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YAGT: Help, I have messed things up bad

Tommy2000GT

Golden Member
Update 8/18

So I tried to fix things with her the past several of days but I've had it because the more I try the worse bitchy and psyschotic she becomes. Being around people like this just pisses me off so I wanted to end it.

Today I saw her and her friends. Since her friends were around, I thought it was the right time to end it because I wanted to let her friends know what a psycho she is. So I told her in front of her friends I no longer wanted to be associated with an attention whore like her who likes to play silly pubescent middle school kid games. Then I smiled and damn was she red. I feel so much better now.

We had a good history together but what a shame it has to end this way

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I was really good friends with this girl. Apparently her best friend told me I was acting like I was playing games with her by avoiding and ignoring her for the past week so she quiet upset with me. I did not realize I was being like that her because I was pretty busy and had other things on my mind for the whole week. And she told her best friend not to tell me that she is mad at me.

Now I'm not sure how to fix this problem because she is so upset at me. I don't know if I should apoligize or act like as if nothing has happened. If I apoligize, then she might suspect that her best friend had told me. I have never had a problem like this with my male friends. Why $@#& are girls so complicated like this?

 
Originally posted by: Tommy2000GT
both 21

Be an adult, explain you were busy, apologize for neglecting her and let her know you didn't mean to hurt her in any way, and if she is a friend/if she is mature she will understand.
 
Originally posted by: Tomato
Originally posted by: Tommy2000GT
both 21

Be an adult, explain you were busy, apologize for neglecting her and let her know you didn't mean to hurt her in any way, and if she is a friend/if she is mature she will understand.

She will probably not understand.
 
Originally posted by: Tomato
Originally posted by: Tommy2000GT
both 21

Be an adult, explain you were busy, apologize for neglecting her and let her know you didn't mean to hurt her in any way, and if she is a friend/if she is mature she will understand.


what if he said he's 13? 😛 just curious
 
Originally posted by: Zanix
Originally posted by: Tomato
Originally posted by: Tommy2000GT
both 21

Be an adult, explain you were busy, apologize for neglecting her and let her know you didn't mean to hurt her in any way, and if she is a friend/if she is mature she will understand.

She will probably not understand.

Make her understand the hard way.
 
slap her with your limp 14 inch manhood...and if she's ever this silly again take away her hello kitty collection...

but seriously you guys are just freinds why is she so mad...do you have 'benefits' with this girl?
 
I have the perfect solution. go up to her. Grab her by her a$$. Tell her "With an a$$ like that I could never ignore you..." Then get it on. (Funky 70's bass guitar begins playing with barry manilow.
 
Originally posted by: BooGiMaN
slap her with your limp 14 inch manhood...and if she's ever this silly again take away her hello kitty collection...

but seriously you guys are just freinds why is she so mad...do you have 'benefits' with this girl?

We were just friends for quite a while but I think it was becoming a little more than that. lately.
 
Originally posted by: Tommy2000GT
I was really good friends with this girl. Apparently her best friend told me I was acting like I was playing games with her by avoiding and ignoring her for the past week so she quiet upset with me. I did not realize I was being like that her because I was pretty busy and had other things on my mind for the whole week. And she told her best friend not to tell me that she is mad at me.

Now I'm not sure how to fix this problem because she is so upset at me. I don't know if I should apoligize or act like as if nothing has happened. If I apoligize, then she might suspect that her best friend had told me. I have never had a problem like this with my male friends. Why $@#& are girls so complicated like this?
you are thinking too much.
 
Surprise her with "wanna grab some lunch"

Act like you didnt know anything. And over lunch describe your past week.

Not very difficult here... ;p
 
I don't know if I should apoligize

What does she have the hots for you? If you apologize, do it like "I don't know why but I feel like you [insert random words here] and I didn't realize it because I was really busy this week. But I didn't mean anything by it. If you still want to [insert random words here] then we could do that."

great huh?
 
Originally posted by: Tommy2000GT
And I can't just move on because she has always been there for me.


If she's always been there for you, how can one bad week where you unintentionally hurt her feelings ruin your friendship?
 
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