yeah clearly i do nothing else but troll around for sluts to bang. I dont even work, play sports or persue hobbies!!!! :roll::roll::roll::roll::roll::roll::roll::roll:
yeah clearly i do nothing else but troll around for sluts to bang. I dont even work, play sports or persue hobbies!!!! :roll::roll::roll::roll::roll::roll::roll::roll:
Hey,
Don't paint me as someone against getting laid.. Me likey getting laid! Just doing so in this situation would have made me feel dirty. getting laid rocks, let me state that clearly
P.S. I'm not saying that I'm the sh1t and that I could have gotten laid if I wanted to.. she's bloody beautiful, not in my league but that won't stop me from trying, when she finally dumps the turd and isn't crying hysterically at the time
Well you certainly seem to be of the mindset that unless you're getting laid, your life is somehow worth less than the life of someone who is getting laid. Tell me I'm wrong?
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Hey,
Don't paint me as someone against getting laid.. Me likey getting laid! Just doing so in this situation would have made me feel dirty. getting laid rocks, let me state that clearly
P.S. I'm not saying that I'm the sh1t and that I could have gotten laid if I wanted to.. she's bloody beautiful, not in my league but that won't stop me from trying, when she finally dumps the turd and isn't crying hysterically at the time
No one is trying to say you shouldn't want to. Some are just trying to encourage you do work at it by respectable means.
How's this maybe...you supply the friendship and eventually she realizes that she would rather be with someone who shows her the respect she deserves. Eventually it works into a more than friends relationship. After all, a spouse is usually the best friend too.
getting laid is not everything but this thread is about a guy that would have loved to be getting laid by this hot girl or perhaps another one that comes along and you were not encouraging him in any case. This wasn't a 'OMGSATANISTEMPTINGMEWITHSEXHOWCANIABSTAIN' thread.
The thread is about a guy who questioned whether he should be laying a woman who's already involved with someone else. He chose to do the right thing. If he wants to get laid and doesn't care whether he's in a relationship with the female or not, he should look for females who aren't currently in a relationship with someone else. THAT is what this thread is about.
Originally posted by: broon
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Hey,
Don't paint me as someone against getting laid.. Me likey getting laid! Just doing so in this situation would have made me feel dirty. getting laid rocks, let me state that clearly
P.S. I'm not saying that I'm the sh1t and that I could have gotten laid if I wanted to.. she's bloody beautiful, not in my league but that won't stop me from trying, when she finally dumps the turd and isn't crying hysterically at the time
No one is trying to say you shouldn't want to. Some are just trying to encourage you do work at it by respectable means.
How's this maybe...you supply the friendship and eventually she realizes that she would rather be with someone who shows her the respect she deserves. Eventually it works into a more than friends relationship. After all, a spouse is usually the best friend too.
Oh, I agree.. I just didn't want to get into a puritanical debate... And my ex, who I went out with for 6 and a half bloody years, spent a year together just as friends. So I know it DOES happen.. it's just a little frustrating
well, you are the guy who posts about wanting to "train" some camwhore with a bunch of your buddies. :roll:
at least freedomsbeat has a some class about what lengths he'll go through to get some "poon" (still the funniest word to ever come out of atot).
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Oh, I agree.. I just didn't want to get into a puritanical debate... And my ex, who I went out with for 6 and a half bloody years, spent a year together just as friends. So I know it DOES happen.. it's just a little frustrating
Exactly. Personally I'd respect myself more for being the friend in this case. If it's supposed to work out, it will.
VirtualLarry
No Lifer
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It's only technically "cheating", if she does something with a guy other than her "current" BF, and then goes back to him, and never officially broke it off. However, it's entirely possible that she's essentially broken up with her current BF in her mind (so from her POV it's not cheating at all), she just hasn't informed him of that fact yet, because she's been holding off on doing so until she can manage to line up another "steady" in the meantime. Immature of her? Sure. But it happens all of the time, I've seen it. Will the (now prior) BF consider it "cheating", and take issue with the current guy? Likely, since he was kept out of the loop.Originally posted by: DougK62
LOL - guys don't push girls to become unfaithful. They become unfaithful because they do not like what they currently have.
Look at it like this - the whole cheating relationship depends ENTIRELY/100% on the girl receiving the advances. So how can ANYONE but her be to blame?
Why's this so hard to understand?
