YAGT: Flirting with a friend's (female) sister

[slackerinabox]

Originally posted by: davestar

Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212

Originally posted by: MmmSkyscraper
He gets play cos he asks, unlike 99% of the YAGT posters.

Hey freedomsbeat212, what you doin' this weekend?

Yeah, I aint got no shame.. Friday I'm going to probably party at Rififi or just drink at my favorite dive (Blue and Gold), Saturday I'm going to a party in Park Slope - join me if you'd like, I could always use another wingman!

wtf. that's my dive bar of choice up in NYC, though it's getting more and more crowded lately

I love that place. Ellie (the blonde bartender) is really sweet too and sneaks a comp when she can and Ryan saved my iPod for me, which another dude would have pocketed.

 

[dmcowen674]

Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212

Originally posted by: dmcowen674

Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
I recently met a friend of mine's sister, who I find to be a cute and charming girl. I invited the both of them out again this weekend and wonder how taboo making a move on the sister would be. I've hooked up with the friend a while ago but never got past drunken, topless making out, so I gave up on her and are now just good friends. Would making a move on her sister be in bad taste?

No pics

shens and ban :thumbsdown:

There are pics..find them.. or not

Supposed to put them in the OP.

 

[MmmSkyscraper]

Originally posted by: dmcowen674
Supposed to put them in the OP.

Supposed to read the thread too?

 

[Gillbot]

Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212

Originally posted by: doze
go for the 3some

worse case scenario you are posting on ATOT about getting teh herp from a lollipop (oh wait...)

dUDE, IT'S HER SISTER! EWWW!

And, by "hook up" I mean that the shirt/bra got off and so did her pants, but aunt flow was cited as a reason to slow down.. sigh..

 

[zinfamous]

Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212

Originally posted by: zinfamous

Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212

Originally posted by: zinfamous
Oh. I thought this was about the sister of a male friend...and if a serious friend, then this would be totally messed-up. The sister of a gal you dated? pshh. No biggie. If you guys haven't become huge friends then it's no biggie.

The only issue could occur if this gets a little more serious...the pal may realize something through her sister's feelings about you...maybe she missed out? why did she let you go? then the jealousy sets in, at which point will fuel the evil that girls can do--if she's that type of gal.

Hit it, and ask your pal to join in

oh yeah: pics or BAN!

Never dated the girl in question, just drunken post partying make out (and went a little beyond making out once). Yeah, I'm thinking obviously hitting on her would be bad, but if she digs me....

Pics.. Don't have any good pics of either of them, they're far cuter in person, but here are a few.. And a cell phone picture for people who'll say "you stole their pictures from myspace"
cell phone picture of my friend being goofy
Both of them
The sister
the friend (on the right)

:thumbsup: you crack me up. have fun the chick on the right in the "both of them" pic is a total freak. I'm not sure based on the pics/captions...but I believe she's the friend? either way, get her in the sac pronto! you won't regret it....

GL to you, my man. *salute*

also, I bet she's friendly with other ladies too. you should inquire....

Ha, yes - she is a bit freaky, but honestly she's a sweet girl behind the freaky exterior. That what I dig most about her, the smart and funny soul lurking under a dismissable exterior. Her sister is more "normal" but not in a bad way, definitely the cute girl next door type.

For some reason my female friends rarely introduce me to their female friends. I'm like the guy they hang out alone with, probably because they talk smack about their other friends with me all the time... One friend always invites her really cute friends out but I make the horrible mistake of groping her when I'm drunk, leading the poor girl on and never doing anything about it... So hitting on her friends seem insensitive.

you sound like a friend of mine I envy you your drunken groping. Funny thing is, if you're good friends, most girls I've encountered tend to shrug off this behavior from their male friends. funny....

 

[zinfamous]

Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212

Originally posted by: DaShen

Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212

Originally posted by: shortspanishguy
your friend could C block you.

that seems like a given, but I could always get her drunk first!

WTH!!!!!! :|

How can you say that with a clear conscience?

**EDIT**
I am sorry but saying something like that makes me want to beat you. Not that it would ever happen, BUT WTH!!!!!

