- Jan 23, 2002
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Originally posted by: ggnl
LOL @ the thread hijacking
But seriously, it sounds as if the decision is up to her at this point. All you can do is prepare yourself for it to go either way.
Just be aware that most people in your situation end up breaking up again. It sounds as if she's still pretty uncertain about how she wants to proceed, so my only advice is that you should not emotionally invest too much in the relationship until she gets over her reservations.
Maybe I shouldn't have put naked anywhere. Haha, now it's too much unnecessary attention.
Let her go man. But you cannot take her back. If she feels like she needs to bang other guys but she doesn't down the line she will blame you for the shvt that erupts. But if she leaves you and bangs other guys - well would you want to stick it in where a whole lot of dirty college kids have been? I've noticed white chicks and korean chicks are all about me me me, my needs, buy me this shvt (korean), i want to hump that guy (white chick), blah blah. The feminists have made the perfect girl an endangered species. Find yourself a FOB that has some real values.
PS she's hot. props for the white chick. i went through the whole white chick fetish and dated some hot white chicks (i'm asian) and i've noticed they are psycho horny bvtches that are self serving and all they want to do is fk fk fk (other people included). tried to tame a few but the korean wife beater thing doesn't work on them.
PS she's hot. props for the white chick. i went through the whole white chick fetish and dated some hot white chicks (i'm asian) and i've noticed they are psycho horny bvtches that are self serving and all they want to do is fk fk fk (other people included). tried to tame a few but the korean wife beater thing doesn't work on them.
then there is a glimmer of hope. however, there is still a chance she will blame you for watever when she decides in the future that she didn't "live life" or some mid-life crisis bullcrap like that. i have no idea wat your gf is like and i'm not saying she's a psycho horny bvtch like the ones i've dated, but sounds like symptoms.
are you guys gonna be long distance when she's at college?
PS i also notice white chicks get really fat as they get old. is her mom fat?
The ball is in her court. It is up to her to make a decision and whatever she decides, you should be ready to accept it. If she herself said that she may be throwing away a good thing then I guess there is nothing you or I can do about it. However, if she does leave you, don't take her back. She shouldn't have thrown away the good thing she had in the first place. I guess to some extent you get to see how truly mature she is. She is willing to throw away a good thing for a couple bangs.
On the other hand, if she DOES decide to stay with you, then you need to evaluate how much you trust her. The last thing you would want is her to cheat on you. From this point on you will always have a seed planted in the back of your mind as to whether she is being loyal to you or not. Get what I mean?
As I said though, the decision is in her hands. Option 1 and your life is easier (but it will hurt to lose her) or option 2 and you will be faced with a decision yourself (but you'll still have her).
On the other hand, if she DOES decide to stay with you, then you need to evaluate how much you trust her. The last thing you would want is her to cheat on you. From this point on you will always have a seed planted in the back of your mind as to whether she is being loyal to you or not. Get what I mean?
As I said though, the decision is in her hands. Option 1 and your life is easier (but it will hurt to lose her) or option 2 and you will be faced with a decision yourself (but you'll still have her).
- Jan 23, 2002
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LOL, I like your blunt questions Kalibi.
#1. We're not going to be long distance. College is only 45 minutes away from me, and my brother attends the same college so I'll probably be up here and there. She's also doing an internship her entire first semester, close to my house. Rather than commuting one hour there and one hour back, we have talked about her staying over at times.
#2. Her mom is not fat. Tall though, like 5'10. She weighs probably around 160. My girlfriend weighs 125.
OK you are in the clear with her becoming a fat lard.
Hypnotik nailed it. even if she decides to stay with you, you know that you guys went through this because she wanted to bang some other guy. Let's not kid ourselves, when a girl says she wants a break and wants to experience college, it's euphemism for i went to a party with the girls the other night and a really hot guy hit on me but i didn't want to bj him bc i am still with you and bc i'm a selfish bvtch i'm going to tell you we're on a break so i can give the next hot guy a bj but still have you around after i'm done playing so i don't feel bad inside or feel like i cheated.
girls aren't smart enough to just come up with an epiphany; "oh wow i just realized i want to sleep with other guys." no, they get hit on by some horny douche frat boy, and then realizes she wants to "live life."
damn, and i thought korean girls was drama...
sixone
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What does she mean by 'live it up'? Going clubbing every weekend, and banging strangers in the bathroom? You need to be real clear on what exactly she wants to happen here. That will tell you more about her than any psychobabble BS.
I recommend that you tell her to go do whatever she wants, but not with the expectation that you'll be pining for her in the background. She may find that you've moved on when she wants you back. If she wants you back.
I recommend that you tell her to go do whatever she wants, but not with the expectation that you'll be pining for her in the background. She may find that you've moved on when she wants you back. If she wants you back.
Yeah, that's basically what I was thinking. How much more does she want to 'live it up?' She's got a good bf, she's going to University, I assume she has a lot of friends so what the fvck more does she want?
I honestly don't understand women. There are people that would KILL to have it as good as she does, yet she is unsatisfied.
Edit: Yeah, I'm making a lot of assumptions here, but my point still remains valid.
yea and he's loaded up the ass which = lots of presents and free vacations. why would anyone want to give that up? she won't completely break him off cause he's her chance at a comfortable life. "live it up" = bang the frat boys at college
haha you knew it was coming though. i'm glad to hear you are pre-nup king too. we bring it up bc it's a HUGE factor in whether a girl wants to keep you around or not. good luck with that and keep us updated. if it doesn't work out move to socal and find an asian girl.
- Jan 23, 2002
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Thanks bud, I'll keep you guys posted. If anyone else wants to chime in, feel free.
As with the prenup, that has been my position before money was an issue to me. If things are fine and dandy, that would never be summoned for use. Girls think prenup means my money, when really all I want is to give her her fair share and not to be ripped off in the court system. Whatever "we" made during the marriage, I'll spilt with you. Money beforehand, inheritance, retirement savings for myself = mine.
If you try to keep her, eventually she will want to cheat or break up with you to experiment with other people. It's normal and it will happen.
If you let her go now, you can part on good terms. If you stay and she cheats, then you'll part on bad terms.
If I were you, I'd let her go and date other people. Encourage her to see other people like she wants, but don't wait around for her. You must be clear on this. Let her know you're seeing other girls and if she wants you back, she'll come. If not, atleast you're not wasting your life waiting for her.
If you let her go now, you can part on good terms. If you stay and she cheats, then you'll part on bad terms.
If I were you, I'd let her go and date other people. Encourage her to see other people like she wants, but don't wait around for her. You must be clear on this. Let her know you're seeing other girls and if she wants you back, she'll come. If not, atleast you're not wasting your life waiting for her.
sygyzy
Lifer
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Originally posted by: Azurik
Guys guys guys, I told you. It's the style... no props wanted
Sorry, you are going to get it. The style? WHAT style?
I am thinking about making up a secret wink or hand signal. Basically a not-too-obvious "high five" when I see pimps like you out with your great white catch. If I ever cross you and the girl at a public place, watch for the move. It'll be sly but you'll know it when you see it.
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