But I've seen women, that actually want the "new guy" to have a forcible confrontation with their "ex", to "claim" them from that ex. And if the new guy refuses to take a stand/avoid the confrontation, then she decides that the new guy isn't worth it, so she goes back to her ex, even if he is abusive or treats her poorly, because the new guy is "weak" and at least her ex is "strong", even if he is an abusive a-ho. (IMHO, she doesn't see the new guy as "honorable" at all, in holding off until she breaks it off with the ex herself. In fact, she completely lies to herself, feeling that it should be the man's place to "claim" her from her ex, and not her place to break it off with her ex.) Sorry if that offends anyone's theoretical geek view of the world, but all of these guys that say to stay away until she breaks it off - no wonder some geeks don't get women - they spend their time in a theoretical world, ignoring the real one. I know that I've done that all too much myself, and speaking as one that attempted (foolishly!) to be "honorable" - that's complete bull, and I apparently missed out on a wealth of potential opportunities because of that stance. The truth is, that's just a figment of the male mind, women don't care. All they care about, is if you give them what they want, or not. If you do, they want you. If you don't, they dont. That's the bottom line, really. Everything else on the subject is philisophical bull.
SP33Demon
Lifer
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You can only talk to gigapet in 50 Cent language, it's the only vernacular he'll understand:
"Now shorty think I'ma sweat her, sippin on amoretta
I'm livin once than deada, I know I can do betta
She look good but I know she after my chedda
She tryna get in my pockets, homie and I ain't gonna let her"
Better yet, just say GUnit and he'll agree with you. Like at the end of all of your posts, GUNIT!!!!!
*snicker*
The girl doesnt want you as a bf, you're on her friend list. And if you keep trying to score with her, you're only going to make yourself look weird to her. She's just gonna keep hooking up with guys that treat her like crap, and then go to you when she needs emotional support. This girl isn't even worth it, just move on, there are plenty of other women out there.
VirtualLarry
No Lifer
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On top of that she has her whole family there to mourne the loss of her mom. Why do you think she even picked up the phone while she was pouring tears in a hysteric fit? There a couple of reasons, but mostly they point towards her seeking a superman with a large dongle....
Well then, that's all that matters. You will meet lots of girls on the way... And have one who you know you know how to respect.
I think you got it all wrong ... at least from what I've heard or read from married folks. Apparently, it's harder to get it after marriage ... well, excluding the honeymoon and before-kids part.Originally posted by: gigapet
Originally posted by: broon
Originally posted by: gigapet
Originally posted by: Nik
With the "quality" of your posts in this thread, or lack thereof, I'm not at all surprised.
please. nothing you have contributed will ever help the OP get laid. in fact listening to your posts will only guarantee his doesnt get laid.
Hopefully someday you'll realize that life isn't about getting laid.
thats easy to say when you are married and get it any time you want.....but for the rest of us single folks....it is an aspect of our lives that still needs attention.
Well, that's what people say, anyway.... Hehe!
As much as I generally agree with you on the subject Nik, I have to disagree with you here. I don't know about innocence, but he's surely not guilty. She's responsible on her end for failing to hold up to whatever commitment she made with whomever. He's not responsible for her behavior. He's only responsible for commitments he makes. I think it's time to drop the denial and realize that your ex was completely responsible for her action. And trust me, holding grudges for too long is punishing yourself. Karma will find its way--unless she changes her entire behavior. Karma happens not because of a supernatural force but because of the very conduct of the person. It's a natural law, as far as I'm concerned. The very behavior that drove her to cheat on you is going to attract her to someone who's of her calibre or worse. And she'll get it all back.... Just sit back, take off the bitterness, grudges and watch it happen when you weren't expecting. Enjoy yourself.Originally posted by: Nik
Uh, no. Because it's partly her fault, and she's still in the picture, there would still be a problem. If a guy knows she's taken and pushes her to become unfaithful, he's somehow magically completely innocent??
Why's this so hard to understand?
My point of view of course....
This isn't even a question of "her point of view". If they are dating, and she's with another guy, she's cheating, whether or not she's "essentially broken up with him in her mind":roll:
Don't want to be a cheating whore? Then break up with him BEFORE you start porking other guys. If you decide it isn't working out with your current SO, don't string them along until you can "line up" someone else, that's immoral and immature.
this is the only forum on the interweb where in one thread all the responses will be "I'd hit it" and in the next thread a member is being criticized for him getting laid or trying to get laid.
unbelievable.
im beginning to question the sexuality of this forum.
unbelievable.
im beginning to question the sexuality of this forum.
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