AIM conversation between my fiancee and I.
her (3:32:11 PM): hello
me (3:32:13 PM): hi.
her (3:32:28 PM): the sink is clogged again
me (3:32:49 PM): Did you put those potoato skins down it?
her (3:33:12 PM): yes
her (3:33:16 PM): they were in the sink
me (3:33:40 PM): Yeah, didn't we agree not to put any vegetable skins down the garbage disposal?
her (3:34:13 PM): well, then you shouldn't put them in the sink. you should have thrown them away
me (3:34:53 PM): You could have just as easily picked them up out of the sink and thrown them away. Don't blame me because you put them down the garbage disposal.
her (3:35:34 PM): yes i will blame you
her (3:35:36 PM): so there
her (3:35:43 PM): now you have to fix it
her (3:36:00 PM): i wasn't going to stick my hand down the garbage disposal to pull them out because you threw them all in the sink
me (3:37:07 PM): So you threw away all the ones that were still in the sink, and just not the ones that had gone down the disposal already?
her (3:37:45 PM): whatever, just fix it when you get home okay?
me (3:41:40 PM): You fix the damn thing if you're going to act like this about it. It worked this morning when I left, it doesn't work now, I'm not the one who clogged it.
her (3:42:22 PM): i can't fix it, you know that
her (3:42:37 PM): don't be mean to me! i didn't mean to clog it
me (3:43:39 PM): I'm not upset because you clogged it, I'm upset because it took you about 12 seconds to blame me for it, and start telling me how it's MY fault.
her (3:43:57 PM):don't be mad at me!
her (3:44:16 PM):
me (3:44:56 PM): Don't blame me for things I didn't do and I wont get upset about it.
me (3:49:02 PM): It'd just be nice if when you asked me for help it was with an attitude like "I broke the sink, do you think you could help please?" rather than "You broke the sink, so you'd better fix it".