YAGT: Help, I have messed things up bad

[thecoolnessrune]

I reiterate. GRAB HER BY THE A$$> TELL HER "WITH AN A$$ LIKE THAT HOW COULD I IGNORE YOU!" GET IT OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOON!. (Funky 70s music by barry manilow)

Then in the morning say. Now I know you love me. (After you slapped her with your limp 14" manhood)

 

[mchammer187]

if she is not your GF it shouldn't matter

act like nothing happened

 

[Steve]

Make it up to her. Take her out.

 

[thecoolnessrune]

DO HER!!!

 

[lavagirl669]

sounds like she might be more than a friend to you?

Honesty is always best with us females...we can smell a lie before
your brain even dreams it up.

 

[Tommy2000GT]

Originally posted by: lavagirl669
sounds like she might be more than a friend to you?

Honesty is always best with us females...we can smell a lie before
your brain even dreams it up.

It seems so, 2 weeks before she would always try to talk to me every chance she gets. She was never like this until I metioned to her that I thought her friend was cute. sensing some jealousy here.

 

[Kalbi]

mushroom tattoo her right on the forehead

 

[Tommy2000GT]

Ok things are going quite as planned today. When I try to talk to her she still seems kind of upset because she dosen't have the ethusiasm as she used to.

 

[JulesMaximus]

Originally posted by: Tommy2000GT
And I can't just move on because she has always been there for me.

You only have one alternative then. Text message her 20 times that you are going to slit your wrists with a screwdriver.

 

[Doboji]

Originally posted by: Tommy2000GT
Ok things are going quite as planned today. When I try to talk to her she still seems kind of upset because she dosen't have the ethusiasm as she used to.

You want the real solution?

It's very simple... be corny... pull her aside, and say "Wow I know this sounds cheesy, but I am so lucky to have you in my life" and wrap your arms around her.

Problem solved

 

[Tommy2000GT]

sure, why not, it could not get any worse

 

[NuroMancer]

Originally posted by: PHiuR

Originally posted by: Tommy2000GT
both 21

WOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

No kidding, im-mature much?

 

[Randum]

bring ice cream or chocolate into the equation, solves everything

 

[Tommy2000GT]

well i offered to take her to lunch but she turned it down

 

[neutralizer]

Originally posted by: Tiamat
Surprise her with "wanna grab some lunch"

Act like you didnt know anything. And over lunch describe your past week.

Not very difficult here... ;p

Yeah, describe how in the past week, you've been busy and you're sorry that you have been able to talk. She'll understand.

 

[Tommy2000GT]

and I'm ready to give up here, i don't think it's worth all this bs

 

[DaShen]

Originally posted by: Tommy2000GT
Ok things are going quite as planned today. When I try to talk to her she still seems kind of upset because she dosen't have the ethusiasm as she used to.

You could get around apologizing to her so that her best friend doesn't get in trouble, by calling her up and start complaining about how you have been so busy lately. It would be better to man up and just tell her straight up, but since her friend might get in trouble, I would just call her and start to complain about how you have been extremely busy lately and haven't been able to do anything in the last couple weeks and that you really just want to screw your responsibilities right now and go hang out. She will probably want to nurture you since you guys are so close and all will be forgiven. But of course if you haven't been genuinely busy in the last two weeks, she will smell fib, and you will be in a h3lla lot of trouble. Girls can pick up on that stuff a lot quicker than guys can.

*** But seriously, you guys are 21 and your having this type of problem *** I would understand if you two were really going out, but as friends. She seems a bit sensitive. Is Aunt Flow visiting? j/k

 

[Glavinsolo]

I think everyone is skipping over the true problem. NEVER listen to a girl's best friend. This ruins they way you would commonly act.

Tips:

What to do now?
Remove what ever the girl's friend told you.

What to do later?
Think about something else while the girl's friend talks to you.

"Girls' bestfriends are like Rogues in WoW, its backstab, backstab, backstab"

 

[DougK62]

You think way too much. How about calling her up and seeing if she wants to go out to eat? Problem solved.

 

[NuroMancer]

Seems kinda sad that you'd give up so quickly..

 

[Whoozyerdaddy]

Well this relationship is off to a great start. Zero communication. One girl passing notes to another girl who isn't supposed to tell you anything (of course she told the one friend she knew would tell you). You going on the intarweb to ask what to do about it...

21? Really? I haven't seen anything like this since 7th grade.

 

[JulesMaximus]

Originally posted by: Tommy2000GT
well i offered to take her to lunch but she turned it down

Fvck it then, just stop calling her. You've made an effort at reconciliation, she turned you down. Time to move on.

 

[tami]

Originally posted by: Tommy2000GT

Originally posted by: PHiuR

Originally posted by: Tommy2000GT
both 21

WOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

yep i know i know

she needs to grow up. if she can't, then it's her loss.

 

[DaShen]

Originally posted by: Jules

Originally posted by: Tommy2000GT
well i offered to take her to lunch but she turned it down

Fvck it then, just stop calling her. You've made an effort at reconciliation, she turned you down. Time to move on.

Yeah, looks like she is too much trouble. Even though she "has been there for you."

 

[JulesMaximus]

Life's too short to play stupid childish games like this with people you care about. She needs to grow the fvck up. Besides, she sounds like one of those women who always have to be the center of your attention and don't let you do things with your friends. I've known guys who were with women like this. It's very immature and ultimately you will end up resenting her for it.