YAGT: Girl making out a week after rejecting me?

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slackerinabox

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I'm trying to figure out this girl's motives - I'm thinking it's to just f*ck with my head, but I'm open for other's thoughts. Last week I asked out a friend of mine who always knew I was into her - she flat out rejected me and said that she likes me as a friend. I try to be mature so I accepted the rejection and still invited her to hang out since then. Yesterday, while we went dancing with some friends, we were joking while entering an empty corridor - i said "this would be the perfect place to make out" - she said that i was right and then I said "so why don't we?" and kissed her - which lead to a night full of making out. so what's the deal? i haven't spoken to her yet about it, but i'm a bit confused.

Bored out of my mind, updating my YAGTS on 2/23/07
Update : Nothing came of this. We hung out a few times after that, both of us pretended nothing happened. Then we just got bored of each other and she fell off the face of the earth.
 
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Horus

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A full night of making out? WTF? Sounds like a shockingly bad time, really.
 
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slackerinabox

Lifer
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Originally posted by: Horus
A full night of making out? WTF? Sounds like a shockingly bad time, really.
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ok, we were dancing too.. i did *not* go home with her. I wasn't invited but i also didn't invite myself.
 
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OVerLoRDI

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Prepare for her to not talk to you for a while. You better call her up and see what's going on. She'll probably pull the typical girl and not say anything to you or pretend it didn't happen.
 
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imported_Devine

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I seconded the "shes just f'ing with ya" notion. Some girls are crazy and just want every guys attention all the time so they will do whatever they need to keep your attention while rejecting you at the same time.
 
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Atheus

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She told you doesn't want a 'relationship', but that doesn't mean you can't have a bit of fun, right? I don't see the problem.
 
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slackerinabox

Lifer
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Originally posted by: Atheus
She told you doesn't want a 'relationship', but that doesn't mean you can't have a bit of fun, right? I don't see the problem.
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She *wants* a relationship VERY badly in her life, not with me - she specifically said that she doesn't feel that attraction last week. It was a bummer, she didn't say anything soft like "it's not the right time" - she flat out rejected me.

 
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Stunt

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She doesn't want a relationship with you, but give her a couple drinks and enjoy the ride :)
 
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slackerinabox

Lifer
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Originally posted by: OVerLoRDI
Prepare for her to not talk to you for a while. You better call her up and see what's going on. She'll probably pull the typical girl and not say anything to you or pretend it didn't happen.
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I'm pretty sure that you're right and I'm feeling that already - she went home a little early, didn't invite me over, and she texted me - "i'm home safe, goodnight" - i was hoping for something a bit more romantic or warm. i'm thinking she's going to pretend this never happened.
 
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slackerinabox

Lifer
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Originally posted by: MustangSVT
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Originally posted by: Brackis
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Originally posted by: her209
PICS?
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I posted a pic of her last week, after she rejected me.. umm..
http://myspace-117.vo.llnwd.net/01274/71/15/1274075117_l.jpg there
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Clickable!!?
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http://myspace-117.vo.llnwd.net/01274/71/15/1274075117_l.jpg
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Was this that hard?
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sorry, hung over
 
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Stunt

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Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Originally posted by: Atheus
She told you doesn't want a 'relationship', but that doesn't mean you can't have a bit of fun, right? I don't see the problem.
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She *wants* a relationship VERY badly in her life, not with me - she specifically said that she doesn't feel that attraction last week. It was a bummer, she didn't say anything soft like "it's not the right time" - she flat out rejected me.
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It could be a race thing...I assume you aren't white.

Some people are like that; like relationships with those in their own race.
I don't endorse such views, but that could be it :p
 
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Atheus

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Originally posted by: MustangSVT
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Originally posted by: Brackis
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Originally posted by: her209
PICS?
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I posted a pic of her last week, after she rejected me.. umm..
http://myspace-117.vo.llnwd.net/01274/71/15/1274075117_l.jpg there
Click to expand...

Clickable!!?
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http://myspace-117.vo.llnwd.net/01274/71/15/1274075117_l.jpg
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Was this that hard?
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It's because ATOT forum code is backward. It should be like <a href="foo.com">foo</a>, but noooooo... we have to be all original... [ L = "foo" ] foo.com [ / L ]

Makes no sense to programmers. I make that mistake all the time.
 
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Dangerer

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don't let girls f*kc with your head man. Next time you guys make out, just be a total P-I-M-P and knock her up. Show her WHAT SUP ya'dig?

Turn the tables man, don't let girls treat you like a doormat
 
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slackerinabox

Lifer
Mar 15, 2003
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Originally posted by: Stunt
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Originally posted by: Atheus
She told you doesn't want a 'relationship', but that doesn't mean you can't have a bit of fun, right? I don't see the problem.
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She *wants* a relationship VERY badly in her life, not with me - she specifically said that she doesn't feel that attraction last week. It was a bummer, she didn't say anything soft like "it's not the right time" - she flat out rejected me.
Click to expand...
It could be a race thing...I assume you aren't white.

Some people are like that; like relationships with those in their own race.
I don't endorse such views, but that could be it :p
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her sister's boyfriend is indian too, but it's possible.. or she enjoys screwing with my head... I'm not calling her - i'll wait it out.
 
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spidey07

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wow, it just keeps getting worse for you, doesn't it? Can you take a class on women?

In all seriouness just pork her very, very selfishly. Treat her a little mean and tell her you're busy/have plans/have a date and she needs to leave.

You'll be surprised at how she will become infatuated with you.

no. i'm not joking. Just try it.
 
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slackerinabox

Lifer
Mar 15, 2003
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Originally posted by: Dangerer
don't let girls f*kc with your head man. Next time you guys make out, just be a total P-I-M-P and knock her up. Show her WHAT SUP ya'dig?

Turn the tables man, don't let girls treat you like a doormat
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talking with my ex, my relationship guru (oddly enough), and she's "positive" that the girl's trying to mess with my self esteem by brining me up then shooting me down - repeat and reuse. I didn't think she was like that but I'm going to have to trust a girl's instincts on this. So, i gotta either walk away, pretend it didn't happen or use her before she uses me... but that sounds so cynical
 
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Heller

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i agree,

if she calls you like your to busy to talk to her, if she txt's you like that and says im home safe

just txt back ONE LETTER

her-im home goodnight

you-k.

give her the e-cold shoulder
 
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slackerinabox

Lifer
Mar 15, 2003
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Originally posted by: Heller91
i agree,

if she calls you like your to busy to talk to her, if she txt's you like that and says im home safe

just txt back ONE LETTER

her-im home goodnight

you-k.

give her the e-cold shoulder
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that's my plan - i forced myself to get over her after she rejected me last week... I move on quickly, hooked up with a girl 2 hours after this one rejected me and went on a great date on friday.. So i was over her, i wasn't locked in my room crying. i think this is her ploy to get my mind back on her even if she's not really interested.
 
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