fact that i said she claims we are almost exactly alike and how she continues to check her ex-bf's email accounts and myspace messages to read messages form other girls. she totally went ont he defensive, didn't explain anything, and didn't apologize for anything
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Yup, she's spinning this like it's entirely your fault, and attacking your behavior. I see no reason why you should continue to see this girl, as she will rip your heart apart and eat it for lunch.
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Indeed, I've been in this situation before where i'd 'drive' by my girlfriends house. She's playing it against you like it's your fault you're paranoid. The fact is your paranoia is warranted as you discovered that night.

It's not your fault, she's not trustworthy, and she proved it. Now she wants you to feel like what you did was wrong even though it wasn't.
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wellt hat is the thing i feel stupid for feeling like i even have to go check and hen actually doing it whether his car ended up being there or not. it actually being there makes it not look as bad since obviously i was right but had it not been there i would have looke dmuch crazier to people so to me it is the same.
i does prove that i never trusted her since i have never done something liek this with anyone else even though there has been others i didn't trust either which just means that i cared about this one

 
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Stuxnet

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Originally posted by: BillyBatson
"That is how we are different, I would not drive by your house.
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To which you reply, "... because I never would have given you reason to."

She's caught red-handed and is trying to push it back on you.

****** this psycho. Get a real woman minus the baggage.
 
SonnyDaze

SonnyDaze

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Dude, just move on. As others have said, she's still kind of attached to her ex and your little check up move kind of scared her so you've given her all she needs to bail on you when she wants.
 
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codeyf

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Originally posted by: jbourne77
Originally posted by: BillyBatson
"That is how we are different, I would not drive by your house.
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To which you reply, "... because I never would have given you reason to."

She's caught red-handed and is trying to push it back on you.

****** this psycho. Get a real woman minus the baggage.
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Winnar.

Walk away from this b1tch.
 
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IceBergSLiM

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are you a masochist or do you feel you need to save her? either way you are mentally deficient in all categories if you continue any sort of relationship/communication with this broad. she is scrap metal-used and abused trash.
 
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