YAGT: Flirting with a friend's (female) sister

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djheater

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What's always been amazing to me is how much play the balding fat man gets, and how utterly clueles about women he continues to be.

It deserves a medal, or custom title of some kind. Really.

good job freedomsbeat212 you give us all hope.
 

MmmSkyscraper

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He gets play cos he asks, unlike 99% of the YAGT posters.

Hey freedomsbeat212, what you doin' this weekend? ;)
 

zinfamous

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Oh. I thought this was about the sister of a male friend...and if a serious friend, then this would be totally messed-up. The sister of a gal you dated? pshh. No biggie. If you guys haven't become huge friends then it's no biggie.

The only issue could occur if this gets a little more serious...the pal may realize something through her sister's feelings about you...maybe she missed out? why did she let you go? then the jealousy sets in, at which point will fuel the evil that girls can do--if she's that type of gal.

Hit it, and ask your pal to join in :)

oh yeah: pics or BAN!
 
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Originally posted by: MmmSkyscraper
He gets play cos he asks, unlike 99% of the YAGT posters.

Hey freedomsbeat212, what you doin' this weekend? ;)

Yeah, I aint got no shame.. Friday I'm going to probably party at Rififi or just drink at my favorite dive (Blue and Gold), Saturday I'm going to a party in Park Slope - join me if you'd like, I could always use another wingman!
 

amicold

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Originally posted by: Tuktuk
Hooking up = sex, not making out with her and convincing her to take her shirt off (good work on that though, kind of a wierd middle ground you got to there).

That is some weird middle ground. If the friend is just another female friend, go for it. Unless she's really that special to you, or you're that close with her. In which case I'd value the friend over the fvck.
 
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Originally posted by: zinfamous
Oh. I thought this was about the sister of a male friend...and if a serious friend, then this would be totally messed-up. The sister of a gal you dated? pshh. No biggie. If you guys haven't become huge friends then it's no biggie.

The only issue could occur if this gets a little more serious...the pal may realize something through her sister's feelings about you...maybe she missed out? why did she let you go? then the jealousy sets in, at which point will fuel the evil that girls can do--if she's that type of gal.

Hit it, and ask your pal to join in :)

oh yeah: pics or BAN!

Never dated the girl in question, just drunken post partying make out (and went a little beyond making out once). Yeah, I'm thinking obviously hitting on her would be bad, but if she digs me....

Pics.. Don't have any good pics of either of them, they're far cuter in person, but here are a few.. And a cell phone picture for people who'll say "you stole their pictures from myspace"
cell phone picture of my friend being goofy
Both of them
The sister
the friend (on the right)
 

zinfamous

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damn, you guys are children...here are the rules:

High school:
hooking up = making-out/fooling around

Adult:
hooking up = sex

There is a progression here, so if you're younger than highschool age, then hooking up = holding hands, or something lame....

You can gauge your maturity level by how you define "hooking up." These are rules. Accept them and get on with your life. :)
 

amicold

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Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Originally posted by: doze
go for the 3some

worse case scenario you are posting on ATOT about getting teh herp from a lollipop (oh wait...)

dUDE, IT'S HER SISTER! EWWW!

And, by "hook up" I mean that the shirt/bra got off and so did her pants, but aunt flow was cited as a reason to slow down.. sigh..

Ew, come on man. You should have asked for a rain check on that. Or nursed like an infant. Or wait, what the hell, why couldn't you move her into a position where you would be receiving fellatio?

Edit: OT but the girl on the left in the 'Friend on the right" pic is intimidating and scary.
 
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Originally posted by: amicold
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Originally posted by: doze
go for the 3some

worse case scenario you are posting on ATOT about getting teh herp from a lollipop (oh wait...)

dUDE, IT'S HER SISTER! EWWW!

And, by "hook up" I mean that the shirt/bra got off and so did her pants, but aunt flow was cited as a reason to slow down.. sigh..

Ew, come on man. You should have asked for a rain check on that. Or nursed like an infant. Or wait, what the hell, why couldn't you move her into a position where you would be receiving fellatio?

Who said that there was no nursing? As far as rainchecks go, you know, I thought we progressed to a place but then all seem to be lost afterwards. The conversation about having a "real date" threw things off, but I'm not crying over it... In fact, I'm considering hitting on her sister.
 

zinfamous

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Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Originally posted by: zinfamous
Oh. I thought this was about the sister of a male friend...and if a serious friend, then this would be totally messed-up. The sister of a gal you dated? pshh. No biggie. If you guys haven't become huge friends then it's no biggie.

The only issue could occur if this gets a little more serious...the pal may realize something through her sister's feelings about you...maybe she missed out? why did she let you go? then the jealousy sets in, at which point will fuel the evil that girls can do--if she's that type of gal.

Hit it, and ask your pal to join in :)

oh yeah: pics or BAN!

Never dated the girl in question, just drunken post partying make out (and went a little beyond making out once). Yeah, I'm thinking obviously hitting on her would be bad, but if she digs me....

Pics.. Don't have any good pics of either of them, they're far cuter in person, but here are a few.. And a cell phone picture for people who'll say "you stole their pictures from myspace"
cell phone picture of my friend being goofy
Both of them
The sister
the friend (on the right)


:thumbsup: you crack me up. have fun :) the chick on the right in the "both of them" pic is a total freak. I'm not sure based on the pics/captions...but I believe she's the friend? either way, get her in the sac pronto! you won't regret it....

