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Would you want to have been born a girl?

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jlee said:
Ah, so if you were a girl you would become what you despise?

Get therapy, dude. Seriously.
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Of course I would but I was born a boy so since im a boy, that bothers me, they have the pleasure of giving hell. Not to mention they have the pleasure of being wanted.
 
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#1 - no, I am glad with how & who I am.

#2 - you sound like a very frustrated person,.. and you place the fault of that frustration on the fact that an other person has every right to accept/reject you. I suggest you chill out and learn to accept yourself, before you continue getting hung up on how others view you.
 
Dude,

You are sounding more and more like the guy who did very bad things at my daughters college.

You really need to get professional therapy.
 
Newell Steamer said:
#1 - no, I am glad with how & who I am.

#2 - you sound like a very frustrated person,.. and you place the fault of that frustration on the fact that an other person has every right to accept/reject you. I suggest you chill out and learn to accept yourself, before you continue getting hung up on how others view you.
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OP is getting a lot of good advice here. Hopefully he takes it to heart.
 
Mai72 said:
With a little bit of makeup you too can be a woman!

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Holy shit. Excuse me while I YANK MY SNAKE!
 
Maybe if I could be a super hot girl. It's a different world for the 10/10s of the world. Free travel, free food, free cars, free drinks, all based on the mere prospect of sex. Hell, you even get off easy for committing crimes. Sleep with a 14 year old? Probation. Kill your kid? Acquitted.

On the flip side, it's much better to be an average guy than an ugly girl. Or even an ugly guy than an ugly girl.
 
jlee said:
You think women don't ever want guys?

Heh.
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They do but they dont need to make any affort. Cuz boys always try to be around them so they can date someone whenever the fuck they want, unlike boys. Boys have to play the game according to the way girls want so as to have one of them
 
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Blackroat said:
They do but they dont need to make any affort. Cuz boys always try to be around them so they can date someone whenever the fuck they want, unlike boys. Boys have to play the game according to the way girls want so as to have one of them.
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You lack much understanding.


Also, women masturbate too.
 
Stopsignhank said:
Dude,

You are sounding more and more like the guy who did very bad things at my daughters college.

You really need to get professional therapy.
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Come to think of it I agree, he kinda is...

OP realize that guys do the same amount of rejecting that girls do. Have you been approached or interacted with a girl that you knew liked you/was in to you but you wanted nothing of it? That's rejection there.
 
Blackroat said:
They do but they dont need to make any affort. Cuz boys always try to be around them so they can date someone whenever the fuck they want, unlike boys. Boys have to play the game according to how girls want so as to have one of them.
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Umm, no, not even close. There are quite a lot of socially maladjusted women out there that can't get a guy. There are definitely plenty of women that get rejected just as often, I've rejected a number of them in my life.

The "game" you speak of is basic social skills, being able to treat a person (male or female) as a human being, not a sex target. Seriously, the issue is not that all women are conceited and take pleasure in rejecting men (there are those types out there, but not a large percent) - the issue is completely unrealistic expectations of outcomes from social interactions on your part.
 
1) Stop complaining.
2) Start lifting. Women don't want guys with low testosterone that look like them. Muscles are sexy to women as well.
3) Start a hobby that you love, like lifting. Women don't like guys without their own hobbies.

or

4) Become a woman. It will take thousands of dollars but it's possible.
 
Belegost said:
Umm, no, not even close. There are quite a lot of socially maladjusted women out there that can't get a guy. There are definitely plenty of women that get rejected just as often, I've rejected a number of them in my life.

The "game" you speak of is basic social skills, being able to treat a person (male or female) as a human being, not a sex target. Seriously, the issue is not that all women are conceited and take pleasure in rejecting men (there are those types out there, but not a large percent) - the issue is completely unrealistic expectations of outcomes from social interactions on your part.
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Those women should come to Turkey then, as long as their weights are not around 130 kilograms, they will have the pleasure of rejecting. If they are around 130 kilograms, then they may accept the first boy asking them to go out. As I said if their weights are not around 130 kilograms. As a turkish boy, ever since i was born, I havent been able to have a girlfriend. I am 24 years old and the only girl hand I did hold so far was my mother's hand when I was a child. So if I dont count my mother's hand, I never did hold a girl hand. I was not able to.
 
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Belegost said:
Umm, no, not even close. There are quite a lot of socially maladjusted women out there that can't get a guy. There are definitely plenty of women that get rejected just as often, I've rejected a number of them in my life.

The "game" you speak of is basic social skills, being able to treat a person (male or female) as a human being, not a sex target. Seriously, the issue is not that all women are conceited and take pleasure in rejecting men (there are those types out there, but not a large percent) - the issue is completely unrealistic expectations of outcomes from social interactions on your part.
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And one more thing. A girl never asks a boy to go out in turkey. Always boys ask them. So there is no way you can reject a girl here. You will ask them here.
 
BlitzPuppet said:
Come to think of it I agree, he kinda is...

OP realize that guys do the same amount of rejecting that girls do. Have you been approached or interacted with a girl that you knew liked you/was in to you but you wanted nothing of it? That's rejection there.
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In turkey a boy always asks a girl to go out. Girls never ask. So in turkey you cant reject a girl because you will be asking them, only girls have the pleasure of rejecting. Girls never ask. Always boys ask them here. Even if a girl wants to go out with you, she herself will never ask you. If you dont ask her, she will accept one of those who ask her because there would be plenty of boys asking her
 
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Blackroat said:
Those women should come to Turkey then, as long as their weights are not around 130 kilograms, they will have the pleasure of rejecting. If they are around 130 kilograms, then they may accept the first boy asking them to go out. As I said if their weights are not around 130 kilograms. As a turkish boy, ever since i was born, I havent been able to have a girlfriend. I am 24 years old and the only girl hand I did hold so far was my mother's hand when I was a child. So if I dont count my mother's hand, I never did hold a girl hand. I was not able to.
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This has to be a troll. Mods should check his IP.
 
Blackroat said:
In turkey a boy always asks a girl to go out. Girls never ask. So in turkey you cant reject a girl because you will be asking them, only girls have the pleasure of rejecting. Girls never ask. Alwaya boys ask them here.
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So girls in turkey don't even flirt with guys until after they're asked out?

Move out of Turkey then?
 
Blackroat said:
The point is that if you are a girl, at no point are you having such problems. If I was a girl, I would be conceited and give hell the ones trying to make a conversation with me. On my first day at university I had tried to talk to one of the conceited girls in my class and she had given me hell because I had tried to make a conversation with her. She was very conceited.
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You need to see a doctor.

If every woman is giving you a bad vibe then the problem is you and not them. This can probably be easily corrected with some effort on your part but you really need to stop crying out for help here and see a professional before you do something stupid.
 
doubledeluxe said:
You need to see a doctor.

If every woman is giving you a bad vibe then the problem is you and not them. This can probably be easily corrected with some effort on your part but you really need to stop crying out for help here and see a professional before you do something stupid.
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No. Most of them just dont talk. But in turkey even a girl who is not beatiful can be cobceited because of being a girl, not to mention how beatiful ones would be
 
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