Which is honestly the point I'm at with you.
I am sorry you feel that way. That is not my intent.
But yeah good luck with whatever you hoped to accomplish in this thread.
How many post have been made in this forum bashing poor people for having too many kids (you do not have to answer that)?
Chances there are a lot of threads and post about welfare, and poor families having more kids then they can afford. I wonder how many thousands, tens of thousands of post have been made about welfare, food stamps, welfare moms squeezing out more kids,,,,.
I have presented you with my step-daughter who is using an IUD, but wants a more permanent and long term solution. She and her husband simply can not afford to have any more kids. But neither can they afford the tubal.
What about her husband getting cut? I do not know if they will be together in 5 years. I think she is planning on her future and not his. If they split up this way she will not have an accident 5 or 10 years down the road.