I was just joking, I understand how the comment was inflamatory but I was just kidding. I'm sorry - I'd never get a girl drunk just to hook up with her sister. I'd get her stoned too! Just kidding, just kidding.

don't listen to these people. this is just how things happen in the real world (once they move out of mommy's basement, they *may realize this). No tthat the behavior is intentional, and not that the lady in question is ever unwilling (you appear to have an aversion to rape, which is good), just uninhibited. most of these self-righteous ATers think that all women are pure and innocent, and the dude is the only one in the position to take advantage in this situation. cry me a river, donny osmond......

 

[yllus]

Originally posted by: minendo

Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212

Originally posted by: minendo

Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
P.S. I haven't posted about my film work in months but, since you mentioned it, I was hired as an Avid editor for a non-profit and as the a.d. for a feature film, all based on my past work.. Thank you very much..

You made a thread not more than a week ago pimpin' your new work and asking about legalities. Furthermore, your YAGT's are nothing but posts showing what new ugly chick you found on myspace and sent an email to. The only sex you have had is whacking off to the short film Macbaine made for you years ago.

Man, you have so much hate for a person you know nothing about. Really, you should grow up and get a life. Or meet me in NYC so me and my friends can stomp the sh1t out of your face, to just end your pittiful life...

Would you make some gay movie about it Mr. tough guy?

LOL

These threads are way, way too funny. Gotta love the constant use of Myspace and Flickr photos, the way you're never in them, and now the hilarious way you're so generously offering to 'wingman' for other forumgoers. You're very lucky that the majority of people here are even more clueless and less exposed to the opposite sex than you are.

 

[slackerinabox]

Originally posted by: yllus

Originally posted by: minendo

Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212

Originally posted by: minendo

Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
P.S. I haven't posted about my film work in months but, since you mentioned it, I was hired as an Avid editor for a non-profit and as the a.d. for a feature film, all based on my past work.. Thank you very much..

You made a thread not more than a week ago pimpin' your new work and asking about legalities. Furthermore, your YAGT's are nothing but posts showing what new ugly chick you found on myspace and sent an email to. The only sex you have had is whacking off to the short film Macbaine made for you years ago.

Man, you have so much hate for a person you know nothing about. Really, you should grow up and get a life. Or meet me in NYC so me and my friends can stomp the sh1t out of your face, to just end your pittiful life...

Would you make some gay movie about it Mr. tough guy?

LOL

These threads are way, way too funny. Gotta love the constant use of Myspace and Flickr photos, the way you're never in them, and now the hilarious way you're so generously offering to 'wingman' for other forumgoers. You're very lucky that the majority of people here are even more clueless and less exposed to the opposite sex than you are.

Oye.. Here, proof through six degree of seperation (ok, 2).
Picture of that friend
Picture of another friend, taken that day with same camera in the same joint
Picture of me and that friend, taken with the same camera

 

[yllus]

Yeah, I believe you now. A picture of a girl who doesn't look like any of the above and with you not in it. :roll:

Edit: Oh, I see. Two random pictures ganked off Myspace, and another picture of you with a girl who looks like nobody else in this thread. Great proof!

 

[slackerinabox]

Originally posted by: yllus
Yeah, I believe you now. A picture of a girl who doesn't look like any of the above and with you not in it. :roll:

reread the thread

 

[Foadbot]

i dont know about you, but i prefer to flirt with female sisters. it tends to be less confusing in the long run

 

[minendo]

Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212

Originally posted by: yllus
Yeah, I believe you now. A picture of a girl who doesn't look like any of the above and with you not in it. :roll:

reread the thread

Your posts still suck and are BS.

 

[slackerinabox]

Bored out of my mind, updating my YAGTS on 2/23/07
Update : Had a long talk with the friend, a serious one. She said she did not want to be in a relationship with ANYONE, and that it wasn't me. SO, I took that as a clue and invited her sister out again to my birthday party, she's coming. I'll just continue to be nice to her and perhaps hit on her while dancing, or maybe not.

