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Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Originally posted by: AbAbber2k
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
"We can have a picnic - enjoy cheap wine, snuggle under the stars and follow old people home to steal their jewelry."
I don't think there was anything pretentious or subtle about that. See, i'm trying to be more creative and less boring

Snuggling is what cuddle-bitches do. Do NOT "snuggle" ( :roll: ) unless you're already gettin some.

Back on topic please.

I said snuggle as in not to set off creep alarms.. I plan on making out with her tomorrow, just needed to know if she was ok with the physical part of the equation...

Thanks guys - I *do* listen to advice that makes sense.. you were right, dinner was a boring idea. movie was boring. I have to be creative and i think this was creative enough and i owe you for that good piece of advice. that's why i post so much here, some of you know what you're talking about!

your a man, you lead her. she will tell you if you are moving to fast. just do it and dont think twic eabout it. that is your job that is why you have testosterone and she doesnt. dont just make out. push the envelope as far as she will let you. maybe she's dying to get laid only one way to find out and its not asking.
 
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omg man......this is sad. I remember awhile back you posted some "guide to girls" thread and even though that was sad too you SEEMED to have a little knowledge of how to be with a woman.

Look man, it's REALLY simple, you're over thinking this way too much. Just act on impulse.....and please don't reply to this and say "OMG, you are soooooright. I see clearly now and will do as you say! A+!!!"....why, because you won't!

You're in a bad habit dude, and only you can break the cycle.

Try treating them like ******, be indifferent, and don't give me "But I can't that's not me, it's not who I am!"....every guy is capable of it if they're straight. God gave man the ability to not give a fvck specifically to deal with women.

If ever there were a time to say this it is now.....start thinking with your little head more and less witht the big one.
 
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Originally posted by: spidey07
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
her reply:

"i don't like old people but I sure like stealing - i'm in!"

no, you're not in. You are probably in friendzone. You are in when you bang her.

So quit with the yapping, make your move and make it quick. time is against you here (if you haven't blown it already). so just do it.

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I don't know how to bang this into your head. But there must be some physical activity on the first date - kissing/touching/whatever so that your intentions are very clear.

She said "i'm in" as in "i'll join you." i don't think I'm in quite yet.
 
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Originally posted by: MisterJackson
omg man......this is sad. I remember awhile back you posted some "guide to girls" thread and even though that was sad too you SEEMED to have a little knowledge of how to be with a woman.

Look man, it's REALLY simple, you're over thinking this way too much. Just act on impulse.....and please don't reply to this and say "OMG, you are soooooright. I see clearly now and will do as you say! A+!!!"....why, because you won't!

You're in a bad habit dude, and only you can break the cycle.

Try treating them like ******, be indifferent, and don't give me "But I can't that's not me, it's not who I am!"....every guy is capable of it if they're straight. God gave man the ability to not give a fvck specifically to deal with women.

If ever there were a time to say this it is now.....start thinking with your little head more and less witht the big one.

I was just talking about this with my buddy - I have no problem getting girls I'm not interested in at all... I'm rude, indifferent, and cocky and they eat it up. It's the girls I like, the girls I find attractive (physically or emotionally) - that's when I get shy and overthink everything. You're right, i gotta break the cycle ...