YAGT: How girls settle...

[Al Neri]

SUPER DUPER cliffs:
* girl was in love with me
* told her bf of 2.5 yrs that she was going to dump him for me
* i rejected her for several reasons (mostly not wanting a serious commitment)
* her and said bf are now engaged

 

[Al Neri]

Originally posted by: buck
Please tell us that english isnt your first language.

ok i wont tell you that

 

[buck]

Originally posted by: Don Rodriguez

Originally posted by: buck
Please tell us that english isnt your first language.

ok i wont tell you that

Ok, i see that you are high on pills from your other thread. You are forgiven.

 

[Al Neri]

hahaha good DT work buck

 

[radioouman]

We need some revised cliffs here.

 

[GasX]

Originally posted by: Don Rodriguez

Originally posted by: Mwilding

Originally posted by: newb111
anyone understand what he just said?

Far less than those who don't care...

thanks 4 the bump!

btw if you don't care, why respond? besides trying to inflate your post count, what could you possibly be trying to achieve?

self affirmation or perhaps i just want to leave a turd in this thread to mark what I think of it now that I have read it.

 

[olds]

* told her bf of 2.5 yrs that she was going to dump him for me

Is it time for a new law?
:roll:

Is she does it to him, she'll do it you the next one too.

 

[Ronstang]

I think you are confused. She did not settle. She used you as a pawn to get what she really wanted....her boyfriend to propose to her.

 

[shuttleboi]

So you're proud that you made this girl settle for another guy when you are the true prize?

 

[DaShen]

Never, ever settle! :|
But you also have to realize that your expectations may be seriously faulty.
You can't expect a 10 when most of us on ATOT are a 6 or below.
Looks really aren't all that important in the long run. Sure they need to play a part, but too many people jude people just on outward appearances. I have never gotten interested in a girl because of her looks (although it is a factor). If you are open to all possiblities, you will find more genuine people out there than people who are working hard for approval and only judge by looks.

 

[spikespiegal]

I think you are confused. She did not settle. She used you as a pawn to get what she really wanted....her boyfriend to propose to her.

'BING' -and the winner takes the prize.

 

[chambersc]

Originally posted by: Brackis
Is that an LSATs question?

lol.

 

[randomlinh]

you can't say she has a body like jordan capri and not post pics.

and i'd hate to the be BF... ploy or not, she'd be gone for me.

 

[Pacfanweb]

What really happened is she really wanted the other guy, and made him pop the question by threatening to leave him for you.

 

[postmortemIA]

No wonder 50% of marriages in USA end up with divorce.

OP, Firefox 2.0 has spell checker.

 

[Kadarin]

Originally posted by: spikespiegal

I think you are confused. She did not settle. She used you as a pawn to get what she really wanted....her boyfriend to propose to her.

'BING' -and the winner takes the prize.

Either theory is potentially correct.

 

[Al Neri]

 

[Chrono]

What a bitch. Thank goodness you didn't settle with that hoe.

 

[S Freud]

I know what you mean, I brake up with my ex. She tells me that she can't live without me and that she will never be happy...she's had two boyfriends since then.


Another situation is with my buddy, this girl and him are serious for about two years, three if you count off and on. He tells her he's not ready for marriage so she splits, couple months later he hears that she's engaged.

 

[Al Neri]

This girl was my best friend, she wasn't trying to use me at all, I honestly think she'd love to marry me (she'd love to marry anyone, she just seems that type very clingy, need for companionship). For example, we were best friends, talked all the time, etc. then she got her bf and we literally NEVER spoke. Then we randomly saw eachother out, hung out one time after that and she started to call me every 10 minutes. Things didn't work out between us, and we hadn't spoken until she IMed me to say she was engaged.

I am not saying this because I think "I'm the man," I'm saying that it's just funny how a girl's mind operates. Most girls in the late teens to late 20's (depending on values, area of the country, etc.) have nothing but marriage on their minds.

Like Freud said above me

He tells her he's not ready for marriage so she splits, couple months later he hears that she's engaged.

Not to make a broad generalization, that I'm sure the women on the board will be up in arms about, but in my experience, I've notiecd that women get something in their mind and just settle for whatever they get.

 

[PricklyPete]

Girls and guys do that ALL the time. it is not just girls doing that.

As of a few months ago, my ex-girlfriend (from 2 years ago) still wants to be with me...but I'm not intersted in the least. She's in a relationship at the moment..so obviously she is settling.

 

[Firsttime]

Haha this thread is awesome. I agree with Ronstang you=pawn she didn't settle. She just wanted to push her BF along in the process .

 

[Al Neri]

Originally posted by: Firsttime
Haha this thread is awesome. I agree with Ronstang you=pawn she didn't settle. She just wanted to push her BF along in the process .

if you read the whole thread, that was 100% not the case

I agree tho, this thread rulz!

 

[Firsttime]

Originally posted by: Don Rodriguez

Originally posted by: Firsttime
Haha this thread is awesome. I agree with Ronstang you=pawn she didn't settle. She just wanted to push her BF along in the process .

if you read the whole thread, that was 100% not the case

I agree tho, this thread rulz!

Oh I did read the whole thread, I still stick by my comment .

 

[Al Neri]

Originally posted by: Firsttime

Originally posted by: Don Rodriguez

Originally posted by: Firsttime
Haha this thread is awesome. I agree with Ronstang you=pawn she didn't settle. She just wanted to push her BF along in the process .

if you read the whole thread, that was 100% not the case

I agree tho, this thread rulz!

Oh I did read the whole thread, I still stick by my comment .

hahaha are you trying to hurt my feelings??

:brokenheart: