aren't you glad you didn't listen to the first "just dump her" posts? i'd say about 90% if all relationship problems stem from miscommunication, and i'm just glad you the commitment to get all this worked out.
aren't you glad you didn't listen to the first "just dump her" posts? i'd say about 90% if all relationship problems stem from miscommunication, and i'm just glad you the commitment to get all this worked out.
Originally posted by: Skoorb
Zero with her
Our advice was sound, regardless of her motivations. She's no business being engaged to anybody until she grows out of the diapers, but I said my piece already earlier
but she never did nothing. Why me leave her? (me drunky againy)
I've been in the exact same situation. It didn't end nicely. Get out of this relationship NOW and save yourself a lot of pain and torment.
does the poll mean how much would I spend to be with my g/f or how much should you spend to be with yours cause those are 2 completely different answers....
Originally posted by: Skoorb
Zero with herOur advice was sound, regardless of her motivations. She's no business being engaged to anybody until she grows out of the diapers, but I said my piece already earlier
Originally posted by: Lazy8s
does the poll mean how much would I spend to be with my g/f or how much should you spend to be with yours cause those are 2 completely different answers....
Originally posted by: Skoorb
Zero with herOur advice was sound, regardless of her motivations. She's no business being engaged to anybody until she grows out of the diapers, but I said my piece already earlier
How much would you spend to be on the same flight as your S.O. You would be flying back the same day and everything, the only question is whether you fly together or spend 16 hours sitting next to someone else.
I don't think she's cheating on you and that she's trying to get you to not go out and drink. She's willing to do the same thing and by her saying what she might do. I guess she's trying to get you to understand her point of view, like putting you in her shoes. To be honest, if I heard that from my girl, I'll be going off. At the same time, why would she tell you what she's doing if she's planning to cheat on you.
Originally posted by: Doboji
Wait wait wait.... SO are you cheatin on your GF or not?
-Max
Not, what made you think i could be?
I might see it that way had she been in the country. But our communication was almost non-existant, i can understand her frustration with everything and doing what she did. We talked about it and she understands why i was so pissed. We are fine now, and she has seen the error of her ways.
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Originally posted by: PingSpike
Originally posted by: KEV1N
Just read the update. My opinion still stands, DUMP HER. You will never do something when you're drunk that you wouldn't do anyways... it's just an easy excuse
That letter reaffirmed my suspicions more than anything. That letter was even more damning than the phone call. If thats the best she could come up with while sober and in a medium like a letter that allows you to unsay stupid things easily, then its pretty clear the letter only existed to absolve herself from any guilt she has for lack of ability to be faithful. Others are right when they read between the lines here. Women are never upfront about anything, certainly not about a touchy subject like boning some other guy...she's covering all this up with her pseudo-hypothetical horsesh|t. On some level in her own mind, she's trying to make this YOUR fault so SHE doesn't have to take responsibility for HER fvck up.
Whether or not she cheated on you here is irrelevant. She has displayed that given mild stressors on your relationship, stressors that ALL relationships will INEVITIABLLY have to endure at some point in their existance she will fail. A chain is only as good as its weakest link, and she's a really sh|tty, gonna-bust-at-any-damn-minute link in your chain.
Drinking doesn't make you do things you normally wouldn't do. Thats a cop out for weak people who's resolve would have failed anyway. They blame the alcohol because that way they don't have to blame themselves. Don't let her get away with trying to use that bullsh|t on you.
BINGO!
She's allowed to screw up, but she ever tries to pull that crap again, or some thing analagous(that can't be how you spell that) and it's hasta la vista, baby.
Latest UPDATE!!!! I got the tickets, $50 extra to fly with her, already got the seats next to her. WOOT!!!!
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