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yagt: good things are finally happening

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slackerinabox

Lifer
I know, i know, i post 1,000 yagts so I think you guys who give me great advice deserve an update.

I'm kinda sorta seeing two girls now and now I think I'm taking baby steps toward dating one of the girls. I met her last week and went dancing with her. We were being cute and intimate on the dance floor but never hooked up, mostly because I lack balls. We went out last night and saw a movie, had an awesome time but had 20 bucks worth of snacks between us, which made making a move hard. Then she asked if we can go for a walk and we had a long, nice talk that continued at my place. Me, again being a wuss, didn't take advantage of the situation and instead of making a move instead made plans for friday with her. frustrated by the ambiguity - am I becoming her gay male friend??? I texted her - 'i was thinking that I want to buy you dinner sometime" and she replied not with the usual "i like you as a friend" but with a "sure, just make sure i don't pig out!". I'm thinking that's all the sign I need to make a move tomorrow, while we're both tipsy and dancing.

Thanks for the advice guys, i'll keep you posted.

Update: pics easier to find:
Pic of her and her brother

And, since some peopel here think that I'm a freak who lies and just grabs pictures off of the internet, here's an awful quality (she looks MUCH better in person) cellphone cam picture taken last night
 
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
I know, i know, i post 1,000 yagts so I think you guys who give me great advice deserve an update.

I'm kinda sorta seeing two girls now and now I think I'm taking baby steps toward dating one of the girls. I met her last week and went dancing with her. We were being cute and intimate on the dance floor but never hooked up, mostly because I lack balls. We went out last night and saw a movie, had an awesome time but had 20 bucks worth of snacks between us, which made making a move hard. Then she asked if we can go for a walk and we had a long, nice talk that continued at my place. Me, again being a wuss, didn't take advantage of the situation and instead of making a move instead made plans for friday with her. frustrated by the ambiguity - am I becoming her gay male friend??? I texted her - 'i was thinking that I want to buy you dinner sometime" and she replied not with the usual "i like you as a friend" but with a "sure, just make sure i don't pig out!". I'm thinking that's all the sign I need to make a move tomorrow, while we're both tipsy and dancing.

Thanks for the advice guys, i'll keep you posted.
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Based on this i am going to guess your age to be 13-15. Dont worry kid the acne will clear up and eventually your testes will descend.
 
The window of opportunity for you making a move is slowly diminishing. Make it before you get tossed into the "friend zone".

Don't be a pussy, be a man, let that testosterone guide you. MAN UP!
 
Originally posted by: MageXX9
The window of opportunity for you making a move is slowly diminishing. Make it before you get tossed into the "friend zone".

Don't be a pussy, be a man, let that testosterone guide you. MAN UP!
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You are correct, sir. Tomorrow is the day - ever hear about the 7 hour rule? I'm reading this book that's making me less of a wuss - the 7 hour rule states that a girl will be most comfortable with you making a move after spending 7 hours with you - either in one night or 3 dates. Go beyond 7 hours and you're in friend territory. Interesting stuff, everyone should read the book "the game"
 
Do what we here at ATOT do. Since you lack the courage and sophistication to lure her into the sack, drink a bottle of Colt 45 before your date. Billy D Williams knows!
 
Originally posted by: Feldenak
You will die alone.
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Yeah, ok, so my YAGTs make me seem like a dweeb... I'm a long term relationship sorta guy and have had a 6 and a half year relationship and 2 1+ year ones..I've never had a problem getting girls until now - girls my age seem less honest and realistic than they were when I was younger.. Or, being too busy with my career and being a "good guy" versus the prick that i was when i was younger has messed with my game (my stability probably comes off as boring). I can get women to sleep with pretty easy - I have a booty call girl for such purposes. So all of my questions are about possible relationships, not hooking up. So, yeah, thought i'd clear things up for you people who would rather judge me instead of sharing advice.
 
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Originally posted by: MageXX9
The window of opportunity for you making a move is slowly diminishing. Make it before you get tossed into the "friend zone".

Don't be a pussy, be a man, let that testosterone guide you. MAN UP!
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You are correct, sir. Tomorrow is the day - ever hear about the 7 hour rule? I'm reading this book that's making me less of a wuss - the 7 hour rule states that a girl will be most comfortable with you making a move after spending 7 hours with you - either in one night or 3 dates. Go beyond 7 hours and you're in friend territory. Interesting stuff, everyone should read the book "the game"
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hahahahahaha

here's a rule, for every YAGT thread you post on ATOT, you lose one girl. Oh man, you've got a lot of girls to lose =(
 
wow dude. This isn't going to work out long term I can assure. You started off all wrong. here are somethings you did but shouldnt do.

