YAGT: Fun girl or conservative girl?

archcommus

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Two girls and I can't decide which to pursue more. The one is more conservative, quiet, pretty, I would say a lot like me, I could picture being with her when I'm 30 or 40. The other girl is wild, knows how to have fun, but is still a great, smart person, I feel like she's pretty different from me but I also kind of like that since it helps balance out my conservative, organized qualities.

So which is the way to go? Opposites are nice and refreshing and keep life balanced, however similarities seem to indicate a better chance at working down the road.

Edit: Poll added since Googer seemed to really want it. :p
 

eleison

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this reminds me of advice a friend gave me. It goes something like this:

When I was 14, I hoped that one day I would have a girlfriend. When I was 16 I got a girlfriend, but there was no passion, so I decided I needed a passionate girl with a zest for life.

In college I dated a passionate girl, but she was too emotional. Everything was an emergency; she was a drama queen, cried all the time and threatened suicide. So I decided I needed a girl with stability.

When I was 25 I found a very stable girl but she was boring. She was totally predictable and never got excited about anything. Life became so dull that I decided that I needed a girl with some excitement.

When I was 28 I found an exciting girl, but I couldn't keep up with her. She rushed from one thing to another, never settling on anything. She did mad impetuous things and made me miserable as often as happy. She was great fun initially and very energetic, but directionless. So I decided to find a girl with some real ambition.

When I turned 31, I found a smart ambitious girl with her feet planted firmly on the ground and married her. She was so ambitious that she divorced me and took everything I owned.

Now, I am older and wiser, and am looking for a girl with big tits.
 
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I'm on the conservative side and I look for the same in girls, but they gotta know how to let loose once in a while
 
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Originally posted by: archcommus
Two girls and I can't decide which to pursue more. The one is more conservative, quiet, pretty, I would say a lot like me, I could picture being with her when I'm 30 or 40. The other girl is wild, knows how to have fun, but is still a great, smart person, I feel like she's pretty different from me but I also kind of like that since it helps balance out my conservative, organized qualities.

So which is the way to go? Opposites are nice and refreshing and keep life balanced, however similarities seem to indicate a better chance at working down the road.

Then what? Trade her in for two 20's? :laugh:
 

SolMiester

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Originally posted by: eleison
this reminds me of advice a friend gave me. It goes something like this:

When I was 14, I hoped that one day I would have a girlfriend. When I was 16 I got a girlfriend, but there was no passion, so I decided I needed a passionate girl with a zest for life.

In college I dated a passionate girl, but she was too emotional. Everything was an emergency; she was a drama queen, cried all the time and threatened suicide. So I decided I needed a girl with stability.

When I was 25 I found a very stable girl but she was boring. She was totally predictable and never got excited about anything. Life became so dull that I decided that I needed a girl with some excitement.

When I was 28 I found an exciting girl, but I couldn't keep up with her. She rushed from one thing to another, never settling on anything. She did mad impetuous things and made me miserable as often as happy. She was great fun initially and very energetic, but directionless. So I decided to find a girl with some real ambition.

When I turned 31, I found a smart ambitious girl with her feet planted firmly on the ground and married her. She was so ambitious that she divorced me and took everything I owned.

Now, I am older and wiser, and am looking for a girl with big tits.

:beer: LOL...great story
 

judasmachine

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Originally posted by: eleison
this reminds me of advice a friend gave me. It goes something like this:

When I was 14, I hoped that one day I would have a girlfriend. When I was 16 I got a girlfriend, but there was no passion, so I decided I needed a passionate girl with a zest for life.

In college I dated a passionate girl, but she was too emotional. Everything was an emergency; she was a drama queen, cried all the time and threatened suicide. So I decided I needed a girl with stability.

When I was 25 I found a very stable girl but she was boring. She was totally predictable and never got excited about anything. Life became so dull that I decided that I needed a girl with some excitement.

When I was 28 I found an exciting girl, but I couldn't keep up with her. She rushed from one thing to another, never settling on anything. She did mad impetuous things and made me miserable as often as happy. She was great fun initially and very energetic, but directionless. So I decided to find a girl with some real ambition.

When I turned 31, I found a smart ambitious girl with her feet planted firmly on the ground and married her. She was so ambitious that she divorced me and took everything I owned.

Now, I am older and wiser, and am looking for a girl with big tits.


AMEN!
 

PricklyPete

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Originally posted by: eleison
this reminds me of advice a friend gave me. It goes something like this:

When I was 14, I hoped that one day I would have a girlfriend. When I was 16 I got a girlfriend, but there was no passion, so I decided I needed a passionate girl with a zest for life.

In college I dated a passionate girl, but she was too emotional. Everything was an emergency; she was a drama queen, cried all the time and threatened suicide. So I decided I needed a girl with stability.

When I was 25 I found a very stable girl but she was boring. She was totally predictable and never got excited about anything. Life became so dull that I decided that I needed a girl with some excitement.

When I was 28 I found an exciting girl, but I couldn't keep up with her. She rushed from one thing to another, never settling on anything. She did mad impetuous things and made me miserable as often as happy. She was great fun initially and very energetic, but directionless. So I decided to find a girl with some real ambition.

When I turned 31, I found a smart ambitious girl with her feet planted firmly on the ground and married her. She was so ambitious that she divorced me and took everything I owned.

Now, I am older and wiser, and am looking for a girl with big tits.

Awesome!

Everyone is different, but I discovered over my many years of dating that sticking with someone who is similar, has similar interests and likes is much better for a longterm relationship. If all you are looking for is something quick and fun, go with #2. If you want something more meaningful and long lasting, go with #1.

 

hanoverphist

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Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
Wait a second, where in the rule book does it say you are limited to choosing only one of the two?

i was thinking the same thing... introduce them, see if you can swing both :p
 

archcommus

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Sorry guys, no pics, these are both girls that would probably be disgusted to know their pictures were on an internet forum, and although they'd probably never know I'm going to respect that. Let's just say they both look plenty good, but of course the wild one dresses in a way you'd expect versus the conservative one.

Now you all say that the one more like me is better for the long term, but honestly I've always pictured myself with someone who is a bit crazier and less organized than me. Because I really am and I feel like if I was with someone else who was too that it'd just be too much, I'd like to have that other half of me that loosens me up.
 

DaShen

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Honestly, do you really need advice on this?

Use your head and you will know the obvious choice.
 

Aikouka

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Fun girls only add limited excitement... you tend to get bored with it after awhile.
 

archcommus

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Originally posted by: 2Xtreme21
Ask yourself if you're gonna be too boring for the wild girl. :)
She brings out the crazier side in myself, that's why I like hanging out with her.

Originally posted by: DaShen
Honestly, do you really need advice on this?

Use your head and you will know the obvious choice.
I've given it thought and it's tough. They both appeal in different ways at different times.

Originally posted by: Kelemvor
Originally posted by: angrymaxx
the one with the bigger boobs

/thread

QTF
That would be the wilder girl.
 

Tommouse

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I would go with the conservative gal. I think it would be easier to get her to loosen up and do wilder things than it would be to calm down the wild one.

Or just flip a coin, and pick the one you want. Because if the girl you really want was picked via the coin then you will accept it, if she wasn't you will flip again, or just pick the other one. :p