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YAGT: Cancel one date for another? *update + pics*
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you got 1 of 2 options. call #2 and tell her you are sorry blah blah and you have to cancell...make some BS excuse and make SURE that she wont see you out tonight. yes, this would make you seem desperate, but it also makes you able to say "i dropped everything for you tonight" line that is always a good thing to drop. usually if you word it right and emotionally you can get some.
2nd option is to tell girl #1 that you are sorry you cant go out tonight and maybe this weekend. you already made previous plans and you arent the type of guy that would break his word with someone. this way, both stances helps you. you still have potential with girl #2 tonight and then girl #1 is pissed for not going out, but respects you for not breaking plans because she wouldnt want it to be done to her. also, this could show girl #1 that you are wanted individual and she will hump your bones sooner...always a plus!
2nd option is to tell girl #1 that you are sorry you cant go out tonight and maybe this weekend. you already made previous plans and you arent the type of guy that would break his word with someone. this way, both stances helps you. you still have potential with girl #2 tonight and then girl #1 is pissed for not going out, but respects you for not breaking plans because she wouldnt want it to be done to her. also, this could show girl #1 that you are wanted individual and she will hump your bones sooner...always a plus!
In a situation such as this, you must keep in mind Murphy's Law. "If anything can go wrong, it will". Essentially, assume that you WILL run into Girl #2 while on the date with Gril #1, in which case all hope is lost with Girl #2.
That being said, now you must evaluate which girl is more likely to give you action. From what little you said in the OP, Girl #1 seems to want to hang out with you, while I assume you asked out Girl #2 out on a date. Unless my assumption is wrong, I am led to believe that you want Girl #2. However, you did mention that you barely knew her (which shouldn't be an issue because you go out on dates to get to know the other person better), but you did mention that she spooks you out.
Chances are, you won't be getting action from Girl #1. You played (Edit: Pool) drunk with her and didn't get any action on the table? That's a perfect setup right there to get some poon. You did mention that you found Girl #1 more attractive, which gives her another point. As it stands, here are the point totals.
Girl #1 -> Cuter (+1), Wants to hang out with you (+1), No action while playing pool drunk (-1) = 1
Girl #2 -> You asked her out? (+1), Spooks you out (-1), Go out with her and play hard to get with Girl # 1 (+1) = 1
You -> Fvcked (Game Over)
That being said, now you must evaluate which girl is more likely to give you action. From what little you said in the OP, Girl #1 seems to want to hang out with you, while I assume you asked out Girl #2 out on a date. Unless my assumption is wrong, I am led to believe that you want Girl #2. However, you did mention that you barely knew her (which shouldn't be an issue because you go out on dates to get to know the other person better), but you did mention that she spooks you out.
Chances are, you won't be getting action from Girl #1. You played (Edit: Pool) drunk with her and didn't get any action on the table? That's a perfect setup right there to get some poon. You did mention that you found Girl #1 more attractive, which gives her another point. As it stands, here are the point totals.
Girl #1 -> Cuter (+1), Wants to hang out with you (+1), No action while playing pool drunk (-1) = 1
Girl #2 -> You asked her out? (+1), Spooks you out (-1), Go out with her and play hard to get with Girl # 1 (+1) = 1
You -> Fvcked (Game Over)
slackerinabox
Lifer
Yeah, you're right. I just sent girl #1 this text message:
"ack! save me! I'm really not in the mood to hang out with Penn [girl #2] but I can;'t flake on her. I already know that I love spending time with you so join us if you can."
I'm not sure if that's the smartest "move" but at least I'm being honest, right?
seriously....girl 1 asked you out. It is very bad to say no to a girl who asks you out.
You already asked girl 2 out and that right there gives the power back to her. So flake on her and resheduling on your terms would take the power back.
I would suggest having them both meet you out and not telling them they will both be there but I am unsure you are prepared to handle this scenario.
LOL, I think if the girl your originally had plans with knew you were going to bring another girl along, she'd rather have you flake. You seem pretty shallow and stupid. You think you're doing this girl a favor by not breaking the date but bringing along another girl? You don't deserve either of them....
One time I had a movie date with my ex gf's friend and the ex came back home the day before (she was going to school out of state) and we hung out the whole day. The next day she asked me to come over so of course I did. I called to cancel the movie date with the friend and while she didn't sound too upset on the phone she hasn't spoken to me since(about 4 years). So uh, what's the lesson here? Fvck if I know.
Exactly...
And BTW...do what you want to do. If you don't care to burn a bridge to two (and sounds like you wouldn't care to burn bridge to girl #2) then cancel your date with girl #1.
Or take them both out as mentioned above...your not dating girl #2, right? So you can bring a closer friends with you on the outing. What is uncool though, is you should not get overly flirty with girl #1 in the presence of girl #2...that'll just make #2 feel like a 3rd wheel.
wtf....don't ask her to join and don't say you love spending time with her. come on, you barely know her. go on original date as intended and go out with the other girl on another night. it shows that you wont drop everything in a heartbeat for her but still shows you are interested.
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