1) when you were being cute and intimiate you didnt make am ove to kiss her - big failure here.

2) you invited her for a movie - lamest date idea ever

3) you got her in your house somehow and didnt make a move - Why dont you wear a sign on your forehead that says "I'm a total pussy and I'm terrified of rejection"

4) asking her out to a dinner date? wtf lame ass sh1t is this. You are coming off llike every single other chump out there. This chick must be bored, desperate or have no other options or something I have no idea why she would keep seeing you.


stop this stuff immediately. this is not how you court a woman. this is you showing her how emascualated society has made you, how uncreative you are, how lame you are, and how you lack balls. I'm truly amazed she is responding at all any highly desirable women would be pissed that you've been wasting her time.

someone else said it, you are obviously good at opening girls, getting numbers and setting up meets but then you just crumble and burn up into a fiery mess of lame-osity

Here, flake out on the dinner out with her. tell her something big came up...lie if you have to. Say let me make it up to you I got this great recipe for such and such come over x-day and i'll make it. Then make it and seal the deal.

 
Dude, I have no idea how old you are, but here is what I know...

Girls are pretty boring to hang out with unless you are really WITH one of them, then its bearable. Unless this girl shreds pretty hard and like will go surfing and snowboarding with you who cares if you ask her out and then things go wrong and you end up not talking to her, its perfect. Its win win. If shes cute, and you ask her out, and then she ends up being with you, you win. If she never talks to you again, you win... Go for it.
 
Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
wow dude. This isn't going to work out long term I can assure. You started off all wrong. here are somethings you did but shouldnt do.

1) when you were being cute and intimiate you didnt make am ove to kiss her - big failure here.

2) you invited her for a movie - lamest date idea ever

3) you got her in your house somehow and didnt make a move - Why dont you wear a sign on your forehead that says "I'm a total pussy and I'm terrified of rejection"

4) asking her out to a dinner date? wtf lame ass sh1t is this. You are coming off llike every single other chump out there. This chick must be bored, desperate or have no other options or something I have no idea why she would keep seeing you.


stop this stuff immediately. this is not how you court a woman. this is you showing her how emascualated society has made you, how uncreative you are, how lame you are, and how you lack balls. I'm truly amazed she is responding at all any highly desirable women would be pissed that you've been wasting her time.

someone else said it, you are obviously good at opening girls, getting numbers and setting up meets but then you just crumble and burn up into a fiery mess of lame-osity

Here, flake out on the dinner out with her. tell her something big came up...lie if you have to. Say let me make it up to you I got this great recipe for such and such come over x-day and i'll make it. Then make it and seal the deal.
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Dude- thanks for opening up my eyes.. You're right, I won't argue... I'm going to become boring in her eyes if I keep sticking to my "plan".. Fvck it.. I'm going to put on my thinking cap and figure out how to fix this asap. I used to be a very creative dater - my last girl fell for me because I had a telephone date with her - she was home with the flu and I asked her out for a telephone date. We spent the day on the phone, watching a movie together and .. it was odd but worked amazingly . as soon as she was better we went on our first real date and made out 10 minutes into the movie - then dated for nearly 7 years... you're SO right, i've gone stale and need to think outside of the box.
thanks, i truly appreciate it.
 
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Originally posted by: Brutuskend
Didn't you call ME an attention whore awhile back? 😕 :shocked:
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nope, i called you homophobic... besides, i'm 25 and insecure... you're 60 and.. what's your excuse?
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No, you called me BOTH.

And I'll admit that I do have a certain fear of gays, with good reason considering some of the experiences I've had with them. So I didn't argue with THAT comment when you made it. But an attention whore? That I do take offense with. 😛

Also, I'm not quite 60. Maybe if you are unlucky enough to have experienced what I have by the time you are MY age, you may change your attitude as well. Hopefully that won't have to happen to you.
 
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
wow dude. This isn't going to work out long term I can assure. You started off all wrong. here are somethings you did but shouldnt do.

1) when you were being cute and intimiate you didnt make am ove to kiss her - big failure here.

