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YAGT: Fun girl or conservative girl?

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Not planning on getting married? Then go for the wild girl. Expect her to not call, be too busy for you, and all the other related garbage that comes with the party types. But at least you will be having fun for that short period of time you can stomache her.


 
The obvious answer is neither...

Pursue them equally the same...it'll work itself out in the end.

Conservative is good for a RELATIONSHIP...Wild is good for a ******.

However, keep in mind, Wild and Conservative are not always exclusive from one another. How is Girl A conservative and how is Girl B wild?

I've been with women who, during their normal day, act very professionally, dress very conservatively, are very devoted to their jobs and their relationships, but will go out, dress sexy, get blitzed, and can suck the silver off a trailer hitch....

I've been with women who TRIED to play head games, were going out 4,5,6 nights a week, worked the so-so job, had no real ambition but new how to have a GREAT time. There was something new and exciting going on every night...but...they would just lie there and take it in bed....


I've also dated combinations of the above examples...bottom line...you need to figure out what YOU're looking for...
 
Originally posted by: Nutdotnet
The obvious answer is neither...

Pursue them equally the same...it'll work itself out in the end.

Conservative is good for a RELATIONSHIP...Wild is good for a ******.

However, keep in mind, Wild and Conservative are not always exclusive from one another. How is Girl A conservative and how is Girl B wild?

I've been with women who, during their normal day, act very professionally, dress very conservatively, are very devoted to their jobs and their relationships, but will go out, dress sexy, get blitzed, and can suck the silver off a trailer hitch....

I've been with women who TRIED to play head games, were going out 4,5,6 nights a week, worked the so-so job, had no real ambition but new how to have a GREAT time. There was something new and exciting going on every night...but...they would just lie there and take it in bed....


I've also dated combinations of the above examples...bottom line...you need to figure out what YOU're looking for...
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Pursue both and see which one just works out better, probably a good idea. The conservative girl is conservative all the time, I know this. The wild girl is wild but I know I work with her well and she also knows when to settle down and get work done, she's very smart and dedicated.
 
Conservative girl cause she's more fresh; Wild girl prolly sleeps with a lotta guys already and is more likely to cheat on you. So Conservative girl if u want a long term thing and wild girl for the rush and instant gratification.
 
Originally posted by: Corporate Thug
I'm on the conservative side and I look for the same in girls, but they gotta know how to let loose once in a while
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In my experience even the conservative good girls can let loose and go wild. The important thing is to know when they are going to do that and trust me you can get your fix for the wild and adventurous easily.

Honestly date the good conservative girl it will save you a lot of headache and worry.
 
Originally posted by: archcommus
Sorry guys, no pics, these are both girls that would probably be disgusted to know their pictures were on an internet forum, and although they'd probably never know I'm going to respect that. Let's just say they both look plenty good, but of course the wild one dresses in a way you'd expect versus the conservative one.

Now you all say that the one more like me is better for the long term, but honestly I've always pictured myself with someone who is a bit crazier and less organized than me. Because I really am and I feel like if I was with someone else who was too that it'd just be too much, I'd like to have that other half of me that loosens me up.
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Also keep in mind while girls who put the goods on display are wonderful eye candy its not so good when that eye candy becomes your girlfriend and you suddenly become aware of all the guys checking her out. But hey that could go either way, sometimes I like to think of it as, "Yeah that's right failures that piece of ass in mine"
 
Originally posted by: archcommus
Two girls and I can't decide which to pursue more. The one is more conservative, quiet, pretty, I would say a lot like me, I could picture being with her when I'm 30 or 40. The other girl is wild, knows how to have fun, but is still a great, smart person, I feel like she's pretty different from me but I also kind of like that since it helps balance out my conservative, organized qualities.

So which is the way to go? Opposites are nice and refreshing and keep life balanced, however similarities seem to indicate a better chance at working down the road.

Edit: Poll added since Googer seemed to really want it. 😛
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every study ever done points to the fact that people get along better in homogenous relationships and groups (i.e. the same).
 
Originally posted by: eleison
this reminds me of advice a friend gave me. It goes something like this:

When I was 14, I hoped that one day I would have a girlfriend. When I was 16 I got a girlfriend, but there was no passion, so I decided I needed a passionate girl with a zest for life.

In college I dated a passionate girl, but she was too emotional. Everything was an emergency; she was a drama queen, cried all the time and threatened suicide. So I decided I needed a girl with stability.

