YAGT: ask her out???

[EngenZerO]

Originally posted by: homercles337
You dont have to go so far as asking her "out" (hey, you want to go to a movie and dinner this weekend?). Just approach her desk near quitting time, express job frustration, and say you cant wait to get outta there. Then say, "hey, why dont we go and ... " In my world that would be, "hey, why dont we go grab a drink for happy hour today." Works everytime.

she is 20, she can't drink...

thank you for the suggestion though

 

[WildHorse]

Hey Jude!
Take the risk of putting yourself out there & ASK HER OUT NOW!

How about to share dinner & movie?

Don't worry about her working at same place. Receptionists come & go almost like temps.

D O I T

Even if she says 'no' you'll feel better about yourself for having taken the initiative.

DO I T N O W.

 

[EatSpam]

Originally posted by: Muadib

Originally posted by: EngenZerO

Originally posted by: Muadib
And how the he@# is 20 vs 24 robbing the cradle?????:|:Q:disgust:

i dont know...

also... i found out she lives like 5 mins from my place. that is also disturbing, so maybe it really wasn't going all that out of her way to drop off my ring...

gah... too much thinking.

You're right, you are thinking too much!!! I don't care if she lived across the hall from you,
she didn't have to do what she did. Just do it!!! You know you want to, and she could be the best thing to ever happen to you.

I agree. She could easily have waited until the next work day to drop off your ring...

 

[meltdown75]

oh and btw... when I met my WIFE, I was 23 and she was 17... sure I checked the legal ramifications to make sure everything is ok first, but... everything worked out amazing in the end.

so she's definitely in your range. :thumbsup:

 

[EatSpam]

Originally posted by: fs5
co-workers are off limits. don't be silly.

Eh, only if company policy forbids it. I dated a coworker...it didn't work out, but no one got in trouble. It helped that we were both peons with no authority over anyone.

 

[EngenZerO]

bump

 

[Sheepathon]

Waited seven days and still haven't asked?

 

[EngenZerO]

Originally posted by: Sheepathon
Waited seven days and still haven't asked?

dude, I asked her today!!! better late than never...

 

[Appledrop]

where are those pics?

 

[Sukhoi]

Finally someone with balls!

 

[RaiderJ]

[standard reply]
If you gotta ask us for permission/support/advice/etc, you don't have enough balls to do whatever it is you want to do.
[/standard reply]

 

[EngenZerO]

Originally posted by: Azzy64
where are those pics?

dont have any yet!!!

 

[Yossarian]

dinner and shopping? wtf?

 

[EngenZerO]

Originally posted by: Yossarian
dinner and shopping? wtf?

Slid in the "I need girls advice for a graduation present for my sister. Plus, I figure we would have a good time chatting"

 

[EatSpam]

Originally posted by: EngenZerO

Originally posted by: Yossarian
dinner and shopping? wtf?

Slid in the "I need girls advice for a graduation present for my sister."

Good move. If you're at the mall, stop for coffee or ice cream.

 

[EngenZerO]

Originally posted by: EatSpam

Originally posted by: EngenZerO

Originally posted by: Yossarian
dinner and shopping? wtf?

Slid in the "I need girls advice for a graduation present for my sister."

Good move. If you're at the mall, stop for coffee or ice cream.

even better... there are tons of restuarants near by. either we eat before mall or after doesn't really matter.

 

[gigapet]

why is it so difficult for chicks to keep plans. Goshhh I hate that shit!

 

[EngenZerO]

Originally posted by: gigapet
why is it so difficult for chicks to keep plans. Goshhh I hate that shit!

oh well... fingers are crossed she doesn't bail tomorrow.

 

[EngenZerO]

bump... the crap!!!

 

[Ime]

Originally posted by: EngenZerO
bump... the crap!!!

My suggestion is to back off. Make her come to you next. She's canceled on you twice. If she's really interested she will come to you.

 

[Baked]

Cliff: She's a lying sack of sh!t and want nothing to do you. Forgetaboutit.

 

[EngenZerO]

Originally posted by: Ime

Originally posted by: EngenZerO
bump... the crap!!!

My suggestion is to back off. Make her come to you next. She's canceled on you twice. If she's really interested she will come to you.

this is the kicker... i never mentioned tonight again to her. she brought it up this morning when i came in. she then proceeds to say how me being here saved her from the shipping guy who is trying to mac her. then she rants about her brakes and asks for my opinion and asks if i would ocme out and listen to them. LOL.

I just don't care anymore. She will have to make the next move.

 

[Ime]

Originally posted by: EngenZerO

Originally posted by: Ime

Originally posted by: EngenZerO
bump... the crap!!!

My suggestion is to back off. Make her come to you next. She's canceled on you twice. If she's really interested she will come to you.

this is the kicker... i never mentioned tonight again to her. she brought it up this morning when i came in. she then proceeds to say how me being here saved her from the shipping guy who is trying to mac her. then she rants about her brakes and asks for my opinion and asks if i would ocme out and listen to them. LOL.

I just don't care anymore. She will have to make the next move.

Exactly. Though I highly suggest you not be hostile to her, not even passive aggressive. It's not worth it in the workplace. Just play it cool and let her make the next move. You've already made your displeasure clear when you bolted on her in the parking lot, so there's no need for you to do anything else but keep cool. Seriously.

 

[Malfeas]

She sounds annoying, but......don't make anymore moves until she unzips your pants. I agree with the others, let her make the decision.

 

[EngenZerO]

Originally posted by: Ime

Originally posted by: EngenZerO

Originally posted by: Ime

Originally posted by: EngenZerO
bump... the crap!!!

My suggestion is to back off. Make her come to you next. She's canceled on you twice. If she's really interested she will come to you.

this is the kicker... i never mentioned tonight again to her. she brought it up this morning when i came in. she then proceeds to say how me being here saved her from the shipping guy who is trying to mac her. then she rants about her brakes and asks for my opinion and asks if i would ocme out and listen to them. LOL.

I just don't care anymore. She will have to make the next move.

Exactly. Though I highly suggest you not be hostile to her, not even passive aggressive. It's not worth it in the workplace. Just play it cool and let her make the next move. You've already made your displeasure clear when you bolted on her in the parking lot, so there's no need for you to do anything else but keep cool. Seriously.

definitly, I am just going to still be my self and not take it personally. its not worth the stress.