YAGT: Girl making out a week after rejecting me?

[mercanucaribe]

She changed her mind.

 

[Orsorum]

Originally posted by: mercanucaribe
She changed her mind.

Yep. My roommate had a similar situation a few months ago; he got over it and started dating a woman who WAS into him. Why don't you do the same?

 

[slackerinabox]

Originally posted by: Orsorum

Originally posted by: mercanucaribe
She changed her mind.

Yep. My roommate had a similar situation a few months ago; he got over it and started dating a woman who WAS into him. Why don't you do the same?

good advice, i'm not going after this girl and will instead spend the energy on someone who's into me.

p.s. congrats on the weight loss!

 

[Orsorum]

Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212

Originally posted by: Orsorum

Originally posted by: mercanucaribe
She changed her mind.

Yep. My roommate had a similar situation a few months ago; he got over it and started dating a woman who WAS into him. Why don't you do the same?

good advice, i'm not going after this girl and will instead spend the energy on someone who's into me.

p.s. congrats on the weight loss!

Glad to hear it. If there's one thing I've seen in life, people are confusing (not just women!). People change their minds, get halfway into something and realize it wasn't what they thought it was, etc. All you can do is take it in stride, grin, and walk on.

Thanks! Still have a long way to go, and have some very deeply ingrained eating habits to break, but I'm making progress.

 

[BrianH1]

glad to see rule #1 got followed through.

 

[thomsbrain]

i think we need an anti-freedomsbeat-YAGT coalition to stop the proliferation of myspace garbage posts on ATOT.

 

[sixone]

Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
talking with my ex, my relationship guru (oddly enough), and she's "positive" that the girl's trying to mess with my self esteem by brining me up then shooting me down - repeat and reuse. I didn't think she was like that but I'm going to have to trust a girl's instincts on this. So, i gotta either walk away, pretend it didn't happen or use her before she uses me... but that sounds so cynical

Given the number of YAGTs you post, you need a new "relationship guru". This explanation makes no sense whatsoever.

She already said she doesn't want a "relationship" with you. If you can't make out with her without turning it into a big drama, then don't. Move on already.

 

[slightlyhuman]

for someone to seem to have lots of opps with females you suck at getting past the first stage.

sounds like she's diagnosed with FEMALE.

gl though and take her easy, if she's easy then take her twice.

 

[Heller]

im soo confused

 

[cheapgoose]

Originally posted by: Horus
A full night of making out? WTF? Sounds like a shockingly bad time, really.

haha....sorry but making out means nothing. Don't take it soo seriously.

 

[rh71]

YAGTs:

every girl is different.. we can tell you all about "our" experiences and it won't help but tell you the possibilities... we don't have a straight answer for you.

 

[MercenaryForHire]

Try men. You seem to have no skills with the fairer sex.

- M4H

 

[Ronstang]

I once had a girl tell that I was an ass and that she could not stand me.....then a while later she asks me to take her home from a club and when we get there she asks me to sleep with her. We are talking about women. Trying to use logic to determine their motives or next move is moot. They are a roller coaster. Enjoy.

 

[JEDI]

Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Try men. You seem to have no skills with the fairer sex.

- M4H

or become a priest

oh wait...

 

[IHateMyJob2004]

Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
I'm trying to figure out this girl's motives - I'm thinking it's to just f*ck with my head, but I'm open for other's thoughts. Last week I asked out a friend of mine who always knew I was into her - she flat out rejected me and said that she likes me as a friend. I try to be mature so I accepted the rejection and still invited her to hang out since then. Yesterday, while we went dancing with some friends, we were joking while entering an empty corridor - i said "this would be the perfect place to make out" - she said that i was right and then I said "so why don't we?" and kissed her - which lead to a night full of making out. so what's the deal? i haven't spoken to her yet about it, but i'm a bit confused.

Women are all fvcked in the head. Don't get your hopes up.

 

[Ronstang]

Originally posted by: IHateMyJob2004
Women are all fvcked in the head. Don't get your hopes up.

They are not fvcked in the head. They just think COMPLETELY different then men. Their emotions fluctuate from minute to minute. You just have to learn to deal with it.

 

[spidey07]

Originally posted by: Ronstang

Originally posted by: IHateMyJob2004
Women are all fvcked in the head. Don't get your hopes up.

They are not fvcked in the head. They just think COMPLETELY different then men. Their emotions fluctuate from minute to minute. You just have to learn to manipulate it.

fixed

 

[RallyMaster]

i burp to this thread and my 12 inch Subway Club

 

[IHateMyJob2004]

Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212

Originally posted by: Dangerer
don't let girls f*kc with your head man. Next time you guys make out, just be a total P-I-M-P and knock her up. Show her WHAT SUP ya'dig?

Turn the tables man, don't let girls treat you like a doormat

talking with my ex, my relationship guru (oddly enough), and she's "positive" that the girl's trying to mess with my self esteem by brining me up then shooting me down - repeat and reuse. I didn't think she was like that but I'm going to have to trust a girl's instincts on this. So, i gotta either walk away, pretend it didn't happen or use her before she uses me... but that sounds so cynical

You should be sure to catch the real world tonight. It's arepeat of hte season premier. It's a good way to udnerstand how Fed up women are in general. The first episode actualyl demonstrates this quite well .... or atleast it should be obvious what is going to happen in teh near future with woemn going nutzo.

 

[Ronstang]

Originally posted by: spidey07

Originally posted by: Ronstang

Originally posted by: IHateMyJob2004
Women are all fvcked in the head. Don't get your hopes up.

They are not fvcked in the head. They just think COMPLETELY different then men. Their emotions fluctuate from minute to minute. You just have to learn to manipulate it.

fixed

That is what I meant, but I didn't want to actually say it.

 

[IHateMyJob2004]

Originally posted by: Ronstang

Originally posted by: IHateMyJob2004
Women are all fvcked in the head. Don't get your hopes up.

They are not fvcked in the head. They just think COMPLETELY different then men. Their emotions fluctuate from minute to minute. You just have to learn to deal with it.

Well .. they are not logical thinkers. men are

PS: Married and 30. I've had to many incidents in my life with women. My conclusion is that 50%+ have some sort of illogical issue. Be nice to them and they think you are stalking them. Treat them like sh!t and they want to make babies. I don't get it.

 

[Oblivionaire]

Most women are complete airheads with a couple of fuzzy dice in their heads. Upon these dice are written the words: happy, sad, angry, bloated, horny, sick, whimsical, plotting, bitchy, vindictive, selfish, selfless, sleepy, vengeful.....etc.

 

[mrrman]

nice lookin

 

[Aimster]

haha dont bring anything up with her

act like you dont care and youll continue to get the ass

 

[Slammy1]

Let her feel she's in control of how far things will go. Don't dwell on the relationship idea, focus on your friendship or you risk her thinking it's just about getting in her pants. She'll let you know how to proceed, you just need to pay attention. Mind reading helps.