 

[slackerinabox]

Update

She came to my birthday and had a miserable time - the loft party we went to was very much not her scene. She left, acting very pissy, so much so that her sister apologized. I sent her an email apologizing that the place wasn't her cup of tea and invited her out to a drink, adding that she could pick the place. She replied:

Thanks, Sam. You're very sweet. I'm sorry I was a bitch and left, I'm super crazy. But anyway, I would like to hang out sometime again. I'll let you know when is good for me.

So I'll be hanging out with her solo the first time, without her sister. Don't know where this is heading but thought I'd update you guys anyways.


Picture of her and her sister from my birthday, since everyone calls shens on me!

 

[Kromis]

Dude...freedomsbeat...

I swear to God...you are a freakin' P.I.M.P. !!!!

How do you get your way with the ladies?!?!

 

[slackerinabox]

Originally posted by: Kromis
Dude...freedomsbeat...

I swear to God...you are a freakin' P.I.M.P. !!!!

How do you get your way with the ladies?!?!

I have balls, I guess. Makes meeting girls/talking to them easy, but the 2nd or 3rd date is where I always get stuck..

 

[JulesMaximus]

YAGT: Flirting with a friend's (female) sister

As opposed to flirting with her (male) sister?

BTW-Who's the dork in the black leather jacket with the uni-brow?

 

[slackerinabox]

Originally posted by: minendo

Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212

Originally posted by: yllus
Yeah, I believe you now. A picture of a girl who doesn't look like any of the above and with you not in it. :roll:

reread the thread

Your posts still suck and are BS.

Thank you, thank you very much...

 

[Accipiter22]

I heart ATOT.

 

[slackerinabox]

Originally posted by: JulesMaximus

YAGT: Flirting with a friend's (female) sister

As opposed to flirting with her (male) sister?

BTW-Who's the dork in the black leather jacket with the uni-brow?

Hah, my brother in law! He's an awesome guy.

 

[slackerinabox]

Originally posted by: JulesMaximus

YAGT: Flirting with a friend's (female) sister

As opposed to flirting with her (male) sister? ?

Yeah, I've done that before - it's awkward, for everyone involved!

 

[slackerinabox]

Bump for the people who called shens on me when I originally posted this!

 

[MercenaryForHire]

Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Update

She came to my birthday and had a miserable time - the loft party we went to was very much not her scene. She left, acting very pissy, so much so that her sister apologized. I sent her an email apologizing that the place wasn't her cup of tea and invited her out to a drink, adding that she could pick the place. She replied:

Thanks, Sam. You're very sweet. I'm sorry I was a bitch and left, I'm super crazy. But anyway, I would like to hang out sometime again. I'll let you know when is good for me.

So I'll be hanging out with her solo the first time, without her sister. Don't know where this is heading but thought I'd update you guys anyways.


Picture of her and her sister from my birthday, since everyone calls shens on me!

See bolded line. You're not "hanging out with her," that's "her leaving you hanging"

- M4H

 

[slackerinabox]

Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire

Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Update

She came to my birthday and had a miserable time - the loft party we went to was very much not her scene. She left, acting very pissy, so much so that her sister apologized. I sent her an email apologizing that the place wasn't her cup of tea and invited her out to a drink, adding that she could pick the place. She replied:

Thanks, Sam. You're very sweet. I'm sorry I was a bitch and left, I'm super crazy. But anyway, I would like to hang out sometime again. I'll let you know when is good for me.

So I'll be hanging out with her solo the first time, without her sister. Don't know where this is heading but thought I'd update you guys anyways.


Picture of her and her sister from my birthday, since everyone calls shens on me!

See bolded line. You're not "hanging out with her," that's "her leaving you hanging"

- M4H

Ha, to be fair - I said "Since you hated the last place, you pick the time and place". And she replied at like 3 in the morning, probably too tired to make firm plans.

 

[MercenaryForHire]

Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Ha, to be fair - I said "Since you hated the last place, you pick the time and place". And she replied at like 3 in the morning, probably too tired to make firm plans.

When a girl replies (not even in voice, or even a text-message, but email) that "she'll let you know" ... that's what's commonly referred to as a "brush-off."

- M4H