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Wow. My friend actually got married after 90 days...

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manlymatt83

Lifer
She was obsessed with me for a really long time. We last talked December 7th, 2010 on the phone, and she kept asking me when I was going to visit. Nothing would have ever worked out between us, but we had been friends for about 7 years, and she referred to me as her "best friend".

In any event, December 15th, she sends me a text that she had met the love of her life and was ENGAGED (note: no mention of this on our December 7th phone call, and I know for a fact she hadn't met him before the 7th). I didn't think they'd go through with it, but she stopped talking to almost everyone I know (me, our mutual friend, etc.) and January 1st, she set a wedding date of April 1st, and they went through with it... just got back from her honey moon.

Sorry, that to me is wayyy too soon.
 
Not so strange. I met my wife in October and married her in the middle of January. Of course it may not work out as we have only been married 28 years ... It could be just a very long fling.
 
manlymatt83 said:
Honestly? sad I never got to hit it. Anything more than that? nope.
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Hehe fair enough. But yeah, 90 days is awfully short. Makes a great story when i works out, but I'd be willing to bet it's rare. I wonder if someone has ever made a chart that plots courtship time against length of marriage.

Edit - best I could find was this vague article.
 
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manlymatt83 said:
Wow. My friend actually got married after 90 days....
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Sounds like your "friend" has issues.

She will probably squeeze out a couple of babies, divorce that guy, meet another, squeeze out another baby, leave that guy, meet someone else.

Maybe give her a tubal ligation for a Christmas present? That way she does not pass her issues down to her kids.
 
Texashiker said:
Sounds like your "friend" has issues.

She will probably squeeze out a couple of babies, divorce that guy, meet another, squeeze out another baby, leave that guy, meet someone else.

Maybe give her a tubal ligation for a Christmas present? That way she does not pass her issues down to her kids.
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I think it takes two consenting adults to marry. Not just her... You are assuming a lot.
 
Veliko said:
So what? Are you honestly trying to suggest that getting married 90 days after you meet someone is not stupid?
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Not in my experience. I have 28 years of proof. How many times have you been married? This was my first and only. However I did party quite a bit before I met her.

IMO, It depends on the two individuals involved.
Just my experience alone shows it isn't always stupid.
I will give you that sometimes it is stupid.
Sometimes it is stupid even after years of dating.

We don't know enough about them to make that call. Plus it is none of our choice to make.
 
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