When I was 25 I found a very stable girl but she was boring. She was totally predictable and never got excited about anything. Life became so dull that I decided that I needed a girl with some excitement.

When I was 28 I found an exciting girl, but I couldn't keep up with her. She rushed from one thing to another, never settling on anything. She did mad impetuous things and made me miserable as often as happy. She was great fun initially and very energetic, but directionless. So I decided to find a girl with some real ambition.

When I turned 31, I found a smart ambitious girl with her feet planted firmly on the ground and married her. She was so ambitious that she divorced me and took everything I owned.

Now, I am older and wiser, and am looking for a girl with big tits.
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rotflmao
 
Pics wouldn't help answer the actual question I'm asking here.

I'm looking for something that could develop into a real relationship, but like I've said, crazier, more outgoing people appeal to me more to help keep myself sane. 😛 I already know I'll probably be at a desk in front of a computer for 40 hours a week for my career, when I come home do I want someone who's going to want to stay in and watch TV all night or someone who's going to want to have some fun? Until we get old and tired at least, at which point everyone stays in and watches TV all night.
 
if you have to ask on the internet, the wild girl is too wild for you. she'll probably dump you quickly. or she's not as wild as you claim.

just pick one before you can't choose either.
 
if YOU're an eldest child (overdeveloped sense of responsibility, ruled too much my "should's", etc.) pick the wild girl.

Otherwise pick the conservative girl.
 
Well, going off what someone else mentioned, just because the girl isn't outgoing doesn't mean she doesn't want to ever have fun. Also, you can help propose ideas of fun things you can do together (that don't involve baby-making processes 😛) and then maybe she will next.

I'd say I'm a bit like you... the more conservative (personality-wise) guy and what I see is the wild girl being fun... but only for so long. You'll eventually just get tired of her or bothered by some of her antics. It's like buying a new PC... god it's so fast and awesome for about a month but then it feels just as slow as the prior one. Buy a Toyota, get a Toyota, buy a Ferrari and get a Ford? Meh, I'd rather just "buy" the normal experience rather than ride the elation roller coaster.
 
Originally posted by: scott
if YOU're an eldest child (overdeveloped sense of responsibility, ruled too much my "should's", etc.) pick the wild girl.

Otherwise pick the conservative girl.
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I am the eldest, and the youngest, I'm an only child, and those traits seem to describe me perfectly. And you say to pick the wild one, eh? Care to elaborate?
 
Originally posted by: archcommus
Originally posted by: scott
if YOU're an eldest child (overdeveloped sense of responsibility, ruled too much my "should's", etc.) pick the wild girl.

Otherwise pick the conservative girl.
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I am the eldest, and the youngest, I'm an only child, and those traits seem to describe me perfectly. And you say to pick the wild one, eh? Care to elaborate?
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Man, you sure dont' want this thread to die. How old are you anyways?
 
Originally posted by: eleison
this reminds me of advice a friend gave me. It goes something like this:

When I was 14, I hoped that one day I would have a girlfriend. When I was 16 I got a girlfriend, but there was no passion, so I decided I needed a passionate girl with a zest for life.

In college I dated a passionate girl, but she was too emotional. Everything was an emergency; she was a drama queen, cried all the time and threatened suicide. So I decided I needed a girl with stability.

When I was 25 I found a very stable girl but she was boring. She was totally predictable and never got excited about anything. Life became so dull that I decided that I needed a girl with some excitement.

When I was 28 I found an exciting girl, but I couldn't keep up with her. She rushed from one thing to another, never settling on anything. She did mad impetuous things and made me miserable as often as happy. She was great fun initially and very energetic, but directionless. So I decided to find a girl with some real ambition.

When I turned 31, I found a smart ambitious girl with her feet planted firmly on the ground and married her. She was so ambitious that she divorced me and took everything I owned.

Now, I am older and wiser, and am looking for a girl with big tits.
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:thumbsup:
 
Originally posted by: eleison
Originally posted by: archcommus
Originally posted by: scott
if YOU're an eldest child (overdeveloped sense of responsibility, ruled too much my "should's", etc.) pick the wild girl.

Otherwise pick the conservative girl.
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I am the eldest, and the youngest, I'm an only child, and those traits seem to describe me perfectly. And you say to pick the wild one, eh? Care to elaborate?
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Man, you sure dont' want this thread to die. How old are you anyways?
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I'm just bored and reading people's reponses is a way to kill time. I'm 20.
 
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