YAGT: Brunch with a girl I barely know

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slackerinabox

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Not really a YAGT thread but a question about social ettiquette, I guess. So there's this girl I met at an audition who found me on myspace (yeah, shut up) who I've only really seen in the really real world 3 times, in professional situations. Not a close friend by any stretch of the word, but we've kept casual conversations going and, yes, I find her very attractive and have a bit of a crush on her.

Then, after being bored and feeling like a wuss, I decided to email her, saying that we should hang out to just catch up and such. She replies saying that we should do brunch...

Now, I don't usually get nervous but I'm feeling anxious. No, I don't think this girl has any feelings for me - she's way out of my league and she doesn't really know me. I just don't want to make an ass out of myself. Any suggestions? Should I just flake out since I'm so nervous?


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loup garou

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Brunch is good for one thing...getting loaded in the morning. Go someplace with drink specials, drink a lot, take her back to your place.
 
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Garet Jax

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God no.

Never assume that a girl is out of your league, because then she is.

Go for brunch and pursue the friend route. That is normally how guys over achieve any way.
 
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rgwalt

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Don't flake out! Go to brunch, talk, eat, have a good time.

Don't talk with your mouth full, take a shower before you go.

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randay

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I heard they like confidence or something like that. If shes super hot maybe shes one of those girls that nobody ever tries for, play your cards right and you could be that fat ugly guy with the hot chick that everyone says WTF, well you know what I mean.
 
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slackerinabox

Lifer
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Originally posted by: tfinch2
I thought you were going to eat that other girl out, or was that someone else.
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that's another girl.. i would NEVER approach a girl like brunch girl with such a question...
 
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slackerinabox

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Originally posted by: randay
play your cards right and you could be that fat ugly guy with the hot chick that everyone says WTF, well you know what I mean.
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Hah, that's my life story...but that takes sooo much effort and patience! Though I really don't think I have a chance in the world with this girl... I'll try the calm and confident approach just to get her on the friend plane, right/ since having hot friends usually attracts other hot girls, right? wait, i have hot friends- they just intimidate other girls and cling onto you even though they're not interested in you that way.. oye.
 
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Originally posted by: Garet Jax
God no.

Never assume that a girl is out of your league, because then she is.

Go for brunch and pursue the friend route. That is normally how guys over achieve any way.
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QFT. Girls catch onto such things. Many girls find confidence to be just as sexy as looks (From what I hear). You're only out of her league if you think so.

As far as being nervous, do whatever you can not to be. Go out and have a good time. If you're going to be nervous, try the "there's something about mary" solution and don't go out with a loaded gun.
 
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slackerinabox

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Originally posted by: bigrash
for someone who has no time on their hands, you sure post a lot of YAGTs.
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I have time at work to post, oddly enough.. i told her I couldn't meet up until after the 4th (after the move that's keeping me swamped), which is for when she suggested brunch..

 
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zebano

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CONFIDENCE. If you don't believe in yourself, then who will?

Oh yeah, good luck.
 
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slackerinabox

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Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
i find it best to always operate on the assumption that every girl you encounter really wants you.
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haha.. what drug could I use to be totally irrational?
 
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