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alkemyst

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Originally posted by: Fenixgoon
Originally posted by: alkemyst
wtf is a movie on a fourth date after making out.

movies are reserved for after sex.

So many ppl pick a movie for a date...if you aren't making out throughout it, it's the worst date to pick...you just watched a movie...she could have been the stranger next to you.

wtf is the point of making out in a movie theater? there are other people around. i find that highly confusing:confused: i'd rather have fun in a bedroom ;)

I was saying that it doesn't make sense. She could be the stranger next to you = in a movie your date shouldn't really be talking / interacting too much with you.

I did know some people in my 20's that liked to sneak beer / alcohol in a theatre and drink/make out/even do it if possible.

Too much work for me when I had a place to use.
 

Jeff7

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Originally posted by: saymyname
Originally posted by: krunchykrome
Women like to eat everyday.

QFT




This forum scares me. Some of you guys have no clue about women and never will. LOL

The blind leading the blind.










And we're blind from killing kittens for many many years.
 

alkemyst

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Originally posted by: Geekbabe
4th date ? should be dinner at her house,paid for and cooked by her, with sex afterwards.

:) if you were a guy you'd get flamed...but seriously...after 3 dates assuming the 3rd was the sex one...the next should be her doing something for him.

When I was working between Shreveport, LA and Florida, there was a chick I hooked up with in Texas. I had met her on a '20 something' forum on aol chat. She taught high school, I loved talking about science. So we talked a lot...when she found out I was coming within a few hour drive of her; she wanted to make sure I as coming closer.

Stayed the weekend at her place, it was an awkward first "date" though. We met for drinks and it was obvious we both really liked each other. I kept talking about I should book a room, she kept saying I could drive back and not have to spend so much money. Finally we both realized we were beating around the bush (pun intended). She had a freaking awesome dinner ready (I can't remember it though although I remember the strawberry and topping stuff dessert...I wasn't so into it, but she had fun with it so I played along).

I rarely left her bed those two days. My total cost was about 3 fill ups in gas and a few rounds of drinks for 2. :) She was full-bodied and looked like Wonder Woman from the TV show I grew up with; not my type really at the time, but she changed my opinion.

Around the first half dozen dates, if the woman doesn't have you over to cook for you or even order in...something is wrong. By sharing her place, she is wanting the relationship to continue. Don't read that as move forward though. She just wants you to be some part of her life.

 

yowolabi

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Originally posted by: alkemyst
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
4th date ? should be dinner at her house,paid for and cooked by her, with sex afterwards.

:) if you were a guy you'd get flamed...but seriously...after 3 dates assuming the 3rd was the sex one...the next should be her doing something for him.

When I was working between Shreveport, LA and Florida, there was a chick I hooked up with in Texas. I had met her on a '20 something' forum on aol chat. She taught high school, I loved talking about science. So we talked a lot...when she found out I was coming within a few hour drive of her; she wanted to make sure I as coming closer.

Stayed the weekend at her place, it was an awkward first "date" though. We met for drinks and it was obvious we both really liked each other. I kept talking about I should book a room, she kept saying I could drive back and not have to spend so much money. Finally we both realized we were beating around the bush (pun intended). She had a freaking awesome dinner ready (I can't remember it though although I remember the strawberry and topping stuff dessert...I wasn't so into it, but she had fun with it so I played along).

I rarely left her bed those two days. My total cost was about 3 fill ups in gas and a few rounds of drinks for 2. :) She was full-bodied and looked like Wonder Woman from the TV show I grew up with; not my type really at the time, but she changed my opinion.

Around the first half dozen dates, if the woman doesn't have you over to cook for you or even order in...something is wrong. By sharing her place, she is wanting the relationship to continue. Don't read that as move forward though. She just wants you to be some part of her life.

Between this and the Boobs thread, I can cancel my subscription to Penthouse forum.
 

Nutdotnet

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I'm going to be in the minority here but...

NO DINNER...NO DINNER...NO DINNER!

Do you REALLY want to be like every other joe-schmoe that does the "dinner and a movie". I wouldn't take a girl to a movie in the first place, as a "date". You want to do something stupid and funny, or really, really interesting. A movie isn't interesting...a movie is a movie.

So...I'd check and see what's going on...what plays are happening...any, relatively sane, concerts? What about art exhibits?

Or...and I don't know where you live but...things like bull-riding lessons, rock-climbing lessons, bungee-jumping, maybe go somewhere where you can cook your own food...

Make it memorable man...the whole "dinner and a movie on the 4th date" is just setting up for what you're hoping for...NO FUN!
 

Geekbabe

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Originally posted by: alkemyst
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
4th date ? should be dinner at her house,paid for and cooked by her, with sex afterwards.

:) if you were a guy you'd get flamed...but seriously...after 3 dates assuming the 3rd was the sex one...the next should be her doing something for him.

When I was working between Shreveport, LA and Florida, there was a chick I hooked up with in Texas. I had met her on a '20 something' forum on aol chat. She taught high school, I loved talking about science. So we talked a lot...when she found out I was coming within a few hour drive of her; she wanted to make sure I as coming closer.

Stayed the weekend at her place, it was an awkward first "date" though. We met for drinks and it was obvious we both really liked each other. I kept talking about I should book a room, she kept saying I could drive back and not have to spend so much money. Finally we both realized we were beating around the bush (pun intended). She had a freaking awesome dinner ready (I can't remember it though although I remember the strawberry and topping stuff dessert...I wasn't so into it, but she had fun with it so I played along).

I rarely left her bed those two days. My total cost was about 3 fill ups in gas and a few rounds of drinks for 2. :) She was full-bodied and looked like Wonder Woman from the TV show I grew up with; not my type really at the time, but she changed my opinion.

Around the first half dozen dates, if the woman doesn't have you over to cook for you or even order in...something is wrong. By sharing her place, she is wanting the relationship to continue. Don't read that as move forward though. She just wants you to be some part of her life.


sometines you don't get busy till date number 4... usually the tip off is when the woman invites you to dinner at her place.The reason ? no woman wants to wake up in a place where she doesn't have any of her personal grooming items,there's nothing tackier than doing the rush home to change for work thing in clothing that you wore to a club.
 

alkemyst

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Originally posted by: Geekbabe

sometines you don't get busy till date number 4... usually the tip off is when the woman invites you to dinner at her place.The reason ? no woman wants to wake up in a place where she doesn't have any of her personal grooming items,there's nothing tackier than doing the rush home to change for work thing in clothing that you wore to a club.

I can agree to that...but even if I met her in a club, our next few dates are more civilized...however; if you have to work the next day all bets are off.

I hated coming to work smelling like smoke and not really body odor...but a definite smell.