GL to you, my man. *salute*

also, I bet she's friendly with other ladies too. you should inquire....
 

amicold

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Well as I outlined before if you don't deem the girl that valuable of a friend, you could be nailing the sister by next weekend. Do it, and nurse with the sister. And if the original sister of the sister asks any questions, tell her that her sister is wonderful, and that you wish to involve the two of them in a slightly incestuous ménage à trois.
 

MmmSkyscraper

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Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
join me if you'd like, I could always use another wingman!

Call me Goose :)

Maverick: This is what I call a target rich environment.
Goose: You live your life between your legs Mav.
Maverick: Goose, even you could get laid in a place like this.
Goose: Hell, I'd be happy to just find a girl that would talk dirty to me.

:laugh:
 
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Originally posted by: zinfamous
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Originally posted by: zinfamous
Oh. I thought this was about the sister of a male friend...and if a serious friend, then this would be totally messed-up. The sister of a gal you dated? pshh. No biggie. If you guys haven't become huge friends then it's no biggie.

The only issue could occur if this gets a little more serious...the pal may realize something through her sister's feelings about you...maybe she missed out? why did she let you go? then the jealousy sets in, at which point will fuel the evil that girls can do--if she's that type of gal.

Hit it, and ask your pal to join in :)

oh yeah: pics or BAN!

Never dated the girl in question, just drunken post partying make out (and went a little beyond making out once). Yeah, I'm thinking obviously hitting on her would be bad, but if she digs me....

Pics.. Don't have any good pics of either of them, they're far cuter in person, but here are a few.. And a cell phone picture for people who'll say "you stole their pictures from myspace"
cell phone picture of my friend being goofy
Both of them
The sister
the friend (on the right)


:thumbsup: you crack me up. have fun :) the chick on the right in the "both of them" pic is a total freak. I'm not sure based on the pics/captions...but I believe she's the friend? either way, get her in the sac pronto! you won't regret it....

GL to you, my man. *salute*

also, I bet she's friendly with other ladies too. you should inquire....

Ha, yes - she is a bit freaky, but honestly she's a sweet girl behind the freaky exterior. That what I dig most about her, the smart and funny soul lurking under a dismissable exterior. Her sister is more "normal" but not in a bad way, definitely the cute girl next door type.

For some reason my female friends rarely introduce me to their female friends. I'm like the guy they hang out alone with, probably because they talk smack about their other friends with me all the time... One friend always invites her really cute friends out but I make the horrible mistake of groping her when I'm drunk, leading the poor girl on and never doing anything about it... So hitting on her friends seem insensitive.
 
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Originally posted by: MmmSkyscraper
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
join me if you'd like, I could always use another wingman!

Call me Goose :)

Maverick: This is what I call a target rich environment.
Goose: You live your life between your legs Mav.
Maverick: Goose, even you could get laid in a place like this.
Goose: Hell, I'd be happy to just find a girl that would talk dirty to me.

:laugh:

Seriously, if you're new york based then let's make it happen. I'm not the selfish wingman, my wingers always get first dibs...And I'm oddly not shy about going up to a random girl for a friend though talking to a stranger i'm into intimidates the hell out of me. Yes, I've gotten lots of people laid... Sigh..
 
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ok, i'm about to go to sleep but figure I'll be friendly to the sister and, if flirting happens, so be it. I just won't be obvious about it and will not be the tool who makes out with her in front of my friend... Wish me luck!
 
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Originally posted by: MmmSkyscraper
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Seriously, if you're new york based then let's make it happen.

Small flaw in the plan, I live on the wrong continent :Q :(

Checked your profile - the U.K.? I love british women! Maybe we can work out long distance winging. How post modern!
 

kamikaze27

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Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Originally posted by: shortspanishguy
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Originally posted by: doze
go for the 3some

worse case scenario you are posting on ATOT about getting teh herp from a lollipop (oh wait...)

dUDE, IT'S HER SISTER! EWWW!

And, by "hook up" I mean that the shirt/bra got off and so did her pants, but aunt flow was cited as a reason to slow down.. sigh..

I would have just tried to bang her in the shower.

wish i was that smooth.. i was drunk and content with playing with her piercings

You what?! you got to her piercings and you stopped? I dont care if you were retarded, thats wayyyyeeee past the point of no return.
 
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Originally posted by: kamikaze27
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Originally posted by: shortspanishguy
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Originally posted by: doze
go for the 3some

worse case scenario you are posting on ATOT about getting teh herp from a lollipop (oh wait...)

dUDE, IT'S HER SISTER! EWWW!

And, by "hook up" I mean that the shirt/bra got off and so did her pants, but aunt flow was cited as a reason to slow down.. sigh..

I would have just tried to bang her in the shower.

wish i was that smooth.. i was drunk and content with playing with her piercings

You what?! you got to her piercings and you stopped? I dont care if you were retarded, thats wayyyyeeee past the point of no return.

Rape is SO 1997. She said no, I obliged. She was having her period, I completely understood and was not frustrated in any ways, I'm perhaps less horny then you.
 

lokiju

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I married my friends sister and we're still friends to this day (even more so really)