Why are all of you people complaining so much? If you don't like what's in the media, IGNORE or TURN OFF the media.
While I'm not a "real man" in the old-western killing large animals singlehandedly sense, I'm not in the least bit a metrosexual either. I have some friends in both of those categories though, and I don't mind either way. SO WHAT if people want to be metrosexual right now? That's their thing. You can stick to yours; nobody's forcing you to do anything.
Furthermore, not all gays fit into the profile of effeminate man. I CAN be that way, but most of the time, I'm not.
And as for all of the gay TV shows out there... I see some of them dying off. Hopefully sooner, rather than later. I've watched Queer Eye a few times, but I'm not about to make it a regular practice. I watch Will & Grace as much as I can, but that's about it for gay shows. Most of my TV watching time (which is little anyway) is spent with CSI (1 or 2), Alias, The District, or Threat Matrix.
Now that I think about it, I do watch the Golden Girls quite a bit. :-/ My grandpa got me hooked on that 10 years ago. I think that he was a better "man" than most of you will ever be.