It's not a tough choice, because you know what she is going to do. The question is: do you want her to do these things while you are together and find out after-the-fact, or do you want to let her do it on her own so you are free to be with whomever you want.
I really don't think you have a choice in this, but you're making it your choice. Based on what she's said, she's made her intent clear.
Just make sure she understands that you won't wait around for her nor will you be inclined to take her back if she leaves. You won't (and don't want to) know how many d!cks hit her up.
With that said, make it clear that if she even thinks about cheating, you'll kick her to the curb. The rest is up to her.
Edit: Oh yeah, good luck.
With that said, make it clear that if she even thinks about cheating, you'll kick her to the curb. The rest is up to her.
Edit: Oh yeah, good luck.
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Originally posted by: sygyzy
Originally posted by: Azurik
Guys guys guys, I told you. It's the style... no props wanted
Sorry, you are going to get it. The style? WHAT style?
I am thinking about making up a secret wink or hand signal. Basically a not-too-obvious "high five" when I see pimps like you out with your great white catch. If I ever cross you and the girl at a public place, watch for the move. It'll be sly but you'll know it when you see it.
HAHAHAHA, come to the East Coast and we can do that!
you're loaded and you just graduated? what do you do?
as for the girl, you gotta let her go for a year and date other guys. Because how do you really know you had a good thing unless you have something else to compare it against?
as for the girl, you gotta let her go for a year and date other guys. Because how do you really know you had a good thing unless you have something else to compare it against?
Aharami
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i agree. you really have yo let her go. if you dont, she will be blaming you for the rest of her life. But then again, if you let her go, you are giving her the ok to fvuk other guys. The fact alone that she wants some freedom to see what else is out there says tons about her. Yea she might be a very nice girl, but that's one aspect of her that I cant overlook. If she is happy already, why does she need to see whats out there? What, she wants to see if she can be happier? If thats the case, she'll never be happy with how happy she is and will always be looking.
But then again, it can work out for you...if you play the ignorance card. My friend and his gf started going out in soph year in HS. come soph year in college, she wanted her freedom and broke up with him. crushed his heart but he had to let her go. she went out, drank, partied, (maybe) hooked up with other boys and probably even slept with a few. Actually I KNOW she slept with one but I found out waaaay too late to even bring it up. Then she realized that noone else can treat her the way my friend treats her...and asked if she can have a 2nd chance. My friend played the ignorance card and refused to believe that she might ever have hooked up with other guys during their break. He told himself that she just went out with her girlies and did her thing with them. He took her back and now they are stronger than ever. But sometimes I wonder what he'd do if he found out all the stuff she (maybe) did while they were apart.
I think her breaking up with him once actually made him a stronger man.
HardcoreRobot
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