YAGT - Asked someone out....now for the rest of the story!

[Shame]

Mail her a fruitcake, 40 or 50 pics of her in public places, and some rope. The ladies love it...

 

[SaigonK]

Originally posted by: brunswickite

Originally posted by: SaigonK
call already dammit! I hate the wait, followed by the obvious let down!

make sure you do not call her again, no matter what. if you already called 2 times with no response, ball is in her court, wait it out.

Actually, i have only called her once, on Thursday during the afternoon.
I can wait, just anxious to know either way.

 

[SaigonK]

Originally posted by: Shame
Mail her a fruitcake, 40 or 50 pics of her in public places, and some rope. The ladies love it...

I was thinking I could also include a piece of her clothing..or perhaps a lock of hair..that would add a nice touch.

 

[bleeb]

dont' call her anymore dawg. two times is enough.... anymore and it might seem like you are a stalker.

 

[brunswickite]

Originally posted by: bleeb
dont' call her anymore dawg. two times is enough.... anymore and it might seem like you are a stalker.

yea I agree, you dont want her to get the impression that your a stalker Yet.

 

[Shame]

Originally posted by: SaigonK

Originally posted by: Shame
Mail her a fruitcake, 40 or 50 pics of her in public places, and some rope. The ladies love it...

I was thinking I could also include a piece of her clothing..or perhaps a lock of hair..that would add a nice touch.

Good idea. The ladies love persistence as well. I'd send this package everyday.

 

[froke]

Called more than once, left a message (!?!?!), showed concern for her mother IN A MESSAGE !?!

Man, you are on the road to the dreaded friend-zone

 

[SaigonK]

Originally posted by: bleeb
dont' call her anymore dawg. two times is enough.... anymore and it might seem like you are a stalker.

I have only caller her ONCE guys. Only one time!

 

[MrDudeMan]

keep us updated

 

[SmoochyTX]

WTG SaigonK! :beer:

Just remember when she calls that you don't answer on the first ring.

 

[SaigonK]

So it's now 1:02AM EST and no call back, I would like to think it is due to her mom having knee surger, but of course I feel the worst.
Maybe its the beers talking, I did just get home from the bars ......

Anywho! Something about this girl peaks my interest...and I think I have narrowed it down to her smile..it lights up the room, she is pretty and all, but the smile and giggle do it all for me..call me a crazy romantic, but I think some things other than looks make a difference...

Back to waiting for the call!

 

[raanemaan]

Originally posted by: bleeb
dont' call her anymore dawg. two times is enough.... anymore and it might seem like you are a stalker.

Just find out where she lives and spend all your time outside her house. Women love men who are determined. :laugh:

 

[JulesMaximus]

Originally posted by: SaigonK
So it's now 1:02AM EST and no call back, I would like to think it is due to her mom having knee surger, but of course I feel the worst.
Maybe its the beers talking, I did just get home from the bars ......

Anywho! Something about this girl peaks my interest...and I think I have narrowed it down to her smile..it lights up the room, she is pretty and all, but the smile and giggle do it all for me..call me a crazy romantic, but I think some things other than looks make a difference...

Back to waiting for the call!

You're waiting for a call at 1AM? Dude, don't hold your breath.

 

[SaigonK]

Wasnt waiting for it, so much as disappointed it didnt come in earlier in the day. Ah well, such is the life of dating right?
If she decides to call fine, if not..fine. Either way i am proud that i actually got the nerve to call her up and ask her out....that was a pretty big deal for me.

 

[SaigonK]

Originally posted by: raanemaan

Originally posted by: bleeb
dont' call her anymore dawg. two times is enough.... anymore and it might seem like you are a stalker.

Just find out where she lives and spend all your time outside her house. Women love men who are determined. :laugh:

The amount of stalking advice I have gotten is sure to guarantee me some time in prison. LOL!

 

[IBuyUFO]

Forget dating! Just get a mail order bride

 

[SaigonK]

Originally posted by: IBuyUFO
Forget dating! Just get a mail order bride

Russia here I come! HAHAHA!

 

[SaigonK]

And a bump for an update...well a "no call" update.
Sorry guys, but this one doesnt look to be happening.

 

[apac]

:beer:


On second thought, :beer:x10

 

[Kremlar]

NEVER leave a voice mail when trying to make first contact.

And NEVER NEVER ask a person out on voice mail.

 

[JoeKing]

Call again on Wed and say somthing like "I heard your mother had surgery, I was just calling to see how things were going" then after some chit chat ask her to if she wants to go out on Fri for somthing.

Don't give up after one call to a machine.

 

[SaigonK]

Originally posted by: JoeKing
Call again on Wed and say somthing like "I heard your mother had surgery, I was just calling to see how things were going" then after some chit chat ask her to if she wants to go out on Fri for somthing.

Don't give up after one call to a machine.

You are probably right, I shouldnt give up so easily. I guess after all this time I am new at dating again.
Advice taken, I will call again sometime next week and see what happens!

 

[brunswickite]

Good luck, on your call next week

 

[thebenjamins]

go for it, and if she says no, and she probably will, leave it.

 

[SaigonK]

Originally posted by: thebenjamins
go for it, and if she says no, and she probably will, leave it.

Of course..but thanks for the vote of confidence!