2) you invited her for a movie - lamest date idea ever

3) you got her in your house somehow and didnt make a move - Why dont you wear a sign on your forehead that says "I'm a total pussy and I'm terrified of rejection"

4) asking her out to a dinner date? wtf lame ass sh1t is this. You are coming off llike every single other chump out there. This chick must be bored, desperate or have no other options or something I have no idea why she would keep seeing you.


stop this stuff immediately. this is not how you court a woman. this is you showing her how emascualated society has made you, how uncreative you are, how lame you are, and how you lack balls. I'm truly amazed she is responding at all any highly desirable women would be pissed that you've been wasting her time.

someone else said it, you are obviously good at opening girls, getting numbers and setting up meets but then you just crumble and burn up into a fiery mess of lame-osity

Here, flake out on the dinner out with her. tell her something big came up...lie if you have to. Say let me make it up to you I got this great recipe for such and such come over x-day and i'll make it. Then make it and seal the deal.
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Dude- thanks for opening up my eyes.. You're right, I won't argue... I'm going to become boring in her eyes if I keep sticking to my "plan".. Fvck it.. I'm going to put on my thinking cap and figure out how to fix this asap. I used to be a very creative dater - my last girl fell for me because I had a telephone date with her - she was home with the flu and I asked her out for a telephone date. We spent the day on the phone, watching a movie together and .. it was odd but worked amazingly . as soon as she was better we went on our first real date and made out 10 minutes into the movie - then dated for nearly 7 years... you're SO right, i've gone stale and need to think outside of the box.
thanks, i truly appreciate it.
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you've been told all this stuff before in other threads by other people. This is redundant information for you. You need to establish a NO DATE policy to dating. This should be easy for you as you live in the city and there are amillion things to do that are just casual non-date dates. For example your whole movie date could have been skipped and fast-forwarded straight the part where you were meandering around people wathcing and window shopping afterward. I mean look at how successful that was you got her back to your place. Do you think it was the movie that got her back to your place? HELL FVCKING NO.

Save the "romantic dates' as rewards for good behavior every once in a while. You are young so take the money you are spending Ho chasing and stash it away. So in a few years you will be *hopefully* successful in a career and have money and the women will flock to you.

Until then remember 1) no date policy 2) no ho chasing 3) grow a pair and escalate physically when you know its a high point just go in for the kiss 4) if a girl agrees to goto your crib she's already considered hooking up is a possiblity so give her what she wants
 
Originally posted by: Brutuskend
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Originally posted by: Brutuskend
Didn't you call ME an attention whore awhile back? 😕 :shocked:
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nope, i called you homophobic... besides, i'm 25 and insecure... you're 60 and.. what's your excuse?
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No, you called me BOTH.

And I'll admit that I do have a certain fear of gays, with good reason considering some of the experiences I've had with them. So I didn't argue with THAT comment when you made it. But an attention whore? That I do take offense with. 😛

Also, I'm not quite 60. Maybe if you are unlucky enough to have experienced what I have by the time you are MY age, you may change your attitude as well. Hopefully that won't have to happen to you.
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Not sorry for calling you homophobic (i volunteer at the gay center in their political outreach program, so I'm not "unbiased") but sorry for calling you an attention whore.. We all have our issues, insecurities, and hang ups - i think it's best to get it out on an anonymous forum then to get it out with a sniper rifle on a clock tower. So, sorry for judging..
 
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
wow dude. This isn't going to work out long term I can assure. You started off all wrong. here are somethings you did but shouldnt do.

1) when you were being cute and intimiate you didnt make am ove to kiss her - big failure here.

2) you invited her for a movie - lamest date idea ever

3) you got her in your house somehow and didnt make a move - Why dont you wear a sign on your forehead that says "I'm a total pussy and I'm terrified of rejection"

4) asking her out to a dinner date? wtf lame ass sh1t is this. You are coming off llike every single other chump out there. This chick must be bored, desperate or have no other options or something I have no idea why she would keep seeing you.


stop this stuff immediately. this is not how you court a woman. this is you showing her how emascualated society has made you, how uncreative you are, how lame you are, and how you lack balls. I'm truly amazed she is responding at all any highly desirable women would be pissed that you've been wasting her time.

someone else said it, you are obviously good at opening girls, getting numbers and setting up meets but then you just crumble and burn up into a fiery mess of lame-osity

Here, flake out on the dinner out with her. tell her something big came up...lie if you have to. Say let me make it up to you I got this great recipe for such and such come over x-day and i'll make it. Then make it and seal the deal.
Click to expand...

Dude- thanks for opening up my eyes.. You're right, I won't argue... I'm going to become boring in her eyes if I keep sticking to my "plan".. Fvck it.. I'm going to put on my thinking cap and figure out how to fix this asap. I used to be a very creative dater - my last girl fell for me because I had a telephone date with her - she was home with the flu and I asked her out for a telephone date. We spent the day on the phone, watching a movie together and .. it was odd but worked amazingly . as soon as she was better we went on our first real date and made out 10 minutes into the movie - then dated for nearly 7 years... you're SO right, i've gone stale and need to think outside of the box.
thanks, i truly appreciate it.
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if thinking cap is code for rubber then you're on the right track.
 
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