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A5

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Originally posted by: Riverhound777
Wow you people like wasting money on women... wish I had that much money to spend. And its also funny how many of you think you NEED to take a girl to dinner for her to like you. Women are supposed to like being with you, it shouldn't matter what you are doing. If they are that shallow (which very few really care about how much you spend on them), then you are with the wrong girl. Why not just take her for a walk, or to something near the movie theater to chat if it is too cold. She should enjoy your company, not your money...

Well, you both have to eat anyway, so you may as well go together and talk during the time. It's not like you go to a GOOD place every time, just grabbing something to eat is a good chance to talk and stuff.
 

jdini76

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After thinking about it, I would say skip the movie and go to dinner only. You will get more 1 on 1 time. How will you learn anything about each other at a movie. especialy one in a movie theater where you will be shushed if you talk during the movie.

If you want to see a movie, go back to your/her place, after dinner, pop in a flik you both ahve seen and snuggle on the couch!

Edit: make sure dinner includes a couple stiff drinks. not too many juist enough to get her giggling.
 

Sukhoi

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Uh, Borat as a date movie? lol, might want to reconsider that. Unless of course she's requested to see it.
 

BooGiMaN

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stop overthinking it and stop planning so much....

go have dinner...suggest a movie and go to the theater...if nothing is playig at that time...go the beach or the park until the movie starts

dont go expecting to boink just take a it slow and see what develops otherwise i got a feeling you will scare her off..
 

BrianH1

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been here almost 3 years and still doesn't know the rules?????

RULE # 1 !!!!!!!
 

spidey07

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It's the 4th date. You're past the 3rd date rule.

You know what to do. Seal the deal.
 
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The US dating scene is pretty retarded actually.

3'rd date rule......... LOL. What's that? Similar to 'no date after 3'rd phonecall = move on'.

Just go with the flow man.
 

TheGizmo

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spidey07

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Originally posted by: FrustratedUser
The US dating scene is pretty retarded actually.

3'rd date rule......... LOL. What's that? Similar to 'no date after 3'rd phonecall = move on'.

Just go with the flow man.

3rd date rule. You need to be shagging on the 3rd date. It's pretty much well known knowledge. Without this shagging you haven't really made your intentions clear.
 

TheGizmo

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Originally posted by: FrustratedUser
Being from Europe I find this peculiar. Life is not governed by a set of rules..... really.

This is not how it works here, its only how it works for EMO kids... EMO kids have problems that don't exist.
 
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Originally posted by: TheGizmo
Originally posted by: FrustratedUser
Being from Europe I find this peculiar. Life is not governed by a set of rules..... really.

This is not how it works here, its only how it works for EMO kids... EMO kids have problems that don't exist.

Go figure, LOL.
 

alkemyst

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wtf is a movie on a fourth date after making out.

movies are reserved for after sex.

So many ppl pick a movie for a date...if you aren't making out throughout it, it's the worst date to pick...you just watched a movie...she could have been the stranger next to you.
 

postmortemIA

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Originally posted by: spidey07
Originally posted by: FrustratedUser
The US dating scene is pretty retarded actually.

3'rd date rule......... LOL. What's that? Similar to 'no date after 3'rd phonecall = move on'.

Just go with the flow man.

3rd date rule. You need to be shagging on the 3rd date. It's pretty much well known knowledge. Without this shagging you haven't really made your intentions clear.

Well if you are dating such girls, you can sleep with them even on 1st/2nd date.
 

Fenixgoon

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Originally posted by: alkemyst
wtf is a movie on a fourth date after making out.

movies are reserved for after sex.

So many ppl pick a movie for a date...if you aren't making out throughout it, it's the worst date to pick...you just watched a movie...she could have been the stranger next to you.

wtf is the point of making out in a movie theater? there are other people around. i find that highly confusing:confused: i'd rather have fun in a bedroom ;)